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41 • F • Melbourne, Australia
I’m looking for
- Men who like women
- Ages 30–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Oct 27
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
I read a lot, both fiction and non. I enjoy seeing bands and I also like camping and the outdoors. I'm not into sport or the gym but ride my bike most places and do yoga a couple of times a week.
public speaking - I know weird, but I find it really easy
making and maintaining strong friendships
cracking really dark jokes
I try to read the classics and some of my favourites have been ‘Lady Chatterly’s Lover’, ‘Wuthering Heights’, ‘Dracula’, ‘A Handful of Dust’, ‘Dangerous Liaisons’ and ‘The Picture of Dorian Gray’. My favourite fiction authors are F Scott Fitzgerald and Bret Easton Ellis.
I usually have a novel and a non fiction book going at any one time. I really enjoy books about music. Some recent favourites include Leonard Cohen's Bio, Simon Reynold’s ‘Retromania’ and others include Nick Hornby’s ’31 Songs’, Marianne Faitfhul’s autobiography, ‘The Dirt’ and Clinton Walker’s ‘Stranded’.
Other non fiction favourites include Alain De Botton’s ‘The Art of Travel’, Richard Tarnas’ ‘Cosmos and Psyche’ and Edinger’s ‘The Eternal Drama’.
I see quite a lot of live music and really like going to outdoor festivals that go for a couple of days. I like a lot of local music particularly from the 80s and 90s. a random selection of preferred music includes Mazzy Star, You Am I, The Rolling Stones, The Pixies, Leonard Coen, The Drones, Bowie, and Big Star.
I love food, a lot and always get into any local cuisine when I’m travelling, even if it means eating fermented shark, which in Iceland it does. I really enjoy a pub meal and Greek and Vietnamese food. The whole gourmet burger craze is just bizarre to me and I may be the only person on the planet whose least favourite food is Italian.
Where capitalism went so terribly wrong
Why it’s so hard for me not to think and just to feel
What I’m going to cook for that dinner party on the weekend
Why so many atheists are as righteous and dogmatic as fundamentalist Christians
What the apocalypse would look like
What I’d wear on a date if I were going on one
How the hell to make a meaningful contribution to our culture
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