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-J-R-M-

34 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:22am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
That feeling where the thing you're doing right now is the only thought in your head -- yeah. The rest of life is just killing time in between.

For work I do big science and love it.

For fun it's social urban stuff (music, food, dancing), or physical outdoor stuff (climbing, skiing, surfing, biking). For real though -- not really interested in climbing gym dates.

I'm Really REALLY good at Saturdays.

GGG, switchy, creative and intelligent. Christ there should be checkboxes for this. Oh wait there's a different site for that.

So much for profiles... we're all way too complex for a couple paragraphs to be that useful. A conversation is way more fun. Like the man said, "I am large, I contain multitudes." We all do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moved to SF a little while ago -- building a new life! Loving every minute of it.

Climbing a lot. Learning to surf.

Helping people to have healthy kids and avoid cancer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the fun in things. Perceiving and describing the world. Understanding where people are coming from and where they're trying to get to. Making pragmatic choices. Pushing boundaries. Things that take balance, precision and sometimes speed, like skiing or climbing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile, unbridled optimism, nice butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Big giant pop-culture splat:

Music: Recently clicked into the burgeoning Garage Rock scene, so lately: Thee Oh Sees, Dirty Beaches, King Kahn, Parquet Courts, and tons of other stuff the internet throws at me.

Classic stuff: Bowie, Eno, Rufus, Iron and Wine, Nick Drake, Nick Cave, the Velvet Underground, Lou Reed, the Yardbirds, the Black Keys, Led Zeppelin, Gary Numan, Joy Division, Vampire Weekend, Simon & Garfunkel, !!!, Lady GaGa, the Mermen, the Ventures, Dick Dale, Robert Fripp, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Herbie Mann, Charlie Parker, getting into delta blues finally (Junior Kimbrough, RL Burnside), ... (http://www.last.fm/user/mr_choronzon for way too much detail)

Movies: There Will Be Blood, Blade Runner, Moon, Minority Report, 12 Angry Men, the Manchurian Candidate, Gilliam, Lynch, Kubrick, Hitchcock, 80's&90's action movies (you know you love 'em).

Books: Tom Wolfe (right stuff, kool-aid), Ken Kesey, William Gibson, Childhood's End, Lord of Light, Stranger in a Strange Land, embarrassing amounts of 1940's-1980's science fiction, Chuang Tzu, Lao Tzu

Food: Sea (every kind), Indian, Thai, Ethiopian, Spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Fun
2. Something useful to do
3. Friends
4. Health
5. Adventure
6. Love, romance, chemistry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
City weekend or a country weekend?
What can be done to make things even better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner party with friends in the city, drinks out on the town, home reading a book, or packing up the car and heading for the mountains or the sea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an anthropologist from outer space, and you'll (unknowingly) be the star of a reality show on my home planet. You'll be famous! (on Rigel seven). Sorry, no royalties though.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're confident, self-reliant, challenging, creative, and fun.

You're comfortable with yourself, and your baseline state is happy.

You're an expert skier, good climber, or good surfer who's willing to put up with a kook in training. (say 'hi' even if you're not interested in a date -- I need more adventure friends!)

You prefer having a conversation to reading profiles.