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28 F Antwerp, Belgium

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am curious, socially awkward, creative, introverted, a little bit geeky, and eternally indecisive about my focus in life.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be more decisive and focused? Or at least that's what I probably should be doing. In the meantime, thinking about lots of stuff.

I'm from Finland, but I moved to Belgium in 2011 to live with dark_turtle. Before that, we only got to hang out a couple of times per year, and that was really getting old.

I'm a graphic designer. Or, to put it more accurately: of all the things I like to do, graphic design is pretty much the only thing that people sometimes pay me for. I also paint occasionally, and my partner and I think about creating things like comics or board games. Sometimes we get so excited, we almost do something about it.

I take pop/jazz singing classes at a nearby music school. I used to study classical singing, but... I didn't quit, exactly, I never wanted to quit, but I'm not doing it actively anymore because reasons.

The next thing I'd like to try is being in a musical, so if you're casting an amateur production of, say, The Phantom of the Opera or My Fair Lady or Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog in English anywhere near my area, do let me know!
I’m really good at
Drawing, music, cooking, abstract thinking, make-up.

Bonus category - I'm really bad at:
Dancing, sports, making decisions, getting shit done, multitasking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't draw too much attention to myself, except when I talk too loud in public which I apparently sometimes do according to some people. ;P

Airline personnel always seem to know I'm Finnish just by looking at me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The internet has killed my book-reading habit, but my favourite author is Kazuo Ishiguro.

Some recent movies that I've liked: Her, Gravity, The Heat, The Lego Movie

Firefly, Sherlock, Battlestar Galactica, Call the Midwife, Orange is the New Black, My Mad Fat Diary, Project Runway, Masterchef Australia

Bonus category - Comedy
Brooklyn Nine-Nine, The Office, The Daily Show, a lot of British sketch comedy, Miranda, Eddie Izzard, Tim Minchin

I have never been able to make a list of my favourite music in my life, and I'm not about to start now.

Extra bonus category - Computer games
A whole bunch of adventure games, the Bioshock series

The six things I could never do without
1. Glasses or contacts
2. Paper tissues
3. Lip balm
4. Some kind of heat-retaining cushion
5. Jeeves
6. Teleportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The way people work. The way the world works. The way minds work. Lately, things like privilege and social justice. Also, food.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, like any other middle-aged married person.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you thought, like me, that it would somehow be a good idea to use a dating site to meet new potential friends or just have random conversations with people, instead of looking for dates. (I know it's a bit silly.) Or if you're looking for dates but are open to non-romantic options as well.