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1138Tom

45 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
May 30
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Catholicism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Professional tech consultant and amateur writer. Self-appointed certified mixologist, although I actually did go to bartending school.

Film and technology drew me to San Francisco from the Midwest twelve years ago, being near the ocean and the SF lifestyle made me stay. I sometimes miss the snow, but not the chipping ice off my car at 6 am.

I studied abroad in England, and traveled Europe where I learned to ride horseback, fence, and speak some Polish and French. "Speak" is used loosely in this context.

I'm a geek/nerd, a techie, and a hipster by association (not really and I hardly ever wear flannel).
What I’m doing with my life
Living it up in true SF style. Eating, drinking and being merry! Looking for a way to make the transition to successful entrepreneur.
I’m really good at
Problem solving and I make a mean Singapore Sling
The first things people usually notice about me
My down to earth nature and that I am a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors:
Pratchet, Douglas Adams, Bradbury, Asimov, Tolkien and Lovecraft

Books:
The Da Vinci Code, Harry Potter, iWoz, The Darwath Trilogy and The Physics of Star Trek

Movies:
Cinema Paradiso, Serendipity, While You Were Sleeping, Star Wars: A New Hope, Castaway, Desperado, The Princess Bride, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, What Dreams May Come, The Final Cut, Back to the Future and Donnie Darko

TV Shows:
Dexter, Doctor Who, Fringe, The X-files, BSG, Californication, Walking Dead, Eureka, Lost Girl, The IT Crowd, House, Sherlock and Game of Thrones

Music:
Fleetwood Mac, Eagles, The Police, The Who, Def Leppard, Bee Gees, Duran Duran, Daft Punk, Chemical Brothers, Cardigans, Aerosmith, Afro Celt Sound System, Go-Gos, Beatles, Beck, Dave Brubeck, movie soundtracks, classical and jazz

I like just about every type of food. I love Brazilian steak (all steak), anything BBQed, Thai, Indian, Mexican and Italian. I'm learning to like sushi and always open to trying new dishes.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, internet, iPhone, steak, philosophical discussion and living a meaningful life
On a typical Friday night I am
At the movies, restaurants and bars with my friends. Wondering how I will wake up for an early Saturday morning bike ride.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get really nervous on first dates.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You need someone to go to that new bar or restaurant with you. I want to try it too.
A Doctor Who marathon sounds appealing.