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47 F Menlo Park, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a glass-half-full kind of girl. I'm eternally curious. I prefer people who are very comfortable in their own skin and roll easily with the punches. I don't like hypercritical people. I abhor drama in my personal life, but love complexity in my food/wine/scotch/entertainment/work. I love the Monty Python type of humor.

I will definitely make calories available for trying new foods/drinks everywhere I travel. I exercise, so that I can indulge. I've visited lot of places, (30+ countries) and try a new one each year. I like to balance outdoor activities with food/drink/urban explorations. I would love to share my passion for travel/food/skiing with my significant other. I went hiking on my last short vacation (5 days in Zion/Bryce/Cedar Breaks/Vegas (but only because I had to fly through Vegas)). If someone had told me 10 yrs. ago that I would go on a hiking vacation, I would have thought s/he was nuts. I'm planning the next big trip ... maybe Iceland, Alaska, or Scotland/Ireland.

I like geeks (a lot) and thought-provoking forms of artistic expression. I prefer sci-fi or fiction with a technology or science bent. I need quiet time to recharge, but have more friends than I can keep up with. I love dancing and am open on music.

I try to live like the song, "I Hope You Dance" and the poem Instantes, except for the religious parts.

As much as I would love to meet the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with, I am not in a rush.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love to learn, but like to be entertained while I'm doing so. I try to keep all my relationships in good order, so that they know how much they mean to me. I am wondering when I am going to get off my bum and build this sculpture I have designed in my head. I've gotten as far as going on the TechShop tour in Menlo Park. Amazing place.

I like solving dramatically different business problems on a frequent basis, or I get bored. I'm focused on health tech or tech for my next adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- brainstorming for solutions; seeing patterns
- making new people I meet feel comfortable
- seeing other peoples' point of view
- trying new things
- counseling friends and tailoring the advice to them
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't know ... an easy smile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- any music I can sing to or dance to
- love music, but am not particular
- independent films, operas, thought-provoking sci fi, some fantasy, or those relating to alternative realities, espionage, period films, ballet, theatre, musicals
- love all cuisines and am in search of new creations all the time
- J.K. Rowlings, Gore Vidal, Neal Stephenson, Tom Clancy, Robert Ludlum, Sheri Tepper, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Steven D Levitt, Jane Austen
- Anything related to Joss Whedon, Audrey Hepburn, Alfred Hitchcock, David Lynch, Woody Allen, Johnny Depp, Kate Winslet, Diane Keaton, Woody Allen, Kate Beckinsale, Hugh Grant, the cast of Monty Python, Colin Firth, Kevin Kline, Katherine Hepburn, Emily Blunt, Catherine Deneuve, Gerard Depardieu, Helen Bonham-Carter, Anthony Hopkins, Juliette Binoche, Natalie Portman, Matt Bomer (come on ... One of them has to be for eye candy ...), Marion Cotillard, Chris Rock, Tina Fey
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- love of family/friends
- a large variety of great food/drinks
- intellectual stimulation and the capacity to learn, while being relatively pain free
- the means to do those things I enjoy, including a current passport
- mobile/internet
- the prospect of falling in love .... BEST drug EVER! And staying in a loving relationship.
..... Hmmm ... I cheated a bit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- the next trip I want to take
- how to get into my next career
- how to talk people into hiring me for stuff I've never done before
- How to better design things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not sure if there is a typical Friday ... out with friends or winding down from the work week at home or going to a meetup, if I want new conversations (I mostly go to the one for indie films.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I watch animated films without my nieces. I love seeing old couples holding hands. I can't help watching Notting Hill every time it is on.

I have answered a zillion OKC questions, which is part of my self-discovery and to pass time quicker, while, for example, waiting for tea ...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- are single/divorced/widowed, hetero, male,
- are living most of the year somewhere in SF or on the peninsula (points along 85 are fine, too),
- don't smoke cigarettes,
- have used a passport in the past couple of years,
- find the idea of walking from ground zero to Central Park fun (or at least not painful),
- are not poly-amorous

Polyglots and polymaths welcome :-)

Wishing happiness and love to all!