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38 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 21
- 5′ 3″ (1.61m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Sales / Marketing
- Mostly non-monogamous
- English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
-A consummate thrill seeker, but with a degree in economics (and yes, I enjoy both equally)
-Kick ass underground house DJ, but with season tickets to the opera (I believe range makes for an interesting life)
-Can hold my own in intellectually demanding conversations, but I also rock a six pack (I never understood why a sharp mind and a hard body were considered mutually exclusive)
-Over educated, but find intelligence sometimes gets in the way (stop analyzing and just do it)
-A bit wild, but highly organized (the only way I get everything done)
-Flamboyant avant garde dresser, but a rational thinker and low maint (zero drama is key)
-Can interact in half a dozen languages, but I secretly enjoy being the outsider (it gives certain, ahem, license…)
-Afraid of heights, but have a pilots license (I also tried bungy jumping, but nothing helps)
Somehow, this all makes perfect sense to me…
"the world is my home, and mankind my family" is my motto. I’m curious about it all - and have been fortunate enough to travel the world extensively. Oh, the joy to see, hear, learn, smell, taste the wondrous. And better yet, meet extraordinary and larger than life people!
Physically, I’m pretty active including gymnastics, free running, weight lifting, climbing, skiing and a range of recreational sports – sailing windsurfing, scuba, flying, etc. Sitting still is hard...
Although I like nature I’m definitely a city girl. I adore the energy, intricacy and grit of a city. It always puzzled me that people want to escape them. My idea of a vacation is Tokyo at rush hour (not really, but quite fascinating nonetheless ;)
Oh, and I think dancing is the most fun you can have with your clothes on!
Also, I’m really good at having frogs jump out of my mouth at the most inopportune moments possible.
Magazines - The Economist and underground fashion rags
TV - don't do it. If it's not on Netflix or Amazon I have not seen it
Movies - sci-fi, fantasy, foreign, art-house, indy
-A good challenge
-A healthy body
Honorable mention - a passport
- Why so many people are dominated by their fears.
I respect your privacy, so respect mine. If you don't want to have any profile pictures, fair enough - but do not ask for my email to send them to. Either attach them in your message to me or send a link to your online photo album (and if you don't have one already, there are a million places on the web where you can create one - will come in handy for you, promise!)
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