Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Honest and direct, whole-hearted, intuitive, empathic, quick to
laugh, passionate about living consciously and well. Come from a
family where academics trumped athletics - expressive, visually
attuned folks, readers, creators, and 'do-ers' who take pride in
what they've accomplished on any given day, who naturally gravitate
to studios, libraries, and workshops. Clueless re: pop culture -
don't own a tv, malls/franchises depress me. News comes from NPR
and the NYT, valuing progressive thinking over conventional wisdom.
Don't ski, play golf or tennis (a 30-year marriage taught me the
best relationships leave room for non-shared pursuits) but thrive
outdoors - kayaking, swimming, planting, biking/walking/hiking
anywhere, city or country. A 'toucher' when conversing, a
spontaneous smoocher, quick to show appreciation for kindness and
emotional generosity, my partner will never lack for attention,
affection, engaging conversation, goofy observations to laugh
about. Financially independent - the career's been good to me -
have raised two adult daughters to be critical thinkers, ethical
and kind people.
Guys I find attractive are my same age - 58-64 - who laugh
throughout the day, seeing the world and the humans therein both
nuts AND amusing. I dig educated/well-read guys who don't need to
prove they're the smartest dude in the room, who are routinely
gentle and compassionate, who 'live and let live'. If you are brave
enough to have done some introspection recently, accepted your
foibles, made adjustments and kept moving, you're my kinda
Respectfully, winks/no photos give me the jeebies - ditto,
significantly older/younger men.