I am in the slow process of healing from heavy losses and attempting to jettison some emotional baggage. I have no tolerance for bullshit.
I am polyamorous and kinky. If you are exclusive and vanilla, you should probably move along.
I am not looking for one night stands. Casual, maybe, but there must be some genuine connection, concern, friendship? I'm definitely looking for something ongoing.
I am overweight, but active. (My job and hobbies are quite physical). Even at my fittest, I had a belly. If you can't handle curves and extra flesh, don't waste my time. For the first time in my life I've developed some negative body image and insecurity, despite the weight not being recent. I'm not happy about this mental change and don't need any outside help feeding the negative...I'm working to get back to loving myself unconditionally because I deserve it. I don't know who let this negative self talk voice into my head but I'd like it evicted. Yesterday.
I am self employed which means I work pretty much constantly. I burnt myself out quite badly last year and am trying to learn to take more time out this year. Turns out that's really hard.
I travel fairly frequently for work, mostly in BC.
-sadly, I'm also really good at being hard on myself. I'm trying to learn otherwise.
-Several xxx-rated things...wouldn't you like to know