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43 • M • Brooklyn, NY
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 28–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 10:08am
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs
I recently told the local Williamsburg Chase bank rep "I need to be free. I want to ride a motorcycle across Europe," in response to an attempt to get me to open a saving account.
I've just started a ceramics class. Apparently I'm good.
Lately people are asking me if Bryan Ferry is my father? No, my father's name was Harry.
Movies- I like them old, black and white, foreign, documentaries, you name it. Hitchcock doesn't get enough credit for being funny. Douglas Sirk, John Houston, Busby Berkeley, Bergman, Ozu, okay I'm a film nerd. I'd live in a movie theater if they let me. Hiroshima Mon Amour is the most perfect movie ever made.
Art- Ed Ruscha, Brassaï, William Kentridge, Reginald Marsh, Nam June Paik, Josef Cornell (films), Tim Hawkinson, Christian Marclay, James Turrell, Yael Bartana, Garry Hill, Stan Douglas, even Douglas Gordon, Elizabeth Price seems pretty amazing, Cyprien Gaillard.
Biographies- Emma Goldman, Pablo Neruda, Luis Buñuel- now reading the autobiography of Bertrand Russell.
Nonfiction-recently read The New Jim Crow. It's a must read if you care about humans. Steven Pinker, Richard Dawkins, Ben Goldacre, Daniel Dennett, Noam Chomsky, Jon Ronson, Bill Bryson
Short stories- David Sedaris, Dorothy Parker, Raymond Carver, E.L. Doctorow
Fiction- Dune by Frank Herbert is one of my favorites. Of course I've read and enjoyed Gabriel Garcia Marquez. I like Paul Auster a lot. Really looking forward to the new Cormac McCarthy book. I like historical fictions about Roman empire. If anyone out there can recommend a book half as good as I Claudius please step up and say something.
Music- To name a few- Townes Van Zandt, Arvo Pärt, Gilberto Gil, Pablo Casals, ancient Swedish pastoral music, Joni Mitchell, Duke Ellington!! Moondog, Michael Hurley, Marvin Gaye, Bob Dylan, Radiohead, Kraftwerk. When I was 14 I almost got a David Bowie tattoo. Glad I didn't. Also I realized recently that I have nearly every Smiths song lyric still memorized from my edgy teen years.
Food- I find cooking for myself boring but I love to cook for others.
I'm on Instagram : b_u_t_c_h_e_r
If there was a fire I'd grab -
My viking ship painting
Family photos (I have negatives from the 19th century)
My Crown Graphic
Everything else can burn.
It should be noted that I'd rather listen to someone go on about Jesus and the miracles of the bible than hear anything about homeopathy, reflexology, naturopathy, reiki healing or other such nonsense.
Write me if you've been angered because I insulted your reflexology practice, because despite your fury, you've made it all the way down to the bottom of this profile and maybe that means we're meant for each other.
Also- must be able to run fast if there's danger.
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