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  • Ages 21-32
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Last online
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White, —
5' 9" (1.75m)
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Special Diet
Post grad
Has cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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According to the personality assessment I completed for work, people like me "value intelligence, knowledge, and competence, and typically have high standards in those regards, which they continuously strive to fulfill. To a somewhat lesser extent, they have similar expectations of others."

I’d say that’s about right. As for my chances of fulfilling those expectations on an online dating site, I’m not too sure. Alas, here I am!

In general, I’m drawn to people who are authentic, inquisitive, and comfortable with their own peculiarities.

Right, so more about me: My “plan” for after college was to read periodicals all day long and somehow find a way to get paid for it. Inexplicably, that didn’t end up happening. I now work in data processing, and I strangely enjoy it.

I still read, though. In parks, weather permitting.

Footnote: the username – not deliberate. I was just mashing 1s and 0s. I now realize that there's another 1010110010 on Slashdot. This 1010110010 isn't me, surely I'm far more interesting. I also realize now that I missed a grand opportunity to actually spell out a secret message in binary. Damn.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend a lot of time meeting the incessant demands of my cat, Emily. She wants to play forever, and ever (and ever). When my feline companion allows me to leave my apartment, I also enjoy hiking. Also, music and film and those sorts of things that everyone likes (but even more so!).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making obscure Aki Kaurismaki film references, and generally not fumbling in the process. Planning. Troubleshooting, in a very general sense. Listening. Entertaining my cat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tend to think I look Irish, which I am partly, so there you have it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: My taste tends to be eclectic. I get excited by unusual sounds and influences. Recently -- Raymond Scott, Morton Subotnick, Gilberto Gil, Steve Reich, the Cocteau Twins (did you search for Cocteau Twins?), the Smiths, Brian Eno, Laurie Spiegel. I also have a thing for opera and Italian disco. I quite like this track:

Food: Plant-based. I've been vegan for 13 and 1/2 years.

Movies: I've been on an Ingmar Bergman kick for the past few months. His movies are stunning. UPDATE: I've moved on to Pedro Almodovar.

TV: Most of it isn't very good, huh? Exception for Peep Show (an English comedy, with which I identify maybe a little too much).

Books: Generally non-fiction, and even better if it's literary non-fiction. Recent reads -- David Graeber, Jon Ronson.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seems like a lot of people list coffee, which I also like, I guess.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The things we do today that might alarm future generations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The possibilities are limitless. Not really, truthfully. Generally I can be found somewhere between downtown, where I work, and uptown, where I live. Likely ingesting music/ film with glass of cabernet in hand. Bowie albums often feature prominently in my Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd rather take the real-world route. I hope I have inserted some good keywords, although I imagine there is more to a man than the text he types. All right, because you are so inquisitive: I have a several port-wine birthmarks on the back of my left leg; I imagine they look like a series of continents.
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