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33 Pitt Meadows, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-69
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:56am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is a work in progress.

I am in the slow process of healing from heavy losses and attempting to jettison some emotional baggage. I have no tolerance for bullshit.

I am polyamorous and kinky. If you are exclusive and vanilla, you should probably move along.

I am not looking for one night stands. Casual, maybe, but there must be some genuine connection, concern, friendship? I'm definitely looking for something ongoing.

I am overweight, but active. (My job and hobbies are quite physical). Even at my fittest, I had a belly. If you can't handle curves and extra flesh, don't waste my time. For the first time in my life I've developed some negative body image and insecurity, despite the weight not being recent. I'm not happy about this mental change and don't need any outside help feeding the negative...I'm working to get back to loving myself unconditionally because I deserve it. I don't know who let this negative self talk voice into my head but I'd like it evicted. Yesterday.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day. in progress

I am self employed which means I work pretty much constantly. I burnt myself out quite badly last year and am trying to learn to take more time out this year. Turns out that's really hard.

I travel fairly frequently for work, mostly in BC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-my work. it is my passion.

-sadly, I'm also really good at being hard on myself. I'm trying to learn otherwise.

-Several xxx-rated things...wouldn't you like to know
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Attitude. Boobs. I grew 'em myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love books, fiction and non. Terry Pratchett's Discworld series is a favourite. I like movies too, but generally prefer books. I like live theatre but don't see enough of it these days. I like music, but not so much live. I don't like big crowds and the volume can be overwhelming. I like food :-P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex and play. Life and work. More sex and play.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
what is this 'typical' of which you speak?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I play with you, and it's good, I want to hear more from you, not less. Pursuit is delightful. Don't stop the hunt. My sexual preference is MORE.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are creative and playful. You have a high sex drive and a high revving libido. You enjoy your kink and sex combined. You have a brain in your head and aren't afraid to use it.