33 Pitt Meadows, British Columbia, CA
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My self-summary
This is a work in progress.

I am in the slow process of healing from heavy losses and attempting to jettison some emotional baggage. I have no tolerance for bullshit.

I am polyamorous and kinky. If you are exclusive and vanilla, you should probably move along.

I am not looking for one night stands. Casual, maybe, but there must be some genuine connection, concern, friendship? I'm definitely looking for something ongoing.

I am overweight, but active. (My job and hobbies are quite physical). Even at my fittest, I had a belly. If you can't handle curves and extra flesh, don't waste my time. For the first time in my life I've developed some negative body image and insecurity, despite the weight not being recent. I'm not happy about this mental change and don't need any outside help feeding the negative...I'm working to get back to loving myself unconditionally because I deserve it. I don't know who let this negative self talk voice into my head but I'd like it evicted. Yesterday.
What I’m doing with my life
also...work in progress

I am self employed which means I work pretty much constantly. I burnt myself out quite badly last year and am trying to learn to take more time out this year. Turns out that's really hard.

I travel fairly frequently for work, mostly in BC.
I’m really good at
-my work. it is my passion.

-sadly, I'm also really good at being hard on myself. I'm trying to learn otherwise.

-Several xxx-rated things...wouldn't you like to know
The first things people usually notice about me
Attitude. Boobs. I grew 'em myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love books, fiction and non. Terry Pratchett's Discworld series is a favourite. I like movies too, but generally prefer books. I like live theatre but don't see enough of it these days. I like music, but not so much live. I don't like big crowds and the volume can be overwhelming. I like food :-P
The six things I could never do without
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex and play. Life and work. More sex and play.
On a typical Friday night I am
what is this 'typical' of which you speak?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I play with you, and it's good, I want to hear more from you, not less. Pursuit is delightful. Don't stop the hunt. My sexual preference is MORE.
You should message me if
You are creative and playful. You have a high sex drive and a high revving libido. You enjoy your kink and sex combined. You have a brain in your head and aren't afraid to use it.