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25 F Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Today – 10:28am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a queer, femme-ish lady who is semi-new to the bay area and looking for some wonderful new queer friends.

I tend to get myself into trouble because I have a very hard time censoring my thoughts. I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Caffeine makes me jittery but I love the taste of coffee so I drink it anyway.

I want to: get more into astrology (I'm a scorpio but I'm not entirely sure what that means), try ballet (being graceful is not my strong suit :), explore ceramics (because wet clay feels cool), and learn a musical instrument (I have a guitar that I don’t know how to play).

I cut my own hair (or I used to).

I like hiking, big skies, pretty much all animals (except snakes... I’m terrified of snakes), vegan food, gin, going on road trips, warm weather, Netflix, and expanding my vocabulary.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm finally making a second attempt at earning a college degree. I'm a sociology major and queer studies minor and I'm actually really enjoying it.

I spend a lot of time teaching pre-schoolers in the Bayview. They are crazy and booger-covered, but I love them very dearly.

I'm also in the process of redecorating my apartment (which is awesome because it's a perfect excuse for way too much thrift shopping :).
I’m really good at
-having very honest and open conversations
-picking out pets with awesome personalities
-sleeping in
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Paint it Black by Janet Finch
-Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg
-Absolutely anything written by Audre Lorde or Judith Butler or bell hooks

-I’m a sucker for a good rom-com (i.e. pretty much anything with Julia Roberts or Emma Stone).
-American Beauty
-Pulp Fiction
-500 Days of Summer

-The Office
-30 Rock
-Mad Men

-Pretty much anything. I was raised on a combination of The Who, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers and, of course, Britney Spears. I'm also a huge Mariah Carey fan... deal with it.

-Ethiopian food
-Spicy stuff
The six things I could never do without
-the color turquoise
-water (because... the pacific ocean makes me feel at home, I love taking baths, I get a headache when I'm dehydrated, and I think house plants are a requirement.)
-play dates with puppies
-my favorite stuffed animal (yes, I'm 25 and still sleep with a stuffed animal haha)
-google and (easy access to new knowledge is such a privilege)
-gender fluidity (I'm discovering I'm more of a switch than I realized :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
queer theory, capitalism, gender fluidity, polyamory, human sexuality, femme invisibility, ableism, how to transform progressive ideas into actions... and on a lighter note: constantly wishing I could have a dog, how I should redo my apt, how wonderful open spaces and ocean views are, and how nice it is to smile at strangers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably being stoned or maybe out indulging in my new found love affair with cheap champagne.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't want to give everything away upfront but ask away; I'm an open book :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
-you like making new friends and are awesome enough to make me want to leave the pillow fort sanctuary I've created on my bed.
-you want to get together in person. I have a hard time keeping up with conversations on Okc.
-you can teach me about bikes.
-you want to tell me about your spirit animal.