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45 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm funny, goofy, creative, thoughtful, thinking, thilly, thexy, thun to be around.

I come from a big family, grew up outside of Boston, like to snowboard but don't enough, love most any beach, but don't just lay there - in every sense wink wink,
And some other stuff too.

I'm a creative person with a practical business sense. Think most in this country have lots of stuff and not enough substance. But I like stuff too :-/

I bunk in the middle ... Um.. I know it's not a hook up site but that's kind of relevant in the gay world of dating.

And I'm also HIV +...... Very important to know and frankly easier for me to say here than after you get excited (and you would have - cuz I'm charming and usually get to a first date) and then tell me it's a deal breaker. I won't judge anyone excluding HIV + people just please block yourself.

Oh and so much more that I look forward to letting you know on a real date, face to face.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
LIVING and enjoying the journey
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is my great sense of humor.
Even if I am the only one laughing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just finished reading The Secret Historian.
I like tv on my terms, so never any commercials. Typically Homeland, Nurse Jackie, Mad Men, Game of Thrones....lots of documentaries and movies, football, soccer....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much better the legal escorting business would be in Las Vegas if the Republicans would hold their convention there.
The continued spread of HIV all over the world, but particularly here in the US.
What can be done, educating, re-educating, condom distribution, access to affordable medication, PREP, +stigma and what the hell we are all doing about it as a community.

New Sneakers... Really cool ones that are not $500 plus dollars, really?!?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With good good good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you over use the word 'like' I'll point it out.
You should message me if
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You like to laugh, learn about new things, prefer a documentary over any real housewives, a book over a fashion magazine, off off off broadway over broadway show, bacon wrapped anything, bike over taxis, men over boiz....