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40 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 32–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:18am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, browse my pix. If you get past those, check the "match %" Although not an absolute standard, it does provide useful info. If still interested, god bless you - contact me immediately, unless you decide to hold out for the next best thing.

I would message you. Because I think I like you and that you're awesome. However, you're just going to delete my note without replying. I could write a tome based on your profile and all the wonderful connections and shared values we have, etc, but if you don't like my pix, you won't respond. So I'll have wasted 3 hours of my life.

On the other hand, if I go with the more efficient route and write a note that you think is too short, you'll assume that I did not make an effort. So you'll delete my note without replying. Again, wasted time. So I guess I'll visit your profile multiple times and wonder "what if". This is "online dating" for ugly people such as myself.

I'm not looking for "friends". I'm able to find my way to the friendzone quite easily, thankyouverymuch. With no help whatsoever, I might add. It's a marvelous skill I possess. You probably think this means I'm looking for FWB or FB. However, that would be incorrect. It just means that I have no interest in starting off from the penalty box (friends).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it as best I can, of course. See photos.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting window-paned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite paper is Barry Schwartz's "The Tyranny of Choice." Also available as the "The Paradox of Choice" on TED or Youtube. If you lack time, start watching at 15:00. Watch, ponder, and consider the points expounded in that video as they apply to you. Don't forget - the 15:00 mark.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
perfectly complement the other 94. Or perhaps it's the other 994.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. OMFG, the whole world is online at OKC right now!

2. Your message indicator is most likely red. It's great that you travel, go ziplining in Costa Rica, run (half) marathons, triathlons, go rock climbing, do shirsasanas on the beach, conquer Potato Chip Rock, pet exotic animals in Thailand (tigers, elephants, maybe an occasional snake) etc, and even more etc (where more etc = super-awesome, mind-blowing, awe-inspiring, life-fulfilling, earth-shattering activities conducted at random exotic locales throughout the world). Good for you! However, you don't reply to messages, of course. Big forehead slap! Because you're just shopping and there's always something better out there...

3. It's comforting to know that you're still here. Glad that I'm not the only one in OKC hell. I contacted you more than a year ago. This goes without saying but you deleted my note without responding. Because why would you? Who in their right mind would ever consider the dregs of OKC (me)? You most definitely wouldn't! However, it's been more than a year and you're still here. That's comforting to me - because it confirms that I'm not the only loser on here.

Please keep looking. I'll check again a few years from now. By then, it'll be all roses, unicorns, and rainbows for you, I'm sure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending quality time with myself because you won't respond to my messages.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Browsing OKC causes me to crave Novocaine for the soul...
Lighten up on your demands, please. No need to respond to guys who disrespect you, but perhaps you could deign to offer polite consideration to sad sods such as myself? No? Too much? My message wasn't long enough?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you feel so inclined after reading my lengthy essay available at "Photos." Since 1 pic = 1000 words, it appears I've posted 9000 words. However, it's all easy reading and should take you but a minute to peruse.