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39 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 31–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:36pm
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)
Random fact: I once played lead guitar for a 80s/90s cover band called "At least eat the meat" in grad school. We were asked to play at a graduation party one year at a professor's house in the Berkeley hills and we were so loud, the cops showed up. It was my first, and most likely my last, taste of what it's probably like to be a rockstar.
I'm looking for a fun, adventurous, kind-hearted girl with a penchant for occasional mischief. A girl who has a good sense of herself and knows what she wants in life. A girl who appreciates the outdoors and doesn't mind the lack of facilities for a few days. A girl who loves children. And food. And music. And if you can sing, I desperately need a voice to complement my guitar.
Movies: The Goonies, Fargo, Dumb and Dumber, When Harry Met Sally
Shows: Portlandia, How I Met Your Mother
Music: The Smiths, U2, Beatles, classic Bossa Nova, 70s slow rock, Ella Fitzgerald, Doc Watson, any acoustic guitar music
Food: uni, Korean BBQ, Racer 5 IPA, oysters at Hog Island farm, all kinds of pizza (although I hear St. Louis style is not very palatable)
a cold IPA
You're willing to sit through my unplugged performance of "Every Rose has its Thorn" while I sport my mullet wig
Chatting over an IPA is your idea of a good first date
You want to take a mushroom foraging class
You've gone backpacking at any of these places: Patagonia, Kenai Fjords, Milford Sound, the Lost Coast, the Enchantments
You either a) know what okonomiyaki is and you like it or b) don't know what it is but curious to try it. Either way, I'll make it for you
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