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49 Minneapolis, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:00pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
God damn right it's a beautiful day

Love is a marathon sometimes you puke
-Old 97's

What makes a relationship “wonderful” is two people who mutually, gratefully seek each other’s company.
-Carolyn Hax

You're not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you've met, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other.
-Good Will Hunting

I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.
-World’s Greatest Dad

Hej, I’ve been fucked up. And I’ve been a fool
But like the shepherd to the lamb
Like the wave unto the sand
I’ll fix myself up. To come and be with you.

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
-Robert Heinlein
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking opportunities to activate the rear spoiler and accelerate into the curve

Is it too late to become the female Scott Seekins..?

Making things happen. Life lesson I'm trying to teach my children, and what better way to teach than by example.

Based on a recent transaction: Restoring my tiny, historic home.
And yard work.

"I will be patient and proud, and soberly acquiesce"
-Robert Browning
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge. job..? Yea, my job, I'm really good at that.

...raising kids... raising kids that understand that they should seek and analyze and decide, not follow
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
a quote from an OKC date "the only thing uncomfortable about this is how NOT uncomfortable it is"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books, movies, music, food: variety in all these categories - yes please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my two children
They are literally the only thing that it would crush me to do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to stop thinking... like in a 'live in the moment' kinda way, ya know?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The last few:
Walking the dog
Experiencing live music
Sitting on the couch with my pup and a book
Eating delivery from Pizza Luce and watching a movie
Happy hour with coworkers
Twins game
Writing up an offer on a house (not quite typical, but I am listing the last few...)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...cites research from OKCupid's four Harvard-trained mathematicians who conducted surveys on the dating site's singles:

Three questions tested above all others in determining if you and someone else have long-term potential are: "Do you like horror movies?" "Have you ever traveled around another country alone?" and "Wouldn't it be fun to chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?" If you find someone that answers all three the same way you do, the two of you might just belong together.

I noticed that okc put a huge level of importance on that horror movie question...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're gonna do it whether I think you should or not ;-)

Stream of consciousness:
You feel music is necessary (but cover bands and arena shows not so much)
Live local (more encompassing than just 'buy' local)
You have great lips
You wouldn't feel awkward at mpls photo center...
or at the Turf Club
Active doesn't require extreme
You're snuggly
The idea of replacing the grocery store with the farmer's market doesn't befuddle you
You're OK with the fact that I just said befuddle
You begin sentences with the word 'so'
You have sexy facial hair
You're not hung up on society's propaganda that men must date much younger women
You've seen the movie 'What Maisie Knew'
Ken Burns
No matter your age, we look like we were born within a few years of each other (and this doesn't mean in the picture you posted from 2002)
You've read 'Silent Spring' or 'Black Boy'
You unapologetically own a Bee Gees album
or maybe Pink or Linda Ronstadt...
Nowhere in your profile do you tell me you are attractive or good at sex

You can extrapolate something of my personality from my unconventional profile (this is really the only reason you should message me, if we're being honest)