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36 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:40pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a great catch, as long as looks and personality don't matter to you.

NPR, good books, rock climbing, live music, coffee shops and art that blows your hair back... these are the things that make my world go round. Ill drive well out of state to hear a favorite indie band play a small venue and I'll rarely say no to a last minute adventure- especially if it can lead to a good story afterwards. I believe weekends were made for road trips, flea markets and enjoying the outdoors but I also believe that some weekends were made for sleeping in late, watching movies and being lazy all day

Im not big on facebook, top-40 music, celebrity gossip, fake tans, materialistic attitudes or the mall but I'm not judging... its just not my thing, err, things.

I like to write, design things, attempt to create things, and exercise my imagination whenever possible. I like to laugh too. And what makes me laugh hardest is typically sarcasm / dark, offbeat humor which some might think is offensive. I believe in science over religion but I also know that I don't know everything and try my best to remain teachable.

Im from Cali originally and get told all the time that I'm too laid back for my own good... Perhaps, I take seriously what needs to be taken seriously and let the rest just blow by. If you're a super ridgid / intense type-A kinda person we might not gel

I'm professional-ish. I just left a career in psych at Yale and am now in public radio production (NPR). I don't make a ton of money but I like what I do and I've never needed a 6 figure salary to be happy.

I'll probably think of more to say later but for now that's all I got
What I’m doing with my life
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Producing for public tadio, rock climbing as much as possible, being as artistic as my limited imagination and even more limited abilities allow, road trips to far flung and unmapped places, listening to live music, drinking coffee, trying to bike more and car less
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being humble. Really, I'm the best at it!

Being patient, positive, and taking the long view.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 100 Years of Solitude, Love in The Time of Cholera, A Brave New World, Neil Gaimon, Tolkien's, The Hunger Games, Harry Potter, The Stand, The Road, Haruki Murakami, Michael Crichton

Music: The Decemberists, The Veils, The Shins, Handsome Family, Alexi Murdoch, Broken Bells, Fleet Foxes, The National, Sun Kill Moon, Magnetic Fields, Bright Eyes, Spoon, Cake, Old school trance, Florence And The Machine, The Ramones, Tiesto, DJ Keoki, Jurassic 5, Gorillaz, Of Monsters & Men, Devotchka, Pentatonix, Regina Spector, Michael Jackson, Deathcab, The Dropkick murpheys, Massive Attack, Thievery Corp, Nick Cave, Johnny Cash...

Food: Sushi, Indian, Thai, Mexican...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm pretty resourceful
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Show ideas for NPR
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I danced professionally at one time.