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52 F Seattle, WA

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Last Online
Aug 25
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
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Has cats

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My self-summary
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OK, I guess I jumped the gun a bit here. Just when I thought I was ready to hit the dating scene again, all hell broke loose with my multiple jobs. (I am currently working 9 part-time jobs.) Now I am interviewing for a full-time job. I just can't seem to find the time to actually schedule a meeting with anyone. Thank you to all the nice, kind men who wrote me. I do apologize for not responding appropriately, and I do appreciate all your kind words and interest. I'll be back once things calm down.

I'm ready to start grabbing life again. I think. I'm finding out who I am again, and what I want for the next chapter of my life.

I work several part-time jobs. I'm pretty busy with that. I have a workout routine that I try to follow 3-4 times a week, but can be flexible about that, for a good cause. I have standing dates with my bandmates and other musician friends to play music a couple of times a week. In short - my schedule is packed, but not so packed that I can't make room for new friends, new experiences, and new interests.

I'm hoping to find an honest, straightforward man who wants to start out as friends and see where things lead. I don't do those "girl-games" with men or women. I don't need drama to make me feel alive. I like to know what excites a person, what makes them happy and interested. Not looking for someone to take care of me - I can manage that on my own, thank you very much. I would like the next person I date to be interested, to think I'm important, to call me before Saturday to see if I want to do something on Saturday, and to make room for me in his life, even if we end up just being friends. You can never have too many friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, playing music, dancing, reading, regretting that there aren't 26 hours in every day!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes - green, though they often look blue. And my hair - very long, silver and brown.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Robert B. Parker, the Bronte sisters, Faye Kellerman, Bartholomew Gill, Anita Shreve, Robert Crais, hell, I'll read the milk carton if there's nothing else available.

Movies: Love most movies, even bad ones. Not too keen on scary, gratuitous blood-fests, though.

Music: LOVE Cajun music. I play in a couple of local bands, and love to go dance when my friends are playing. Also go to a fair number of classical & Baroque concerts when friends are playing.

Food: I've been told I'm a picky eater, but I just know what I like. I'm not afraid to pick off stuff I don't like. I prefer plain, simple food. Even fast food will work for me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People and what makes them tick. My friends and what they need. How to get better at various things. Why the world is the way it is.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There aren't really any 'typical' Friday nights for me. I might be working, have a gig, out dancing, or sitting quietly at home. I'd be up for a movie.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll tell you after we know each other better.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You really are an honest, straightforward kind of person. Players stay away!