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31 M Stayton, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–34
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Thai (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Note: I'm in a long-distance, open-relationship, so I'm only seeking friends, cuddle partners, and minimal physical romance for the time being. But if you're a good snuggler, totally hit me up and let's watch something / talk philosophy / drink wine and snuggle the night away!*

I'm a world-traveling, retro-gaming, concert-going, nude-sun-bathing, microbrew-drinking, generally rad guy with an active sense of wonder and a genuine heart. I love live music, festivals, and cons/expos of all kinds. I'm a musician, performer, dancer, artist, and lover of life with a strong sense of compassion and love for myself and others.

Beautiful, natural environments are critical to my survival; I love living near forests, mountains, and oceans, and I really enjoy outdoor activities. I'm interested in self-knowledge, divergent thinking, economics, science, creating, logic, art, philosophy, travel, photography, peaceful parenting, fashion, design, micro-brews, history, cosplay, fonts, psychology, and video games (especially retro-gaming). I also enjoy impromptu, living room dance parties, karaoke nights, Muppet movies, Mario Kart time trials, and Courtney Love-style nylon-tears interspersed with an abundance of microbrews and pizza.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I used to be a normal person with a career, but then I caught a glimpse of the box I existed within and decided it was high time to get out. So I bought a one-way ticket to China and set out on an adventure to learn more about myself and grow as an individual.

After living in and traveling through Asia for a year, I moved to Seattle for a season where I worked on music composition and recording (hear some of my projects at or at While in Seattle, I met my current partner, with whom I moved back to Asia last year. After a year living in Thailand, India, and Japan, we moved back to the PNW where I'm currently composing chiptunes, singing for EDM producers and progressive metal bands, and learning video game music production.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Swerving when I see mud puddles so I can splash water with the force of eighty-five horses. I'm pretty good at composing, recording, and performing music, as well as singing and dancing. I'm also good at listening, caring, hugging, and snuggling.
Oh, and wearing dresses - I look damn good in a dress and heels.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fantastic mane of curly hair, a well-kept beard, and an infectious smile, so those are probably the first things a person notices about me physically. I'm also very friendly, easy to talk to, and I love to laugh, which are the things, I imagine, that a person notices immediately after the first things I described.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Bam. Sub-sectioned.

Miyazaki, documentaries, V for Vendetta, Eternal Sunshine..., Requiem for a Dream, Shawshank Redemption, What Dreams May Come, and other thought-provoking films. I also dig any Muppet movie or legendary 80s/90s film, especially Labyrinth, The Goonies, The Sandlot, The Neverending Story, or my all-time favorite: The Princess Bride. "Anybody wanna peanut?"

Progressive rock, EDM, jazz, djent, bluegrass, downtempo, prog metal, world, and anything with emotive melodies. Some favorites are Karnivool, TesseracT, Rishloo, FTM, Zeds Dead, Ella Fitzgerald, Jim Croce, Mother Mother, Skrillex, A Perfect Circle, Imogen Heap, Copeland, Dream Theater, DCFC, Radiohead, Tracy Chapman, America, Chet Baker, Symphony of Science, Portishead...

Pizza, microbrews, Thai iced tea, horchata, kombucha, ice cream, Mexican, Japanese, Thai, American, Italian, Indian, Middle Eastern, German, and occasionally, Taco Bell food-substitute.

My all-time favorite artist is M.C. Escher. I also enjoy a lot of pop-art, surrealism, and other modern art. Some favorites include Dali, Picasso, Van Gogh, Duchamp, Warhol, Haring, Mondrian, Lichtenstein, Pollock, Toulouse-Lautrec, Rothko, and Lee Bull. I love museums like I love live music.

I mostly enjoy non-fiction books and articles, specifically those about economics, parenting, philosophy, psychology, history, science, epigenetics, voluntarism, languages, and self-knowledge. A few favorite authors include Carl Sagan, Richard Dawkins, Ray Bradbury, George Orwell, Thomas Woods, H.G. Wells, Christopher Hitchens, Murray Rothbard, and Stephen Hawking.

I don't watch much television, but the shows I do enjoy include The Guild, South Park, Game of Thrones, Pen & Teller: Bullshit, The Simpsons, MythBusters, and anything about science, psychology, or economics.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Creativity, Nature, Music, Dancing, and Pizza.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music. Everything is music.
I think often about how to be more rational, logical, compassionate, and self-aware. I also enjoy thinking and brainstorming about things like design, art, creation, fashion, traveling, food, and adventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Performing, seeing a show, dancing, singing karaoke, dumpster diving, or hanging with fellow CouchSurfers. I also really enjoy Fridays that involve nothing more than pizza, beer/weed, and friends... and maybe some Cards Against Humanity or Muppets from Space.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was the kid in the 90s with the "rat tail." Please don't tell.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're rad, honest, rational, and you have stories to tell and ideas to share. You're on a continual path of growth and you give both yourself and others love and compassion. You enjoy being totally goofy/nerdy, you like going to festivals, concerts, and cons, or you're a dumpster diver. You have colorful hair, you're a cosplayer, or you're a self-proclaimed nerd. You don't care for the gender binary. You take care of your body. Also, I tend to prefer cute over hot. Being both is wicked awesome.

I only engage in mutually-beneficial, voluntary relationships with fun, caring, logical people, so send me a message if that's you!