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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:54pm
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a broad spectrum of things from this site. People to go out and do things with, friends, dating, and maybe that special someone, not particularly in that order, would all be nice. I am not really that new to the area but, with most people, I haven't been able to form more than acquaintance type relationships. Though, like most people, I would enjoy that prefect* relationship I am far more interested in making friends than rushing into something.

I like keeping fit because I enjoy exercising. As I write this I just completed the sun run and am hurting from it; I am not all that impressively fit just reasonably so. I go to the fitness world near where I live and it might be interesting to know more people there, but most of my gym workouts are rather solitary activities. While I don’t really need companionship at the gym, I would love someone to hike with.

Cooking as a necessity makes me sad; I often neglect to properly cook for myself. I find much more pleasure in cooking with someone else (even cooking for someone else is so much better than for myself.). Sharing the adventure of cooking something new is always enjoyable.

I am not at all interested in drugs or excessive everyday drinking. I rarely drink, maybe a half dozen times a year, I probably only get drunk once or twice a year. In moderation I can have a good time with alcohol, but I would be far more inclined to stop drinking all together than I would be to drink a lot more. I am really not all that strongly against pot, but I have found it just doesn’t work for me in a relationship.

Some selling points about me:
- I'm not a crazy psycho. (I've heard that's a plus)
- I know exactly what I am looking for. Well, more or less. There's a bit of wiggle room. :P
- I don't play games. They simply waste my time and yours.
- I've got goals, aspirations, and a game plan to actually achieve them.

If you have read this far and are thinking I don't sound too offensive to your sensibilities you should send me a message. If I looked at your profile and didn't send you a message it probably was not a rejection... You might have just been too cute.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have spent the last few years working to get myself set up in life. I moved down here after high school, started a trade, and bought a condo. I moved out a little before I was ready and I have gone without tv or proper living room furniture for the last couple years. I have found that, though I am relatively ambitious, I am not very materialistic.

I have recently finished my schooling and I have not yet decided what I should set myself to achieve next. Some time building relationships, working on cooking for myself more frequently, and turning my place into a home are at the start of the list.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Scrabble (It has been statistically proven that, though I don't get any better at dancing or picking up girls, I go from "Pretty Awesome" to "Extremely Epic" at Scrabble while drinking.)
-Being on time
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Girls who read-----> (If I have to be doing something alone I prefer to read): Eragon, Flowers for Algernon, A Song of Ice And Fire, Sword of Truth, A Game of Thrones(So started these before the hype and tv show), World Without End, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Take back your government, Emergency: This Book Will Save Your Life, The Wise Man's Fear, The Name of the Wind, The Happiness Project, Isaac Asimov's Robot Series, The Fountainhead (this may be my favorite book), Ayn Rand and the World She Made, The Da Vinci Code, The Fountains of Paradise, Atlas Shrugged, The Dark Tower Series, The Stand, The Sword of Truth, The Long Walk, Next, Angels and Demons, Timeline , The Andromeda Strain, Pillars of the Earth, The Great and Secret Show, The Damnation Game, Cabal, Everville, Rocket Ship Galileo, Citizen of the Galaxy, Time for the Stars, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress, Farnham's Freehold, The Chrysalids, Time Enough for Love, Foundation and Empire, The Virtue of Selfishness, Out of the Silent Planet, Capitalism: The Unknown Ideal, Perelandra, Earthsea, Titan, His Dark Materials, That Hideous Strength, The Puppet Masters, All Quiet on the Western Front, Wizard, Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy, So Long, and Thanks for All the Fish, The Restaurant at the End of the Universe, Life, the Universe and Everything, Mostly Harmless, Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies, The City of Ember, The Diary of Anne Frank, Paradise Lost, Gulliver's Travels, The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire, Out of the Silent Planet (Space Trilogy, #1), The Stand, The Dead Zone, The Dark Tower I: The Gunslinger, Pet Cemetery (<---This book terrified me... I can still remember reading it in the late hours of the night during a thunderstorm when I was 11 or 12) , The Bachman Books (novel collection), It, The Dark Tower II: The Drawing of the Three, The Tommyknockers, The Stand, The Dark Tower III: The Waste Lands, Nightmares & Dreamscapes (stories), The Dark Tower IV: Wizard and Glass, The Dark Tower V: Wolves of the Calla, The Dark Tower VI: Song of Susannah, The Dark Tower VII: The Dark Tower, The Hunger Games, Catching Fire, Mockingjay, The Four Hour Work Week, The Four Hour Body, The 4 Hour Chef(I just started reading this and I think I like “The Four Hour Body“ better), Ready Player One(Not much for the brain but it was fun and I was literally. Unable to put it down).
(This section could go on for a long long time. I would love to meet a girl who reads. Our taste in books need not coincide, but enjoying reading definitely earns you bonus points in my proverbial book.)

Food: I happen to be a fan of the home cooked meal. I enjoy cooking for and/or with someone. My skills are nothing too amazing n the culinary department, but I can usually follow a recipe.
I don't like most seafood, but other than that I am pretty much game for giving it a try.
Note: With the amazing things my new blender does to fruit, berries, and peanut butter I may never eat solid food again.

Movies: Pan's Labyrinth, Blade Runner, Donnie Darko, Finding Neverland, Amelie, How to Train Your Dragon, Army of Darkness, Anne of Green Gables, Dogma(I watched some graphic shit as a 12 year old =/=0), Star Wars, Labyrinth, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, The Social Network, Stardust, The Black Swan, Big Trouble in Little China, Run Lola Run, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Monty Python's Life of Brian, Indiana Jones, RocknRolla, Secret Window, Back to the Future, The Pianist, Back to the Future Part II, District 9, Blade, Avatar, The Princess Bride, Superbad, The Muppets, The Artist, Scott Pilgrim Vs The World, The King's Speech, Tangled, Inception, Easy A, Avatar, Beginners, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

(-sigh- I just caught myself writing "Labyrinth" the third time. If you happen to notice I am being a huge jerk and repeating myself or being vague please tell me.)

Music: The Fray, Journey, Dashboard Confessional, Hellogoodbye, THE GASLIGHT ANTHEM, Plain White T's(I really don‘t know why I like Christian music once in awhile when I think religion is rather silly), 80's Music, Foster the People, Bedlight For Blue Eyes, The Fray, Goo Goo Dolls, The Script, Something Corporate, The Naked And Famous, Said The Whale, Amber Pacific, Michael Jackson, Cold War Kids,Florence and the Machine, Thriving Ivory, Ray Lamontagne, David Bowie, Blue October, Taking Back Sunday, Tegan and Sara, Marianas Trench, Kings Of Leon, The Dudes.

I don't happen to watch any. I haven't given enough of my time to watch a series of any TV programs (actually on live rather than boxed sets or downloads) since before high school. Though I could play the odd video game and love movies I haven't gone about buying a TV since it's not that important to me. I don't actually hate it or anything (it's a good excuse for a cuddle) but I don't think I have watched a full episode of anything in a couple years. I do enjoy discovery channel.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I will get outrageously stubborn if I figure that I am getting coerced into something. I often get this way about things I shouldn't care so strongly about and soon politely change my stance.

I am perpetually reading books to excess. When I get too into them they significantly reduce my social and scholastic output. I have no problem being pulled out of a book for something more amusing, but I use them to procrastinate far too much.

-Caffinated Beverages
(Ramona V. Flowers: What kind of tea do you want?
Scott Pilgrim: There's more than one kind?
Ramona V. Flowers: We have blueberry, raspberry, ginseng, sleepy time, green tea, green tea with lemon, green tea with lemon and honey, liver disaster, ginger with honey, ginger without honey, vanilla almond, white truffle, blueberry chamomile, vanilla walnut, constant comment and... Earl grey.
Scott Pilgrim: Did you make some of those up?)

Driving in silence is unnatural

Actually my phone kind of bothers me. I would like to be able to go without, but I feel lost if I forget it at home while I am out for the day. I have just recently downgraded and removed internet from my phone. I waste so much less time without the distraction, but I miss it sometimes.

-Movies (I would love someone to go see some foreign films with; during the Oscars I felt like I missed out.)

(I can actually get by quite well with little. The top two items on my list are the only things that would
really disturb me to be without for any length of time. Well maybe three I have been drinking a lot of tea lately.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The Future
-Fictitious Characters
-Sex, true story
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...Usually pursuing relatively tame activities. I am quite likely going to the gym, watching a movie, or doing a little reading.
Most of my habits aren't too wild and crazy, but if i am going to get up to an adventure it will usually be on a Saturday. Friday night is for relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have the worst sense of direction of anyone I know. I get lost all the time when I don't use my gps. I not only get lost while driving but also in large buildings.

I just recently parked to return an escaped dog to it‘s owner, started talking on my phone while wandering in the direction the dog came from, and lost my work van.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- Want a date, not a nut (Oh I have such a soft spot for terrible terrible jokes).

-Aren't particularly negative(my definition of negativity should not be confused with realism or cynicism).

-You would like to get out and do things (Anything from seeing a movie to hiking)

-“I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don't know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness.” has some meaning to you.