I am compassionate, giving, and determined.
My Self-Summary
I am in search of a proverbial "partner in crime". I am looking for
a kind, compassionate person whom I can trust. You know like a life
partner sort of gig. Now accepting applications! I have led a,
shall we say, diverse sort of life up to this point. Overall I
would say that I am a very intelligent, hard working, devoted,
kind, creative individual. I am currently self employed again. For
better or worse LOL! I am a high end landscape design/build
company. I get to build some really cool things at times. I love
what I do for a living!!!!! This is good, because it consumes all
of my free time this time of year and forces me onto online dating
forums!!! Anywhooo... I love to travel and have been to a fair
number of places so far. I enjoy art, nature, being outdoors
(Except when it is 100 degrees out! That just sucks!), I like
animals and enjoy playing disc golf. I am also a unrepentant NPR
"nerd". I enjoy following politics and world affairs. I am quite
liberal. My life isn't led in the pursuit of material items. Don't
get me wrong, having nice things is great. However that is not the
most important thing in life, in my opinion. I don't really enjoy
watching sports very much. I seem to have strayed from my roots in
the last few years and I am trying to get back to "me". I just got
out of a longish relationship recently, and am looking to get on
with my life. This is where you come in (maybe). Not a legally
binding phrase! LOL! So OK Cupid what do you have to offer?
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working my ass off! It has been 70-80 hours a week
recently. I am looking to change that! We shall see! I am striving
to achive my artistic goals through my work. It has been a bit
challanging recently, to be honest! I mantain great hope however!
I’m really good at
Listening. Understanding. Caring. Building things out of stone.
Being a honest and straightforward person. Giving a shit when no
one else does! Finding humor in any situation. Trying to be as
environmentaly conscious as possible. Get back to me on this one!
The first things people usually notice about me
Lets see. I'm short for a guy (5.6'-5.7'ish). I'm attractive (so
I've been told). I am outgoing. I am kind and considerate. I have a
weird bounce when I walk.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
#1 books: Let's see.... Bukowski, Burroughs, Sedaris, Hubert Selby
Jr., any of the Plan B books by Lester Brown. I love to read, but
have no time for it this time of year.
#2 music: where to start? Bright Eyes, Iron and Wine, Atmosphere,
Mac Lethal, Sia Fuler/Zero 7, John Lee Hooker, J 5, Greg Brown, The
Eels, Basement Jaxx, Morphine, NIN, TV ON The Radio, PJ Harvey, Ani
Difranco, Janes Addiction, Afro-blues, some world music, Buddy Guy,
Beck, Old 97's, Tool, the Reverend Horton Heat. The list could go
on forever! No newer county though!!!! Don't contact me if you
think your tractor is sexxy!!! Really I mean it!!!!!
#3 movies: I tend to prefer the more twisted out there sort of
movies. You know something that actually makes you think instead of
wasting 2 hours of your life. Such as Eternal Sunshine of the
spotless mind, American Beauty, Requiem for a dream, that sort of
thing.
#4 Food: I love to try new things. I have yet to try a type of food
that I didn't at least like/love one aspect of. Although I did go
to the Philippines for a month and ate some things there that I
wouldn't have normally considered "food" and liked it so who knows!
The six things I could never do without
Music
My garden
good people
working with stone
free thought
really good beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can better the world one person at a time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably getting home from work as of recently! Saturday nights are
much better for me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I can't swim worth a damn.
You should message me if
You have personality, have a brain, and can hold a conversation. If
you have a good sense of humor. Or even if you just want to talk
about the state of the world over drinks. I have sooooo much to
offer, and know soooo few people here in KC. Not a good combo! Hit
me up.