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26 Chicago, IL Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 27
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Quirky yet organized. Serious yet silly. Driven yet flexible.

Extroverted introvert.

I seek to improve myself and the lives of those around me through public speaking, leadership training, and small group facilitation. In my off time I enjoy cooking, exploring, and, from time to time, playing video games.

I am in a long-term and (temporarily) long-distance polyamorous relationship. My heart has room for many lovers.
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing myself and, soon, others. The goal is to not just survive, but thrive in our increasingly more chaotic and fast-paced world. My favorite topics are antifragility and critical thinking. My favorite audiences are high-school and college aged students, as well as early-career young-adults.

Personally, I'm working on a more healthy lifestyle. I find learning about human and environmental health fascinating. I've almost entirely phased red meat out of my diet. Next step? Reducing the amount of processed foods.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Responding quickly, problem solving, and researching. I'm also pretty good at breaking social tension (or maybe creating it? such a fine line).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told it's my beard and my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just about anything cerebral, not including horror.

Books: Extra-terrestrial sci-fi. Some fantasy. My favorite sci-fi saga directly (and pretty transparently) links my screen name here with my actual first name.

Movies: The Man From Earth, Wreck it Ralph, Star Wars, Ace Ventura, Up, V for Vendetta, Thank You for Smoking, District 9,

Shows: Archer, Better Off Ted, 30 Rock, Parks & Recreation, Arrested Development, Battlestar Galactica, Caprica, The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret, Star Trek: TNG, Bob's Burgers,

Music: Electro, Techno, Mash-ups. I indulge in pop from time to time.

Food: Most kinds. I enjoy cooking and eating out. I'll try pretty much anything once. Now that my kitchen is fully stocked, I can't stop experimenting!

Games: I do not have simple answer to the question of "What's your favorite game?"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nerd culture. Broad-spectrum civil rights and associated activism. Friends & Family. Places to explore. A good bass line. Food and the adventure therein.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Existence, human perception and cognition, and self-improvement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably cuddled up watching (or more likely re-watching) something on Netflix. On an a-typical friday night, I'm going out with people and enjoying it!
You should message me if
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any of the following applies:
*You're interested in getting to know me, in any capacity. I tend to appreciate it when people are up-front and driven
*You want to explore Chicago together
*You are passionate and energized about your life and want to share stories with someone equally so
*You are interested in personal development and skill building
*You find video games, computers, and technology fascinating
*You enjoy and/or find interesting public or motivational speaking/speakers