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49 Chapel Hill, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 23
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
When drinking
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Seeing Someone
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I know what I want. Are you what I am looking for?

If you are married or separated? I am sooooo not interested!!!!
I am a single mom of two teenagers who I adore! Now that they are mostly self sufficient, I have more free time and would like to spend some of it with adults!
I love the outdoors and love biking, hiking, the beach, playing in the rain and making snow angels when we actually get snow.
I love to cook, go to thrift stores, hit tacky flea markets and antique stores.
I like campy humor, can't stand rap, love dancing and singing to 80's music.
I am looking for someone who wants a relationship not a fwb or a booty call. I want someone I can laugh with, get into heated debates with, snuggle in front of a fire and be the one you want to talk to at the end of the day.
I can't swear my life is drama free and I WON'T swear that it ever will be but sometimes a little drama is fun...
I love gardening and my goal is to have my balcony look like a jungle(minus the monkeys lol)

I can be high maintenance in terms of attention and affection but I give as good as I get....
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising my kids, looking for a job that I love rather than one I tolerate ( update: I found it, I am back with my old boss and close friend)and hanging out with good friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, pitching in when help is needed, cooking, problem solving (others, not always my own so much) cooking, being spontaneous....
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love vampire books... campy ones, serious ones, historic ones. I tend to gravitate to funny books because when I want to relax I don't want a tearjerker. I love suspense, murder mysteries, legal books and I have been known to read pretty much anything but westerns and horror...
Movies, I like just about anything but horror and movies like paranormal activity.
Chinese/cajun/mexican run neck and neck as my favorite foods, and I can make all of them. I also make italian food that will knock your socks off, I just don't like it much!
My music tastes are ecletic but these days it seems all I hear is what my kids listen to. On my phone, I have an odd mix rangong from Lily Allen to Paul Simon..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My bikes
My phone/computer
My friends
Affection-lots of it!
Good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I will be doing when the kids go to college, the company I will be starting, preventing empty nest syndrome and finding/inventing the perfect biking footwear.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a typical Friday night! I could be chaperoning teens, hanging out with my friends, eating at Bailey's or going to a movie!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing! Much more fun to find out private/silly/embarrassing things in person!
I am high maintenance physically. I make no apologies or excuses..... I give as good as I get!
You should message me if
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I amuse you or you think I might amuse you.