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30 M Bracknell, UK

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  • Ages 18–99
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Rich in love, laughter & life, out to meet other positive, creative types that enjoy group projects, learning and / or achieving stuffs in the form of art, health, parties, permaculture or a mixture of the above.

I have a lot to give to the right people and hope to make some great connections through this site and in life. I'm balanced and content with friendships, if anything more feels right, fantastic! Not out for quick flings or an easy lay, I'm after lasting connections with good people. I believe in compersion - appreciation, not possession. I am cisgendered, sapiosexual and ethically non-monogamous. I generally prefer focus on promoting growth rather than setting down restrictions. I recognise with anything between people, communication & respecting boundaries are integral. Companionship, loving and being loved are wonderful.. I'm also looking for love that doesn't involve sex, there's so many awesome dynamics to chemistry when you meet certain people. I'm an open book & happy to talk further or answer any questions.

In a nutshell, I like CULTURE, MISCHIEF and FUN.
What I’m doing with my life
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Meets, meals, movies & live local music with friends. Hacking back the masses of overgrowth in my garden. Lifetime membership with the National Trust, I enjoy a bit of adventure - places with historical / geographical interest & finding an old hidden pub with lots of character on the way is a nice bonus. Festivals, mountains, I party, and despite knee surgery, dislocating my arm three times and having a chunk missing out the humerus, I still hammer out the skateboarding. Anime's good, gaming a past-time but not what I'm looking for in people moving forward.. There's a wealth of stuff out there & I'm never bored.
I like to bridge social connections & make things happen.
Always interested in different activities and ways of living. Reclaiming my mind from the hands of cultural engineers, who want to turn me into a half-baked moron consuming all this trash that's being manufactured out of the bones of a dying world. Hallucinogens and laughing gas - YES.

Until recently I worked in Logistics for eight years, and though confident in my role, work has never played a significant part in my life other than stability and financial independence. Travel, study, connections will stimulate openings and generate new possibilities for me. I'm based in Bracknell but do like to socially float around places like Reading, Brighton & London. It's always good to have contacts in different places so distance isn't an issue, but naturally one must have realistic expectations with those further connections.

I like to put bananas in my mouth suggestively while maintaining intense eye contact.
I’m really good at
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I have a morning ritual - I call it "The Terminator". First I crouch down in the shower in the classic "naked Terminator travelling through time" pose. With my eyes closed I crouch there for a minute, visualizing Arnold and I start to hum the Terminator theme. Then I slowly rise to a standing position and open my eyes. It helps me to proceed through my day as an emotionless, cyborg badass. The only problem is if the shower curtain sticks to my Terminator leg. It ruins the fantasy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Always on the lookout to exchange good mixes & new music. If you contribute anything musically or are passionate, please get in touch.

Dnb, particularly liquid / atmospheric dnb. To that end, everything on the Good Looking Records label, Big Bud, LTJ Bukem, PFM have some sublime music. Have recently taken a massive liking to neurofunk and ultrafunk.
90's Pop / Dance
Metal is so diverse and I love it all.. Power, folk, battle, viking, pagan, black, death, melodeath, thrash, gothic, progressive, funeral, stoner, various acoustic bits.. Metalcore and flailing arm nonsense doesn't count as Metal though, thanks. I'll have none of that. Nu-Metal.. not so good either, couple of exceptions. If I go for rap metal it'll be more along the lines of RATM.
Punk and skatepunk, metal / punk crossover
All kinds of ambient
Trance & PsyTrance - Love Whirly Gig, Tribe of Frog, been meaning to hit up Planet Angel for some time.
Reggae, alone is brilliant, crossed over with dnb.. oh my word!
Techno, particularly minimal, breakbeat styled stuff
House, particularly funky & stuff with more energy, I like a bit of deep house & old-school acid house
Happy Hardcore! Hixxy, Vibes are favourites, Dougal did a fine set at Bangface 2013 so he deserves a mention.

Over my life I've played the piano on and off - I like to compose music & I'm looking to familiarise myself with Cubase and music production.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity, and various geo-politics that I've snipped out an already heaving profile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
tremendous, thank you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One emotionally confused morning over my mates house I shed a tear to the end of Cool Runnings.. You know that bit where they've crashed and one of them's like 'You dead mon', and the other guys like 'no mon', then they carry their bobsleigh to the finish on their shoulders.

"They're so brave" I thought.

I was on a bit of a comedown.
You should message me if
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something about me resonates true to yourself. You have photos that include big smiles, friends and a natural setting. You can type out sentences that look like your fingers are still intact, and have something more to say than 'You have nice hair x' (cool story bro) or other one liners.

General enthusiasm is a big plus in what I'm looking for in others, people that contribute to the world in their own way. I respond well to those who have mutual interests and base conversation round that, and I have mad respect for people who know what they want and can communicate that directly. Like me you should be keen to meet people sooner than later.

Also message me if you like hardcore german sparkle parties, or if you're equally as disillusioned with much of the world and think many societal values are completely fucked.