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27 / F / straight / Single

Yucaipa, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am hilarious, pragmatic, and awesome.

My Self-Summary

I enjoy sarcasm, silly things, and when random events or moments instantly change my life forever. I love my friends and my family very much. I am always seeking more out of life, because I want to live in such a way that I like myself and have gained prospective and, hopefully, some sort of wisdom. On the same note, I sometimes conclude that the wisest person is probably one who acknowledges that wisdom is fleeting, a little worldly, inaccurate, and false.

I like indie music. I like to relax just as much as I like to go out. I do some yoga, I try to live a sustainable lifestyle, I sometimes paint and enjoy making things with my hands, whether it be html or handmade greeting cards. I often meet my friends at coffee shops and look at dumb things online.

Right now am going through a "going to concerts/shows" stage. I am starting to read again, which I hope will be followed up by writing again. I feel like I pressed the restart button, and it feels really good.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working two jobs and learning to relax. I like to drink coffee and tea, and until recently I was a Master's student of English Literature. Unfortunately I am not recession proof, hence the working and not the studying.

I’m really good at

Making people feel better, making people laugh, enjoying bad television in all its true glory, as well as enjoying myself and making myself laugh. I am also really bad at some things, but there isn't a section for that.

The first things people usually notice about me

On a good day they will notice my enormous laugh, it's super loud and I can't fake it. On any other day, who cares! :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Dharma Bums, American Elf, The Fuck Up, random Manga (I used to work for Tokyopop), Ron Currie, Jr., and now Green Rhetoric.
Movies: Harold and Maude, I Love You, Man really makes me laugh and so did Role Models. Of course I want to own (500) Days of Summer when it comes out, and I love any Wes Anderson film there is.
Music: Bon Iver, Local Natives, Bob Dylan, Billie Holiday, Arcade Fire, Cat Power, The Decemberists, Iron & Wine, She & Him, Regina Spektor, Au Revoir Simone, Tilly and the Wall, La Roux, and I can't get enough of Kid Cudi.
Food: Yellow curry, berries, cheese, and french fries.
Television: Flight of the Conchords, How I Met Your Mother, Arrested Development, Hearts of Nineteen (Korean Drama), and It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia.
Magazines: Giant Robot, Juxtapose, Modern Painter, Yoga Journal, and anything that looks cute!

Other favorites include: coconut flavored things, sleeping with the window open while in a cloud-like bed, and I prefer cloudy days over sunny ones. I also like Takashi Murakami and most of the art that comes out of the Kaikai Kiki factory.

The six things I could never do without

being creative in some way
singing in the car while driving alone
my family
my friends
some alone time
and the sweet sound of music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Recently I've been thinking about how fear is somehow born out of our inability to control a situation or circumstance. Also about cleaning, which I find cathartic, and about doing something selfless, and about how words are spelled. I am looking into volunteering for a Literacy program nearby (I have a few options). In addition, I am scheming up a way to get back into Grad school by this time next year. And finally, I try to pick through my long list of goals in life, and figure out which one I will do next.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually working, but I would almost always rather be hanging out with my friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Not much... we'll have to hang out.

You should message me if

You feel so compelled, you strive for more out of life, you are creative, and if you aren't just looking for casual encounters.