For you fellow psychology geeks, I am an INTJ... but am very close to the middle of the spectrum for each of the 4 measurements. So, I'm balanced, but difficult to classify. Around some people I'm the life of the party. But, just as often, I sit back and observe. I am very health conscious and physically active, and (to an extent) it's important to me that you are too. This is not to say I never let loose and relax in front of the TV with a bowl of something bad for me... And it's not to say you have to eat exactly the way I do. Here comes that word again...balance. Flip flops one day, tuxedo the next.
I'm looking for someone who is attractive, laid back, and easy going... but motivated and inspired by something. As far as relationship dynamics, I'm not looking for dependence, nor am I looking for independence. What I want is interdependence... ya know, 1 + 1 = 11. Two people who are at similar places in life, having value of their own, coming together to evolve.