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31 Bracknell, UK Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 11:27am
Straight, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English, Japanese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Rich in laughter & life, out to meet other positive, creative types that enjoy any intelligent, innovative and beautiful stuffs. Art, health, permaculture, psychedelics, cooking, parties, language. I'm big on learning and skill exchange, if just fun games - the world is a curious and intriguing place. My favourite quote and a key guiding principle in my life is Bob Marley's "The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he aquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively". Whether or not I live up to this is for others to decide, but I reckon I do a PRETTY GOOD JOB.

OKC reckons I'm more sloppy than average and less love driven, but while I usually admire their algorithms, I would argue that societies priorities and the paradigm of these concepts is pretty distorted. We learn from mistakes, so I'd rather get out there and experience life than stand back and worry how I can make things perfect. And Love? I'm all for emotional involvement if it feels right, just I'm more about appreciation and compersion than possession. I lean toward sex positivity where communication and respecting boundaries are integral. In case that's not clear, by nature I prefer practising forms of ethical non-monogamy and admire relationship anarchy.

Ultimately life is a bit of an oddity and as much as people seem to project otherwise, I don't think anyone really has a proper grasp of what's going on. I often find awkward situations and mini catastrophes highly amusing. I enjoy self deprecating humour and a bit of light hearted fun, because none of us are getting out of this alive at the end of the day. Life isn't perfect and if you can walk from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm then you're doing it right. Manners don't cost a thing and so long as you treat people well and be there for them when they need it then I think that's what matters.

In a nutshell, I like CULTURE, MISCHIEF, HUGS and FUN.
What I’m doing with my life
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Have recently returned from travels where among other things, I enjoyed scuba diving, learning massage & using the gym for a dollar or two a go in Asia. I also spent a month at the Permaculture Research Institute in Aus and have just started a course with the Royal Horticulture Society back in the UK. Ultimately I'd like to transition into production rather than consumption and live a more sustainable life. Currently living between my friends house, my parents, and an awesome camper conversion I purchased in August. With the cost of this camper, travel, course fees, and the fact I can only work part time now, my finances are pretty dire to say the least. In any case, I'm heading forward in a direction I can confidently say is true to myself and I'm really happy with how things are unfolding.

I typically enjoy meets, meals, movies & live local music with friends. Lifetime membership with the National Trust, I like a bit of adventure - places with historical / geographical interest & finding an old hidden pub with lots of character on the way is a nice bonus. A year going by without any of the following would be pretty dull for me: Festivals, camping, bonfires, raves / duffs, forests, trekking, mountains, I party, anime's good, gaming more a past-time but does a good job of bringing me back to it. Podcasts and debates on science and philosophy are great to have when doing activities which don't involve too much thought such as walking or constructing garden beds. I enjoy learning about mycology, space, quantum stuff and have recently been playing chess. There's a wealth of stuff out there & I'm never bored.
I like to bridge social connections & make things happen.
Always interested in different activities and ways of living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a morning ritual - I call it "The Terminator". First I crouch down in the shower in the classic "naked Terminator travelling through time" pose. With my eyes closed I crouch there for a minute, visualizing Arnold and I start to hum the Terminator theme. Then I slowly rise to a standing position and open my eyes. It helps me to proceed through my day as an emotionless, cyborg badass. The only problem is if the shower curtain sticks to my Terminator leg. It ruins the fantasy.

Reclaiming my mind from the hands of cultural engineers, who want to turn me into a half-baked moron consuming all this trash that's being manufactured out of the bones of a dying world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Dnb, particularly liquid / atmospheric dnb. To that end, everything on the Good Looking Records label, Big Bud, LTJ Bukem, PFM have some sublime material. Neuro and Ultrafunk.
90's Pop / Dance
Metal is so diverse and I love it all.. Power, folk, battle, viking, pagan, black, death, melodeath, thrash, gothic, progressive, funeral, stoner, various acoustic bits.. Metalcore and flailing arm nonsense doesn't do it for me. Nu-Metal.. not so good either, couple of exceptions. If I go for rap metal it'll be more along the lines of RATM.
Punk and skatepunk, metal / punk crossover
Hip Hop
All kinds of ambient
Psybient for those trippy moments
Trance & PsyTrance - Love Whirly Gig, Tribe of Frog, been meaning to hit up Planet Angel for some time.
Reggae, alone is brilliant, crossed over with dnb.. oh my word!
Techno, particularly minimal, breakbeat styled stuff
House, particularly funky & stuff with more energy, I like a bit of deep house, witch house seems interesting, I've gone off the old acid house as it just seems dated these days
Happy Hardcore! Hixxy, Vibes are favourites, Dougal did a fine set at Bangface 2013 so he deserves a mention.

Over my life I've played the piano on and off - I like to compose music & I'm making slow progress with Cubase and music production.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity, and various geo-politics that I've snipped out an already heaving profile.

How I can be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
tremendous, thank you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One emotionally confused morning over my mates house I shed a tear to the end of Cool Runnings.. You know that bit where they've crashed and one of them's like 'You dead mon', and the other guys like 'no mon', then they carry their bobsleigh to the finish on their shoulders.

"They're so brave" I thought.

I was on a bit of a comedown.
You should message me if
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something about me resonates true to yourself. Photos with big smiles, friends and a natural setting are favoured, but introverts that have something to say for themselves are also welcome. If you're educated enough to understand alcohol is a drug then this certainly helps. Passionate, affectionate people and those who can communicate effectively are highly desired.

General enthusiasm is a big plus in what I'm looking for in others, people that contribute to the world in their own way. Like me you should be keen to meet people sooner than later - I carry the mindset that profiles are enough to gauge whether meeting is agreeable, without the need for more than a couple of messages. I'm human, approachable, and wouldn't be on here if I weren't interested in meeting people. So, please go for it and get in touch ;)

Also message me if you like hardcore german sparkle parties

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