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  • Ages 18-34
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 5" (1.66m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Since OK Cupid studies show that most people don't read these descriptions, I'll get right to it - if you wanna snuggle and talk philosophy, geek on science while touching each others bodies, dissect culture and egos, or just toke up and wax poetic naked in the sun, send me a message and let's explore each other. Feel free to be explicit about your interests and intentions in your message - and please do message; OKC doesn't show me if you only 'like' my profile.*

And here's the rest of my way-too-long profile:

I'm a world-traveling, sound-designing, concert-going, nude-sun-bathing, generally rad guy with an active sense of wonder and a genuine heart. I love live music, festivals, and cons/expos of all kinds. I'm a musician, performer, dancer, and lover of life with a strong sense of compassion and love for myself and others.

I feel home when living near forests, mountains, and oceans. I'm interested in self-knowledge, divergent thinking, science, logic, philosophy, travel, history, psychology, and creating. I also enjoy living room dance parties, karaoke nights, Muppet movies, Mario Kart time trials, and Courtney Love-style nylon-tears interspersed with an abundance of wine and pizza.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After very thriftily living off savings in China, Thailand, India, and Japan for a couple years, I moved back to the PNW where I now compose and design audio for video games. My other musical endeavors include singing for EDM producers and progressive metal bands, composing chiptunes, and writing singer/songwriter stuff. Here are some of my tunes:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Swerving when I see mud puddles so I can splash water with the force of eighty-five horses.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hopefully, my fantastic mane of curly hair, well-kept beard, and infectious smile. But probably my weird Asian-looking pants, jika-tabi shoes, and the scent of sandalwood.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Progressive rock, EDM, jazz, folk, djent, video game music, and anything with emotive melodies. Some favorites are TesseracT, Rishloo, Zedd, Ella Fitzgerald, Jim Croce, Mother Mother, Cloud Cult, A Perfect Circle, FTM, Tracy Chapman, America, Chet Baker, Symphony of Science...

I enjoy both tabletop and video games. Mostly stuff like Settlers, 7 Wonders, etc. And for video games, I'm most fond of NES, SNES, N64, and other old-school games, but I've been taken in by many modern indie games, such as Bastion, Portal, Stanley Parable, Papers Please, and things you'd find featured in the PAX 10.

Pizza, microbrews, wine, Thai iced tea, masala chai, horchata, Mexican, Japanese, Thai, American, Indian, German, and occasionally, Taco Bell food-substitute.

M.C. Escher is my all-time fave. I also enjoy pop-art, surrealism, and other modern art. Some favorites include Dali, Picasso, Van Gogh, Duchamp, Warhol, Haring, Mondrian, Pollock, Toulouse-Lautrec, & Rothko. Museum trips are an all-day activity for me.

Miyazaki, V for Vendetta, Eternal Sunshine..., Shawshank Redemption, What Dreams May Come, Scott Pilgrim... I also dig any Muppet movie or legendary 80s/90s film, especially Labyrinth, The Goonies, The Sandlot, The Neverending Story, & The Princess Bride. And Rad... that movie is seriously rad.

I mostly read non-fiction books and articles, specifically those about economics, philosophy, game audio, psychology, parenting, history, science, and self-knowledge. A few favorite authors include Carl Sagan, Richard Dawkins, Ray Bradbury, George Orwell, Thomas Woods, & H.G. Wells, and Winifred Phillips.

Rick and Morty for 100 years..., Game of Thrones, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Firefly, Steven Universe, Adventure Time, South Park, Pen & Teller: Bullshit, MythBusters, and anything about science, psychology, or economics.

School Sucks Podcast, Freakonomics, Radiolab, The Tim Ferris Show, and the Beards, Cats, & Indie Game Audio Podcast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Touch, Creativity, Nature, Music, Dancing, and Sunshine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music. Everything is music. Every sound is a song. And they're all in my head, all at once.
How to be more rational, logical, compassionate, and self-aware. And what the price might be for a plane ticket to anywhere in SE Asia.
Also, the finite nature of life and how someday I'll completely cease to exist. That's always a weird one, but I'm learning to turn that fear into appreciation for the great fortune I have to be living right now... and as a human being! With a body! Bodies are amazing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preferably: Performing or seeing a show, dancing, singing karaoke, dumpster diving, or maybe enjoying pizza, beer/weed with some co-op gaming, audio spirals, and/or Muppets from Space.
What usually happens: Finishing a bottle of wine while recording and editing a bunch of sounds that will later be put in a video game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was the kid in the 90s with the 'rat tail.'
You should message me if
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You feel moved to do so, you want somebody to come snuggle you and drink wine together, you just need some light physical play, or you want to discuss gene theory or economics naked over Indian food. I'm serious about all of this.

Most importantly, message me if you're rad, honest, rational, and you have stories to tell and ideas to share. You're on a continual path of growth and you give both yourself and others love and compassion. You enjoy being totally goofy/nerdy, you like going to festivals, concerts, and cons, or you're a dumpster diver. You have colorful hair, you're a cosplayer, or you're a self-proclaimed nerd. You don't care for the gender binary. You take care of your body. Also, I tend to prefer cute over hot. Being both is wicked awesome.

I only engage in mutually-beneficial, voluntary relationships with fun, caring, logical people, so send me a message if that's you!