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34 M Philadelphia, PA

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Short and sweet: I'm a classical musician, I love what I do, and I do it well. I have an amazing family, and the greatest friends imaginable. While I can be sarcastic, I am a kindhearted person and a compassionate and non-judgmental listener, and I love to find the same qualities in people with whom I associate.

For any fellow psychology geeks, I am an INTJ... but am very close to the middle of the spectrum for each of the 4 measurements. So, I'm balanced, but difficult to classify. Around some people I'm the life of the party. But, just as often, I sit back and observe. If you're an extrovert, and crave a fellow extrovert, I'm probably not going to be that guy. I am very health conscious and physically active. If you are too, we'll have that much more to talk about. I'm a rare cross between a spiritual hippie, a grounded business mind, a jock, and an artsy type.... and you thought we didn't exist.... :)

I just bought a house and moved to Philly last summer and am looking to meet new people. My schedule is jam packed, but I have control over most of it. So I can make time for friends, family, and people who intrigue me. I'm a laid back, playful, and affectionate guy who loves life. If you're up for some fun, if you know yourself, and if you're serious about meeting in person to see if we have a connection (romantic or just friends), I'd love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
hmmmm....(attach resume/bio here)

I do what I'm passionate about for a living. I'm a musician. I hold jobs with orchestras in NY and Philly, provide consulting services for people who need live music, and teach a handful of private students on the side.

I eat fruits and veggies in absurdly large quantities, and I occasionally wear Fivefinger shoes. Consider yourself warned. :)

In all seriousness, there are many ways to be healthy. I eat mostly low fat raw vegan. Don't worry, I'm not a patchouli smelling, dreadlock wearing pothead living in my parents' basement. I go out to eat often (Philly is such a great foodie town, how could I not?!), and my social life is completely unaffected. I'm happy to explain to you why I live the way I do and eat the way I eat, without trying to convert you. I am not morally opposed to eating meat or drinking milk. But every now and then, I do run into someone who has a problem with my lifestyle. If that's you, and you have no desire to hear the how's and why's, then I wish you the best of luck in your search.
I’m really good at
sports, music, massages, playing nice with others, listening, communicating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess you'll just have to let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Quiet - Susan Cain
You Can Heal Your Life - Louise L. Hay
Have A Little Faith - Mitch Albom,
The 80/10/10 Diet - Dr. Douglas N. Graham,
Healing for the age of Enlightenment - Stanley Burroughs,
The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold,
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle,
Born to Run - Christopher McDougall
Tuesdays with Morrie - Mitch Albom,
Sperm Wars - Robin Baker (It's not what you think. Well, it is, but it isn't. It's it.)


Brahms, Eric Clapton, Mahler, Barber, Billy Joel, Beatles, Paul Simon, Bach, Tchaikovsky, Nielsen, Chopin, Beethoven, Ravel, Herbie Hancock, old Aerosmith, Paul Desmond, Dave Brubeck, Stevie Wonder, Sting, Thelonius Monk, Ray Charles, Ron Carter, Chick Corea, DMB, Maroon 5, U2, 80's music, most classic rock, etc... I love meeting people who can introduce me to music I'm not familiar with... though most country, rap, and death metal are kind of a stretch for me.


raw fruits and veggies... mmmmm...(wipes drool)
The six things I could never do without
Love, music, fresh air, and good food. 6 is too many things to not be able to do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything... women, my business, politics, nutrition, health, music, running after Ultimate discs, sleeeeeeeeeep...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
heh... you're going to have to work for this one.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if: watch this all the way through and laugh out loud at least twice. are moved by this. are motivated and inspired by something in your life, you are looking for interdependence in a relationship, rather than independence or dependence.

...You are kind, warm, a music geek, workout junky, someone who can carry on an intellectual conversation one minute, and act like a goofball the next.

We are less likely to be a good match if you are making a duck face in most of your pictures, if you can't wait until the next holiday bar crawl in your town, or the gist of your profile is, "I like to have fun, I like the beach." We all like to have fun, and most of us even like the beach. I hear all the time how most women long for us men to write messages containing something more creative than "Hey, you're hot". Please give us something to work with! Help us help you :)