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48 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:39am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Another is coming
and another
will fall behind us.
What will the difference
be between this year
and the last?
I suppose
unheld hands
can carry more weight.
End now,
start again,
I am as ready
as I will ever
-Tyler Knott Gregson

God damn right it's a beautiful day
What I’m doing with my life
In my 20's and 30's I tried living the American Dream but found I didn't enjoy it much, so now I'm trying to put together my own dream...

Looking for someone to BE with... hold hands when we walk the dog...canoodle as we wait for the barista to prepare our coffee...discuss the produce at the farmers market as we plan that evening's meals...sip a cold beer and bask in the sun...snuggle up on the couch and watch a movie...stand pressed against each other as we enjoy a show at First Ave, Turf, Entry, Cedar...have an hours long conversation in bed on a lazy Sunday morning...check out that new restaurant...
Certainly there will be excitement and adventures, but life is about enjoying the little things every day.
I’m really good at
waiting patiently for mutual attraction to strike

And for the opposing view:
I'm not really good at this profile isn't resonating with the proper demographic
The first things people usually notice about me
a quote from an OKC date "the only thing uncomfortable about this is how NOT uncomfortable it is"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books, movies, music, food: variety in all these categories - yes please.
The six things I could never do without
my children
They are literally the only thing that it would crush me to do without

but my pup, music, books, nature, and a few relatives/friends make life a little more fun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to stop thinking...

Even though I have a pretty great sense of humor why can I not come up with anything clever to put in my profile...

Getting my mortgage paid off and saving enough cash so I can take a few years off to drive aimlessly around the US and enjoy all its beauty... ...oh to become a vagabond...

How long I can hold out before joining the herd and giving my entire life over to the apple corporation...

Being awakened on a lazy weekend morning by someone running kisses down my back...

Most men on here rate themselves higher than average in self-confidence so doesn't that really just mean you're all average..?
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing (hearing?) live music, reading and listening to music, walking the dog around the lake, laundry, watching a movie, out on the town with my sister, date night with my daughter - I have 'date night' with my son too, just typically not on Friday... although now that I think about it all of these things could happen on any given night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Gifted my daughter my car as a graduation present and the replacement could be considered a midlife crisis car...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You enjoy music.
My taste is nothing if not varied but a few solid favorites are Eels, Old 97's, Stereophonics, Johnny Cash, Black Keys, Lucero, Social Distortion, Bob Dylan.
As for local music; I'll go anywhere that Erik Koskinen is playing, Frankie Lee, Cactus Blossoms, Caroline Smith, Sonny Knight & the Lakers... Introduce me to some of your faves...

To you the city is a place you live, explore, eat, walk, love on a daily basis, not a far off destination for the weekend.

Your height to weight ratio is in a healthy range and you're aging at a pace similar to mine.

You understand that planning time with the person you are dating is a sign of respect and interest. I have no desire to be that thing you do when it's 5pm and you realize you have a free evening.

So seriously, I'm holding out for someone that I find attractive and interesting and amazing - someone I think about when we are apart and look forward to spending time with. I'm not mediocre and you shouldn't be either.