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41 F Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:02pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm pretty independent but I would like to share my life with someone. I work, and I like my work. I really enjoy hanging out in the woods; it's something I need to do to be happy. I go to the beach as much as I can. I read a lot, mostly online.
I truly enjoy my child and he is a big part of what I do. Luckily, he is fun and has a quick wit.
I do yoga, garden and try to eat healthy. I'm an INTJ. I am intensely interested in politics and favor the left-leaning. I am not a Democrat per se. I am not into organized religion but I like to explore different ideas of spirituality.
I'd be ok if I never drove a car again, although I just bought a car. It's a paradox, maybe even hypocrisy.
I've spent a bunch of time thinking about things like race/class & gender. I hope that you have spent some time thinking about this, too. It makes for better conversations.
I am not a big fan of dogs and motorcycles make me nervous. If you like them that's great.
I'd love to build a house. I'd like to set in a garden and grow soil. I want to have a conversation with you across the table without saying any words. I want to feel the sunshine and think of you.
--Please, if you are in a relationship already, do not contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working in education. I do it because I like to be with people who are exploring ideas and trying to make better lives for themselves. Plus: other jobs don't let you talk about race, class, gender, politics and the economy all day.
I am raising a fine boy. He's funny and smart and has good manners. He will shake your hand and look you in the eye. That stuff does not happen by accident.
Sometimes, I am preoccupied with obtaining and preparing delicious, healthy food.
I’m really good at
I explore social issues and encourage critical thinking.
I make the best out of most situations.
I am really good at connecting with children.
I can cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall :)
People ask me for directions all the time.
I guess I look like I know what I am doing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book of fiction is Oryx & Crake by Margaret Atwood. I read mostly non-fiction and read news articles. For fun I am participating in a Coursera class.

TV: Archer, Vikings on the History Channel. Used to love Mad men.

I like a good funk show.
Some really good shows I have seen: Les Claypool, The Roots, Jane's Addiction, Parliament, Rising Appalachia, William Elliot Whitmore.

Honestly, I would be happy with a steady diet of salad and ice cream, coffee and wine. I am not a vegetarian. Good food is important to me, I eat mostly organic and gluten-free. I use a crock pot. I love to grow food. I wish I had a giant garden. I wish I lived on a farm, though I am not a farmer.
The six things I could never do without
my kid (not really a "thing" but merits top of this list)
coffee
chocolate
my glasses
a toothbrush
good friend or two
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether I should have another cup of coffee or not.
Social issues and the environment.
But sometimes I just enjoy the sunset and make snarky jokes.
But really, I think too much about the structure of social institutions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at a show or maybe a potluck. I like watching movies at the brew n view. I like a mellow Friday night and like to do things on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'd like to find someone who grows food and appreciates compost.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
* You are looking for a stable partner in this crazy life (you should also be stable)
* You have goals and can recognize the manifestations as they come
* You want a picture. I'll send it via email