Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The most hilarious pickup line that I've seen on here so
"Girl, you're like my pinky toe...
I'm gonna bang you on every piece of furniture in my house."
I'm a classical musician, health nut, and an athletic and playful
guy. I love what I do for a living, and I'm pretty good at it. I
have an amazing family (we've been through a lot together), and
wonderful friends in many different countries. While I can be
sarcastic, and sometimes goofy, I am a kindhearted person and a
compassionate and non-judgmental listener. Looking for some similar
qualities in a partner.
For any fellow psychology geeks, I am an INTJ... but am very close
to the middle of the spectrum for each of the 4 measurements. So,
I'm balanced, but difficult to classify. Around some people I'm the
life of the party. But, just as often, I sit back and observe. If
you're an extrovert, and crave someone you can light up the town
with, I'm probably not going to be that guy. I'd rather have a
meaningful conversation with a small group of people, or one on
one, than schmooze in a loud bar. Small talk bores me, but I
occasionally indulge for the sake of networking.
I am very health conscious and physically active. If you are too,
we'll have that much more to talk about. I don't try t convert
anybody, but if the words "cleanse" or "vegan" make you
uncomfortable, we're probably better off as friends. I'm spiritual
and scientific, an artist and a jock. I'm basically a walking
I bought a house and moved to Philly relatively recently and I'm
looking to meet new people in the area. My schedule is pretty busy,
but I have control over most of it. So I can make time for friends,
family, and people who intrigue me. I'm a laid back, playful, and
affectionate guy who loves life. If you're up for some fun, if you
know yourself, and if you're serious about meeting in person to see
if we have a connection (romantic or just friends), I'd love to
hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I play the horn formerly known as French.
I eat fruits and veggies in quantities that most people would find
absurd, and I occasionally wear Fivefinger shoes. Consider yourself
In all seriousness, there are many ways to be healthy, and people
have different standards for what constitutes health. I accept
other people's decisions, but am looking to be with someone who is
open minded about trying things. I'm not a patchouli smelling,
dreadlock wearing pothead living in my parents' basement. I go out
to eat often (Philly is such a great foodie town, how could I
not?), my social life doesn't suffer, and I don't preach. But
having enthusiasm for and an open mind toward health and nutrition
is a core value for me, and is something I would like to share with
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
, massages, playing nice
with others, communicating, listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess you'll just have to let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Quiet - Susan Cain
You Can Heal Your Life - Louise L. Hay
Have A Little Faith - Mitch Albom,
The 80/10/10 Diet - Dr. Douglas N. Graham,
Healing for the age of Enlightenment - Stanley Burroughs,
The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold,
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle,
Born to Run - Christopher McDougall
Tuesdays with Morrie - Mitch Albom,
Sperm Wars - Robin Baker (It's not what you think. Well, it is, but
it isn't. It's awesome...read it.)
Too much to list. From Brahms, to Billy Joel, to Dave Brubeck, to
U2... Most classic rock floats my boat. I love meeting people who
can introduce me to music I'm not familiar with... though most
country, rap, and death metal are kind of a stretch for me.
raw fruits and veggies... mmmmm...(wipes drool)
Indian, Thai, Ethiopean, Vegetarian Phở
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, music, fresh air, and good food. 6 is too many things to be
unable to do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
running after Ultimate discs, sleeeeeeeeeep...
I wish that dating sites included a "level of happiness" box. I
don't care how much you can make in a year, as long as you're an
adult and can support yourself. Happiness is so much more
Also, I do my best to respond to every message in a friendly
manner, regardless of my level of interest. I appreciate closure
and compassion, for myself and for others. To you women who have
received lewd comments merely for not being interested in a guy, I
apologize on behalf of my gender. :) Not all of us guys are passive
I wish everyone the best of luck in their search.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
heh... you're going to have to work for this one.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if:
...you watch this all the way through and laugh out loud at least
...you are motivated and inspired by something in your life, you
are kind, warm, a music geek, workout junky, or someone who can
carry on an intellectual conversation one minute, and act like a
goofball the next.
We are less likely to be a good match if you are making a duck face
in most of your pictures, if you can't wait until the next holiday
bar crawl in your city/town, or the gist of your profile is, "I
like to have fun, I like the beach." We all like to have fun, and
most of us even like the beach. I hear all the time how most women
long for us men to write messages containing something more
creative than "Hey, you're hot". Please give us something to work
with in your profile. Help us help you.
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