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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:54am
Relationship Type
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Has kids and wants more
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Tall, dark, handsome, arrogant, brilliant, and amusing. I smell very good, it is one of my many talents. (Like *very* good, I have been mobbed because of it)

I am a geek that is good looking and has social skills, no shit. I throw parties and encourage our society to move to a less puritanical state. I am married, love my wife and chase women all the time. Well, not so much chase as catch.

I have children that eat a lot of my time.

Kink is not the central focus of my life, no matter how much I am involved in it.

I read a lot and love hiking in the mountains of our fair NC.

Organized religion is one of the only things that scares me.

I prejudge stupid people as being worthless, perhaps it is wrong of me.

I love getting Blowjobs. I may mention this again, no worries, it is not all I think about.

I am polyamorous

I think all of you who are saying things like, "Message me if you are the one I have been waiting for.." or "I am the one you have been waiting for..." are missing the a basic point of life. Stop waiting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Saving the world one person at a time. Really, this is my major goal in life. (I just realized this makes me sound all bible-thumpy, which is not the case)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most anything I put my mind to, except singing... it's never stopped me, though. Fear my Rockband skills!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall and loud and sleep with their girlfriends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Gene Wolfe is worth reading more than once. He shames other authors. Neil Gaiman and Neal Stephenson are cool. Robert Heinlein was my favorite before Gene. Though Ender's Game still comes out near the top of my list, OSC is an ass. (not as bad as Harlan Ellison, who can write a great short story) The Story of O is a good read, but maybe just because sitting around drinking single malt and spanking hot women is an appealing pastime. Alastair Reynolds is the best living hard SciFi writer. Ursula K. LeGuin has a great handle on melding Tao with fantasy.... Find me on Goodreads for more.

I agree with John Waters that we need to make reading cool again... if you take someone home, and they don't have books, do not fuck them.

...also, some blogs are fine art.. like Hyperbole and a Half

Real Genius, Fight Club, Blazing Saddles, Ronin, PotC

Firefly, The Wire, Mad Men, POI, House of Cards, Hemlock Grove, Castle

Juno Reactor, Tom Petty, Pink Floyd, Lady GaGa anything except country... Have you noticed that dubstep has given the rave scene a rebirth? I think that is wonderful (the rebirth, not the dubstep).

Sushi, Pho, Greek, most things spicy... Sawsadee has great Thai. Have you been to Buku? The Stanbury? Blackjack Brewery?

Apparently, it is odd that I cook.

I roast my own coffee and typically use a french press to brew it. I could use a vaccuum brewer...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
an open relationship


... not sure beyond that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Most everything... especially pigtails
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking single malt scotch and perhaps pursuing young ladies. Maybe snuggling with my wife.

On a typical Thursday night I am out with a bunch of friends looking for nightlife. There used to be this perfect place (now closed) that had a full bar, good espresso drinks, a patio, good food, and was not too crowded/loud. I spend too much time trying to find another one like that....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an open book. I love to tell stories about my life, even if I was on the losing end (how could that ever happen?!).

You may have seen me on Tinder, or FL, or some such crazy place as well....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to have intelligent conversation

You are a hot red-head :)

You have noticed all the electronica shows at the f'n Long Branch of all places.

You have beer suggestions. Or venue suggestions.

You think the Fat P is the best joint in CB.

(...and why do they need to be 'single' guys if you are looking for 'new friends'? Yeah, that's what I thought...)