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  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Originally from Los Angeles, but has called the Bay Area, Guangzhou, Hong Kong, Houston and now Shanghai home. I spend a lot of time eating way too well, not running or playing basketball enough and trying to organize my giant collection of shoes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love my job. No, seriously, I do. I also love unique and new experiences. My goal is to travel to at least one country a year that I haven't before. My number of countries visited slightly trails my age, but I'm hoping to make it equal sometime in the next few years. I eat. I run (poorly). I play basketball (also poorly).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My friend Grace once said I was the most helpful person she knew. So there's that. I'm really good at trivia - so I can be an asset for pub quiz, Trivial Pursuit, Jeopardy, or settling arguments. I'm a decent cook and a good resource for a restaurant guide to several cities (Hong Kong, Bangkok, Singapore, Tokyo, Los Angeles, Houston and San Francisco, mostly). I have a prodigious memory.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm left handed. No, wait, people know me for years and never notice that - that's what I usually notice about other people. I'm not sure, you'll have to ask other people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Aren't these lists usually a lot of bragging? Well anyways, music tastes are alternative rock and punk (Smashing Pumpkins, Superchunk, Social Distortion, ) hip hop (Kanye, Wu Tang, Dr Dre, Jay-Z), 80s (New Order, one hit wonders, Erasure) and Creedence Clearwater Revival. My favorite movies are the Empire Strikes Back, The Big Lebowski, Fargo, Airplane!, 食神, 英雄本色 and Rocky IV. I think the Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay is the best book I've read in the last decade.

As for food, well, I love almost all kinds, but particular favorites are HK style wonton noodles, a particularly good hamburger, homemade macaroni and cheese, a great NY style deli sandwich and a Mission style burrito.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The Smashing Pumpkins "Siamese Dream"
2. Global 12" Chef's knife
3. An excellent pork tonkatsu.
4. My passport
5. Oxygen
6. My towel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Future plans - here, there, somewhere else? Where will my job take me? Where will I take my job? Will I go there with someone? Is this pollution enough to make me move? Why doesn't Jeremy Lin start?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Running! In the last 12 months I have ran 4 half marathons and I'm going to finally run a full one. This is all despite the fact I am a horrible runner. Slow and always whining. If I'm not running, I'm usually eating something which is really bad for me and will make my future cardiologist a wealthy person.

Edited to add I finally ran that full marathon (Chicago 2014)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love the 80s.
You should message me if
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if you convert oxygen into carbon dioxide.