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61 Somerville, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:51pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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A wise friend described relationships as two people on opposite sides of a river. The first person places a brick and the second responds with another, back and forth. Only one person contributing bricks, or no bricks being placed? Not a relationship. Great analogy, no?

Honest and direct, whole-hearted, big joie d'vivre, quick to laugh, passionate about living consciously and well. Come from a family where academics trumped athletics - expressive, visually attuned folks, readers, creators, and 'do-ers' who take pride in what they've accomplished on any given day, who naturally gravitate to studios, libraries, and workshops. Clueless re: pop culture - don't own a tv, malls/franchises depress me. News comes from NPR and the NYT, valuing progressive thinking over conventional wisdom. Don't ski, play golf or tennis (a 30-year marriage taught me the best relationships leave room for non-shared pursuits) but thrive outdoors - kayaking, swimming, planting, biking/walking/hiking anywhere, city or country. A 'toucher' when conversing, a spontaneous smoocher, quick to show appreciation for kindness and emotional generosity, my partner will never lack for attention, affection, engaging conversation, goofy observations to laugh about. Financially set - the career's been good to me. Have two adult daughters who are critical thinkers, ethical, kind people, my primary focus at the moment.

Guys I find attractive live their values, are warm, compassionate men who laugh throughout the day, seeing the world and all of us humans therein both nuts AND amusing. Looking for someone who's naturally curious and quick witted, who's bumped around a bit, done some living and honest introspection, who can admit to his personal foibles, and keep moving.

Respectfully, have strong preferences for men 5'10 +, my same age (58-64). Winks/profiles without photos give me the jeebies. I draw the line at guys whose divorces are not yet final. If your religion and politics don't promote diversity, inclusion, a level playing field for all colors, genders, and sexual orientations, we're not suited. If you write a couple of thoughtful paragraphs, I will respond. Thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
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Very recently retired from long, mostly wonderful career in print production/creative services management in Boston ad agencies and corporations, and now contemplating next steps.
I’m really good at
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Nationally ranked deck and dock sitter: kayaking, swimming, collecting aquatic flora and fauna, or as a great T shirt I recently saw reads: "Loves poetry, long walks on the beach at sunset, and poking dead things with a stick."
The first things people usually notice about me
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Good energy, a ready smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love Plough+Stars late Sunday afternoon for live R+B, Wed evening at Toad for same. Documentaries, indie gems at the Kendall a treat. Watching dogs swim at Fresh Pond never fails to amuse. Alice Munroe, Lionel Schriver, Jhumpa Lahiri, John Updike, Barbara Kingsolver, David Rakoff, A.M. Homes, and just fell in love with Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche. NYT and New Yorker. Tedeschi Trucks, Marian McPartland, Mavis Staples, and Aretha/Motown, of course.