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61 Somerville, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Honest and direct, whole-hearted, intuitive, empathic, quick to laugh, passionate about living consciously and well. Come from a family where academics trumped athletics - expressive, visually attuned folks, readers, creators, and 'do-ers' who take pride in what they've accomplished on any given day, who naturally gravitate to studios, libraries, and workshops. Clueless re: pop culture - don't own a tv, malls/franchises depress me. News comes from NPR and the NYT, valuing progressive thinking over conventional wisdom. Don't ski, play golf or tennis (a 30-year marriage taught me the best relationships leave room for non-shared pursuits) but thrive outdoors - kayaking, swimming, planting, biking/walking/hiking anywhere, city or country. A 'toucher' when conversing, a spontaneous smoocher, quick to show appreciation for kindness and emotional generosity, my partner will never lack for attention, affection, engaging conversation, goofy observations to laugh about. Financially independent - the career's been good to me - have raised two adult daughters to be critical thinkers, ethical and kind people.

Guys I find attractive are my same age - 58-64 - who laugh throughout the day, seeing the world and the humans therein both nuts AND amusing. I dig educated/well-read guys who don't need to prove they're the smartest dude in the room, who are routinely gentle and compassionate, who 'live and let live'. If you are brave enough to have done some introspection recently, accepted your foibles, made adjustments and kept moving, you're my kinda guy.

Respectfully, winks/no photos give me the jeebies - ditto, significantly older/younger men.
What I’m doing with my life
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Long, mostly wonderful career in print production/creative services management in Boston ad agencies and corporations.
I’m really good at
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Nationally ranked deck and dock sitter: kayaking, swimming, collecting aquatic flora and fauna, or as a great T shirt I recently saw reads: "Loves poetry, long walks on the beach at sunset, and poking dead things with a stick."
The first things people usually notice about me
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Good energy, a ready smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love Plough+Stars late Sunday afternoon for live R+B, Wed evening at Toad for same. Documentaries, indie gems at the Kendall a treat. Watching dogs swim at Fresh Pond never fails to amuse. Alice Munroe, Lionel Schriver, Jhumpa Lahiri, John Updike, Barbara Kingsolver, David Rakoff, A.M. Homes, and just fell in love with Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche. NYT and New Yorker. Tedeschi Trucks, Marian McPartland, Mavis Staples, and Aretha/Motown, of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pooped. Apoplectic. Comatose. Smooch my forehead, tuck me in. But be ready for Saturday break of dawn!