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51 Ridgewood, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:07pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A Healthy and Happy New Year to You !
may you have peace, health, contentment
and the love of your life in 2015...

Hi .....thank you for stopping by.....
Maybe we're a Match?
If you see reasons for 'mutual' interest ..then 'Email'.

My Personality? Okcupid says, "more","more","more" 21 times!
.........a Real Deviation From the, I'm Not Mean ......
......................lolololol ;-))))))))))) you got it !!-) .........................
You have Smarts & a Sense of Humor . Say hello!
'Cliff Notes' Of SweetiePeye:
I'm as Modest as one can be, in an Online Profile. ;-)))

More important than a pretty face..... I'm
**Warm, Sweet & Loving,
**Lots of Fun, & a Very Fine woman...........

My match is a Fine Man who desires a wonderful, intimate & fulfilling relationship . He knows that fun and respect are not mutually exclusive. (He isn't trolling the sites for casual sex or 1-night stands.) He knows that finding a partner is not a photo contest !! Women his own age, are not relegated to the sidelines. He wouldn't want to be. He wants a Great Relate-tionship ! ;-)

All the best to you!

Let's Enjoy
We're looking for a partner to share all facets of life

I. LET'S ENJOY Interests & New Experiences. ;-)
C'est notre raison d'être ici
I welcome your suggestions: ordinary and extraordinary, near or far
We can
see movies, museums, concerts (mmmusic), & shows or break bread at a restaurant or get cookin at home!
We can enjoy nature and stay healthy if we cycle, swim, golf, ski or walk... I'm not Grizzly Adams or a Sports Fanatic, and not looking for one.
I'm flexible and ready ! UR2. I can plan or be spontaneous.
Details, Details...Let's make them Together


................INTERMISSION ENDS..............
II. LET'S ENJOY Quiet Times Together. ;-)

We can just relax and get cozy
while watching TV (or reading). We can see a news program & discuss current events (polit, econ, environ, TED Talks... ). Other times we keep each other company, whatever we each do. We share what's on our mind. We have a great sense of humor and plenty of fun.;-))))
We choose an exclusive relationship It's in our DNA. We're Not Playahs looking for 'Casual Sex'. It's great to share life with a wonderful partner.Love is not, an 'instant' emotion with a stranger, (that's Infatuation) so, we use both our minds and hearts. MATCHES MATCH"

III. LET'S ENJOY our friends and family ;-)
Let's share Ordinary Days and Holidays.
I welcome your children who probably are young adults by now? I was married for 20 years & you probably had a long term marriage too. I'm a person of fine character, well liked, loyal and loving, through thick and thin. You are too.

We'll begin as friends, &
hopefully, we've found our best friend and love.;-)

Nihil ausus nihil acquisitus (Nothing ventured, nothing gained.)
................. The time is right !
Say Hello ;-)
* Guys, please provide useful information in a profile*. Have a good attitude about exchanging some emails. Your picture is necessary.....You're presentable. You exist !
Also, I just moved close-by Manhattan . A bridge isn't an obstacle..... I don't live a plane ride away from you, nor should I have to 'be convenient'.
Parents, "Children Learn what they Live", Parenting while having a Happy Adult relationship is a good example ! Children LEARN what they Live" !
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying friends & family...and soon, hopefully, ..YOU!
Enjoying music, and movies...
I'm keeping fit, swimming year-round. (Newsflash: hooray. I swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again &&...) I (leisurely) cycle. I have 2 bikes: one for you! I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. (I'm Not a jock.)
You don't have to do these, but suggest something else.
BONUS: I have a really nice figure.

Work: Mgmt(bizplng,acctg) Volunteer Service: VITA(acctg)
I'm Professional & Personable (Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments and I enjoy helping others; so I Mentor College Interns. I also Volunteer during Tax season. I really Enjoy Learning. You do too ! Recently, I began playing the acoustic guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Warm, Loving & Fun
organizing, design, logic, learning, and listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm warm & welcoming,
I listen very well
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I leap tall buildings in a single bound (you're reading, good ;-)) , so
I find FUN & INTERESTING things to do.
Why not add some of Your ideas !
-I frequent a few venues for music, comedy, plays, movies,
-I enjoy museums, lectures, forums for learning
-I also enjoy hanging out at home, or at a restaurant...
as a couple; or with a group of friends, other couples, and family.
-I enjoy various physical activities in & outdoors (not a jock)
-I can have fun locally, at a resort...out-of-the-country...
-I enjoy Reading a book/kindle, newspaper, journal... a solo or shared home, the beach, ...
-I enjoy being together doing or not doing
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
of course:
Good Health,Love,(Family, Friends)Humor

especially desired:
One Partner WANTED

and some extras :
TECHnology,Art, Science, Nature,

good food,a welcoming Home,
& swimming
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying Healthy, (body & mind)
Personal, Social & professional growth, Doing Good
AND where could he possibly be......?
WWWWH: The Economy, Politics, The Social K, & Environment/Science
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the evening....Relaxing, having dinner...
(TV, concert, show, computer, reading, telephone)
Looking forward to being with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come closer, closer....
**the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-))) I did this because many men are age-phobic! yes! You're fine with dating a contemporary because you're bright.

Sensible men & women choose not to...
What kind of woman sleeps w/a man on a lst date? What kind of man goes out with these women? If she does it with you on a 'first date', she's doing it with the others..... She's desperate, and only 'a disrespectful, insecure and needy man takes advantage of a woman'.This one decision will certainly keep you Single ! I hope that is your objective.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-We seem to be a good MATCH. !
Wise & Warm, Educated & Interesting,
Confident yet Humble, Healthy & Attractive.

-You're a Stand-up Gentleman with a little bit of Wild, just for the Two of Us ! ;-)

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The following List answers a
PRIOR QUESTION: Books/Movies/Music/Food

Some DETAILS. Skim it if you prefer.
.......................Let's Go, Let's Go ! REALLY..................
MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, VanGough, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
Birdman, Dr. Cabbie, Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, In/Out US, Resorts, Conventions, Sight see, Relax, Visit
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)