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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 13, 2013
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on University
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
( So, i wonder if i've been too honest, or just not lied well enough? )
Happily and successfully poly, I want to safely and intelligently encounter smart sexy like minded women who understand drama-free does not mean 'with out passion'. I am not looking for random hookups. I am looking for friends that share their lives and the hearts, but understand boundaries and stipulations.

I am creative to excess,forth right to a fault,and believe in kissing during sex. I am a liberal veteran but a conservative liberal; i like to think i'm a realist, with experience.

I've traveled the world and yet found happiness in the stillness of home. I love adventure but never take a camera.

If i could capture my whole in 100 words, i would feel empty and shallow.

Ask me, I'll tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to live it, one day at ah time. While never forgetting there is a tomorrow and a yesterday. I try to add value every day. To my life and to the lives of those whom mater.
This is the goal, some days it works and some days it doesn't. I don't get wrapped around the axle if its hard, or if it hardly works. It just means ill try again tomorrow.

On top of these things..i am
a hobby metal worker
building a sustainable garden
getting back into fighting shape
trying to create every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Multi-sided conversations
creative problem solving
working out side the box
making the cat purr
metal working
basic house keeping when needed
rewatching favored movies
not giving up
finding silver linings
understanding 'the other side'
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate spelling.

That i'm abrasive,out spoken,argumentative,and own too many black tee shirts.

Then they get to know me, and find out there is reasons for all of it. That i care deeply and truly, that i stand up for what i believe in and will be passionate about defending it. That i don't take anything at face value, and that i'll love first and fight for it to the last.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

lets just leave it at.

Yes i read, Yes i own a few DVDs, Yes i enjoy theartor, and Yes i enjoy good food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
so..besides shelter,love,food,water and air?
I don't know..i feel i kinda need my friends.
kinda need goals..
creative expression..i have to be able to make something!
alil kink..PBnJ sandwiches get old if you have them everyday.
Spell check..its my savior.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Rather i spend alot of time doing. Doesn't mean i wont find time to do anything else, nor make time to do whats important, nor stop any of it to spend it with those i care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Normally i'm double checking every thing for the weekend, or already out the door.

I love new movies, but can't stand the crowds of release night, and i havn't been 'clubing' in years ( and i only miss the music ).

What i NEVER do Friday nights is sit around wishing i was doing something else. Either goofing off, romanticizing, driving to an event, or spending quality time at home. Its right where i wana be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a thing for women...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smart sexy and like minded.
You can put the Star Wars movies in order.
You are willing to share your life and the heart, but understand boundaries and stipulations.
Find any of the above interesting, and want to know more.