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30 M Bracknell, United Kingdom

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Rich in love, laughter & life, out to meet others sharing the appreciation of these wonderful things. I have some great friends but really enjoy meeting new people and chatting to randoms - Sometimes it's more fun to mix things up than stick to set social circles. I think our bodies are incredible machines and like to look after myself. It's all about eating good food and the buzz you get off exercise - the natural high of a healthy lifestyle is empowering.

I like to dish out and take a bit of sarcasm, innuendos, dry-humour and cheekiness. Appreciation, support and expression are always high on my agenda. Gratitude needs a bit more work. I make an effort with self development, though I'm a ways off from finding my path in life. Confident in my sense of self, but learning to leave my ego at the door. Try not to criticize because I appreciate there are things I can improve with myself. Life has many stresses, I'm not naive to them - but like a puppy with unconditional love for the world, that can chase its tail all day, and refuses to give up its bone when you grab it - I embody that over the doom and gloom any day.

I have a lot to give to the right people and hope to make some great connections through this site and in life. I'm balanced and content with friendships, if anything more feels right, fantastic! Not out for quick flings or an easy lay, I'm after lasting connections with good people. I believe in compersion - for me love is about appreciation, not possession. I am cisgendered, sapiosexual and ethically non-monogamous. I generally prefer relationships based on promoting growth rather than setting down restrictions. I recognise with anything between people, communication & respecting boundaries are integral. Companionship, loving and being loved are wonderful.. I'm also looking for love that doesn't involve sex, there's so many awesome dynamics to chemistry when you meet certain people. I'm an open book & happy to talk further or answer any questions.

In a nutshell, I like CULTURE, MISCHIEF and FUN.
What I’m doing with my life
Meets, meals, movies & live local music with friends. Hacking back the masses of overgrowth in my garden. Lifetime membership with the National Trust, I enjoy a bit of adventure - places with historical / geographical interest & finding an old hidden pub with lots of character on the way is a nice bonus. Festivals, mountains, I party, and despite knee surgery, dislocating my arm three times and having a chunk missing out the humerus, I still hammer out the skateboarding. Anime's good, fallen out the loop for modern gaming but occasionally dust off the Megadrive, N64 or Gamecube. Recently played Titanfall on Xbox one.. totally blown away. Don't want to get too involved with gaming because it can eat up so much time though! There's a wealth of stuff out there & I'm never bored.
I like to bridge social connections & make things happen.
Always interested in different activities and ways of living.

Drugs? Not so much anymore, but can't hurt to occasionally right? There's always harm reduction. At the very least I believe David Nutt & the ISCD over shitty mainstream propaganda. Leah Betts "It only takes once"? Give me a break mate. How many generations can this nonsense be kept up? Legalise, educate, regulate, medicate - Lets be realistic, prohibition is not the answer and the benefits gained in more liberal countries are apparent.

Until recently I worked in Logistics for eight years, and though confident in my role, work has never played a significant part in my life other than stability and financial independence. I hope travel will stimulate openings and generate new possibilities for me. In time I'd like to get myself more involved with permaculture, music production, stencil art / graff, activism. I'm based in Bracknell but do like to socially float around places like Reading, Brighton & London. It's always good to have contacts in different places so distance isn't an issue, but naturally one must have realistic expectations with those further connections.

I like to put bananas in my mouth suggestively at work.

Reclaiming my mind from the hands of cultural engineers, who want to turn me into a half-baked moron, consuming all this trash that's being manufactured out of the bones of a dying world.
I’m really good at
I have a morning ritual - I call it "The Terminator". First I crouch down in the shower in the classic "naked Terminator travelling through time" pose. With my eyes closed I crouch there for a minute, visualizing Arnold and I start to hum the Terminator theme. Then I slowly rise to a standing position and open my eyes. It helps me to proceed through my day as an emotionless, cyborg badass. The only problem is if the shower curtain sticks to my Terminator leg. It ruins the fantasy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Broad appreciation of music plays a huge role in my life, I will be revisiting this section very soon to throw up some links.

Dnb, particularly liquid / atmospheric dnb. To that end, everything on the Good Looking Records label, Big Bud, LTJ Bukem, PMF have some sublime music. Have recently taken a massive liking to neurofunk and ultrafunk.
90's Pop / Dance
Metal. Quite possibly the most diverse genre out there. Power, folk, viking, black, death, thrash, melodic, progressive, funeral, stoner.. I love it all! None of that Metalcore and flailing arm nonsense though, thanks. Nu-Metal.. not so good either, couple of exceptions. If I go for rap metal it'll be more along the lines of RATM.
Ambient Electro
Trance & PsyTrance - Love Whirly Gig, Tribe of Frog, been meaning to hit up Planet Angel for some time.
House, particularly funky & stuff with more energy, I like a bit of deep house & old-school acid house
Happy Hardcore! Hixxy, Vibes are favourites, Dougal did a fine set at Bangface 2013 so he deserves a mention.

Over my life I've played the piano on and off - I like to compose music & I'm looking to familiarise myself with Cubase and music production.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The old rumpscuttle and clapperdepouch.

Life is cruel and beautiful, there isn't a day go by where I don't appreciate the incredible quality of life I have. I believe it's important to recognise that anyone reading this is likely doing better than 90% of the worlds population. It comes at a high cost where our iphones are constructed in part by children at labour camps in China, the precious metals in our catalytic converter / computer were extracted from some war torn, post colonial part of Africa where our insatiable appetite for materials is devestating peoples lives, and then there's palm oil, fracking and it just goes on doesn't it? Yes it does. Pretty heart-breaking all of it and I guess it's convenient to just get on with life turning a blind eye to it all. But I don't want to turn a blind eye to it all, I stay positive but receptive.

Over time I hope to acquire the skills, knowledge, friend base and structure to be the change I want to see in the world. Of course, everyone wants a revolution, but not many people are prepared to change themselves. In this journey I'm having immense fun and hope to learn from others while I influence in my own way.

I also think about why my G-spot in my bum?
On a typical Friday night I am
tremendous, thank you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
One emotionally confused morning over my mates house I shed a tear to the end of Cool Runnings.. You know that bit where they've crashed and one of them's like 'You dead mon', and the other guys like 'no mon', then they carry their bobsleigh to the finish on their shoulders.

"They're so brave" I thought.

I was on a bit of a comedown.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
something about me resonates true to yourself. You have photos that include big smiles, friends and a natural setting. You can type out sentences that look like your fingers are still intact, and like me you're keen to arrange a meet sooner than later. General enthusiasm is a big plus in what I'm looking for in others. As far as dating goes, I usually prefer women who make my cock hard and not my life, and I fucking love snuggles! So it helps if you do too :)

Also message me if you like hardcore german sparkle parties