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36 • New Haven, CT • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 8:24pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Doesn’t have kids
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
NPR, good books, rock climbing, live music, coffee shops and art that blows your hair back... these are the things that make my world go round. Ill drive well out of state to hear a favorite indie band play a small venue and I'll rarely say no to a last minute adventure- especially if it can lead to a good story afterwards. I believe weekends were made for road trips, flea markets and enjoying the outdoors but I also believe that some weekends were made for sleeping in late, watching movies and being lazy all day
Im not big on facebook, top-40 music, celebrity gossip, fake tans, materialistic attitudes or the mall but I'm not judging... its just not my thing, err, things.
I like to write, design things, attempt to create things, and exercise my imagination whenever possible. I like to laugh too. And what makes me laugh hardest is typically sarcasm / dark, offbeat humor which some might think is offensive. I believe in science over religion but I also know that I don't know everything and try my best to remain teachable.
Im from Cali originally and get told all the time that I'm too laid back for my own good... Perhaps, I take seriously what needs to be taken seriously and let the rest just blow by. If you're a super ridgid / intense type-A kinda person we might not gel
I'm professional-ish. I just left a career in psych at Yale and am now in public radio production (NPR). I don't make a ton of money but I like what I do and I've never needed a 6 figure salary to be happy.
I'll probably think of more to say later but for now that's all I got
Music: The Decemberists, The Veils, , Frankie Bones, The Shins, Handsome Family, Alexi Murdoch, Broken Bells, Old school trance and jungle, Florence And The Machine, The Ramones, Tiesto, DJ Keoki, Jurassic 5, Gorillaz, Of Monsters & Men, Devotchka, Pentatonix, Regina Spector, Michael Jackson, Deathcab, The Dropkick murpheys, Massive Attack, Thievery Corp, Nick Cave, Johnny Cash, Sun Kill Moon...
Food: Sushi, Indian, Thai, Mexican...
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