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49 F Minneapolis, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
God damn right it's a beautiful day

Love is a marathon sometimes you puke
-Old 97's

I walk a mile in your shoes
Now I'm a mile away
And I've got your shoes
-Kings of Leon

I tried a variety of 'meaningful' profiles and got a whole lot of who I didn't want, so bear with me while I come up with an amazing redesign...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for opportunities to activate the rear spoiler and accelerate into the curve

Is it to late to become the female Scott Seekins..?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. job..? job...I'm good at that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
a quote from an OKC date "the only thing uncomfortable about this is how NOT uncomfortable it is"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books, movies, music, food: variety in all these categories - yes please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my two children
They are literally the only thing that it would crush me to do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to stop thinking... like in a 'live in the moment' kinda way, ya know?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The last few:
Experiencing live music
Dining al fresco with my pup and a book
Eating delivery from Pizza Luce and watching a movie
Having a beer at the local pub with my daughter and her best friend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"You're not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you've met, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other."
-Good Will Hunting

“I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.”
-World’s Greatest Dad

"Christian Rudder is mild-mannered in person. But in his official capacity as the president of OkCupid, an irreverent online-dating site, he likes to provoke.
Mr. Rudder is particularly interested in the divide between the mates people claim they want and their actual online pursuits. Witness the actions of 35-year-old heterosexual men on OkCupid. These men typically search for women between the ages of 24 and 40, Mr. Rudder reports, yet in practice they rarely contact anyone over 29"

...picture for a moment if I emailed nothing but men between the ages of 38 and 43... nary a response to be had...

More from Mr. Rudder:
"On how men and women perceive attractiveness online

Age is a huge variable in online dating. Women generally like a guy to be the same age as them up until the guys hit about 40. But when you flip it around, when you look at how men perceive women, it's pretty much a just straight ticket vote for 20, which is the lowest age I looked at in my data set. So even 45-year-old guys rate 20-year-old women the best. It's a very pervasive opinion among at least the people on OkCupid.

... This is just measuring people's opinions, not what they actually go out and do. What you see when you actually look at what people do, you see the realism set in. So these 40-year-old guys ... they [sic] people they actually have the courage to actually go out and message are a lot older: it's 30, 35-year-old women"
You should message me if
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You're gonna do it whether I think you should or not, so...

Stream of consciousness:
You feel music is necessary (but cover bands and arena shows not so much)
Live local (more encompassing than just 'buy' local)
You have great lips
You wouldn't feel awkward at mpls photo center...
or at the Turf Club
I'll find you attractive
Active doesn't require extreme
You're snuggly
The idea of replacing the grocery store with the farmer's market doesn't befuddle you
You're OK with the fact that I just said befuddle
You begin sentences with the word 'so'
You have sexy facial hair
You're not hung up on society's propaganda that men must date much younger women (see above)
You've seen the movie 'What Maisie Knew'
Ken Burns
No matter your age, we look like we're about the same age
You've read 'Silent Spring' or 'Black Boy'
You unapologetically own a Bee Gees album
Nowhere in your profile do you tell me you are attractive or good at sex