Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a playful guy(not in the misogynistic player way) just a kid
at heart, I will try to find or make fun in most situations. Women
come before most other priorities, although I have a complicated
equation I reference when deciding how to prioritize people over
other people. I’m also a dork and can be nerdy about some things as
well, but am quite far from being socially inept or letting my
geekiness hinder meeting and befriending new people. I’m not a nerd
that you would be embarrassed to take some place. I do rock
concerts, fancy dinners, camp outings, family gatherings and many
other things. I can do sports gatherings, but I’m more into the
social and experience of it than the actual game itself. Kind of
like how tailgating can be fun even though the game hasn’t even
started. I do not like to play with your emotions, though I do urge
you not to mistake my kindness for more than what it is. I attempt
to be as nice as I can to any one nice to me. I can be overly
helpful and trusting if you don’t give me reason not to be. Above
all, don’t read into my words any more than what I say. I am very
picky with how I choose to my wording. If I say something, I’m not
being shy about it, not trying to hide my true feelings; I usually
mean it precisely as I say it. Thissssss, this may be a little
confusing, so if you'd like, I can try to give you examples, but
chances are if we're just having a simple conversation, you
wouldn’t notice that character in me. I don’t like the term
"hopeless romantic", but you might say that I am one. I can be
incredibly passionate, caring and understanding. I can also not be
that, I can be like a statue, showing little to no emotion at all,
but you really have to push me to get that far. I'll try to be as
good to you as I think you deserve, and most of the time, I think
you deserve more than I can give so I’ll always try to keep being
better to you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the end, it would be to have a loving family and make enough
money to provide for said family. I am a family guy, but understand
if you're not. I have some very loving family members that I would
die for, and then I have family members who've given their best
attempts to ruin my life. Just because someone is in your blood
line doesn’t mean you have to love them. I love those who are or at
least mostly were good to me. But right now, it’s pretty much just
fun time. I work, I save, I aspire...but I’m in the middle for the
time being, so trying to enjoy myself and get back into a
happy-go-lucky lifestyle, responsibly so of course. I’m looking
into going back to college for both science and education. Learn as
much as I can then turn around and teach it all back.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Above being a dork, I can be incredibly sweet. I need something to
work with though. Romance is best personalized. There are generic
sweetnesses, but I’d much rather tailor my kindness around a
specific personality. I’ve had women wish that I was older, younger
or even gay so they could get closer to me. That might sound odd,
but I say that because my personality is one they like very much,
but my potential of being a man like any other man is something
they don’t want to worry about. They don’t need to worry about it,
but I understand the caution. I have been invited out for girls
nights on several occasions, chaperoned a drunken bachelorette
party and am not a stranger to sleeping in a bed with a girl and
being able to keep my hands to myself, drunk, sober or otherwise.
The gay thing, that’s just girls having a greater trust for a man
who's not trying to get in their paints. I would like to be inside
your mind and heart above all else. Other than that, my personality
is rather playful and childlike, but not irresponsible. I’ve been
told times beyond count that I am wise beyond my years.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That used to be my Mohawk, which I am considering again. I am
currently growing out the afro, but its only at a few inches right
now. I normally cut or change my hair every year or two, but pretty
much limit those changes to short, long or Mohawk. You might notice
my smile or laugh, you might see be balancing on something or
climbing up something. You might notice that I ask a lot of
questions. Not rudely or stupidly so, but out of curiosity and a
partial understanding that desires to understand further.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Kingkiller trilogy by Pat Rothfuss, The Hitchhiker's Guide
to the Galaxy series by Douglas Adams, the Ishmael trilogy by
Daniel Quinn, The Farseer trilogy by Robin Hobb. The Devil's
Dictionary by Ambrose Bierce and many more.
Music; I listen to everything but country and polka. Not saying
they suck, I just don’t enjoy them. I have very eclectic taste. I
listen to the radio from time to time, but I prefer unique songs. A
good deal of my iPod titles are not in English and I take enjoyment
in finding music that others know little about. (not a hipster)
Movies: mostly action and thinker movies. SLC Punk, The Watchmen,
Serenity & Firefly, Across the Universe. Fight Club, pretty
much anything from PIXAR. Dont count out romance like The Great
Gatsby, Host and others. I own hundreds of movies so it;s difficult
to list the best.
Food: im a carnivore with a sweet tooth. I will try new foods, but
please trust me when i tell you that i do not or will not like
something. I'm what you might call a hypersensitive when it comes
to my taste and can often taste foods that have been next to what
im eating by their smell that has drifted on to it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, air, shelter, love, education. But those are basic
needs for a human mind and body. If you wish to get a bit more
personal: females is one. Family, friends, lovers…I just enjoy
female company. I actually get upset if I haven’t hung out with a
lady after about 3 days, but if you are a lady, you may never see
that in me. I enjoy my media: games, books, movies & shows.
Definitely love food, exercise is great too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about people, interactions, the mind. As with most
people, mine makes incredible sense to me, but others do not. I try
to understand what they see that I do not. I am well aware that a
problem with my understanding is not always the fault of the
explanation. I am limited in my understanding, but that does not me
I will not attempt to anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be anywhere on a Friday night. Going out, staying in, at a
show, out of town, biking, running, working out, reading, moving,
cleaning…sleeping if I plan on staying up all night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I’ve been told I’m the closest thing to a gay guy for a straight
guy. This isn’t with mannerisms, language or any outward sign… its
more in reference to how you can talk to me, what I can understand
or relate to and how well I can listen with learning about you
being my only goal.
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