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36 F Citrus Heights, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:48pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Hello, I am on this site because I am at the point in my life where I am ready to meet someone special. I am looking for someone in the Sacramento area because I have done long distance dating before and it is not what I am looking for long term. I consider myself honest, sincere, kind, and motivated. I am also open minded and love the occasional adventure whether that is just meeting someone new or jumping out of an airplane. I am really close to my family and therefore am very family oriented. I am not really into the bar club scene anymore but don’t mind going out for drinks now and then. Getting fit has recently become a passion of mine and I work out regularly, but I am a work in progress. I like going to dinner and the movies but also enjoy my time relaxing at home. I believe life is about the journey not the destination. You only live once so you might as well live with no regrets.

My perfect match is someone who has a good sense of humor... you have to make me laugh. I am a bit of smart ass so you have to be able to hang in there with my friendly banter. There has to be chemistry both sexually and on a personality level. I am pretty open minded and easy going and get along with just about everyone but I want someone who I can’t get enough of. I am pretty independent too though so that can’t get enough of feeling doesn’t mean I need you, it means I want you and there is a difference. I find ambition and intelligence very sexy, I think it’s important to always be trying to improve yourself on some level. But most of all I think good communication is the most important. Let’s be honest successful relationships take work so I would like someone who is secure enough with themselves to be able to talk to me about their feelings. I believe in order for a relationship to succeed you have to have a solid foundation of trust and friendship.
What I’m doing with my life
I can honestly say life is good and I am truly happy. I guess what they say about women really finding themselves in their thirties is true. I also feel like I am embarking on a new adventure. I am lucky enough to have found a job that I truly enjoy and also have a side business going that has the potential to be pretty lucrative that I enjoy. I am learning to dream big because there is nothing but potential now, just looking for the right guy to dream with.
I’m really good at
I'm getting really good at not taking life too seriously. If you let yourself get caught up in the details then you miss the joy of what's already around you.
The first things people usually notice about me
Mostly my eyes followed closely by my smile then my hair. I get mistaken for being Mexican a lot but I am Chinese, Indonesian and Caucasian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have recently fallen in love with reading again. I like all types of books and tend to get lost in the stories easily. If it's recommended to me I'll read it whether it's sci-fi, adventure, fantasy or a romantic chick flick story. So if you have some favorites you'd like to share please let me know.

Movies, I like them all. It depends on the mood. I am a kid at heart so I love the Disney, Pixar movies, and well as Harry Potter too. I like action and drama like Transformers and The Matrix series. But my favorites are those that have a twist at the end like The Usual Suspects. Comedies are always good and yes the occasional chick flick. I even like scary movies, I just prefer not to watch them by myself. I would have to say my favorite movie of all time is The Princess Bride.

TV, The Walking Dead is probably my very favorite. But, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Shameless and Ray Donovan are right up there too.

Music, well it depends on my mood. I like a little of everything from Jimmy Buffet to Jay Z. Concerts that I have been too are The Eagles, Fleetwood Mac, Prince, Madonna, Matchbox 20, Staind, Deftones, Tool, Stone Temple Pilots, Train. I have been to Jamaica too and there is nothing like drinking a Red Stripe while listening to Reggae on the beach.

Food, yes please. I am not afraid to try new things. Growing up with my Mom being Asian and my Dad being white it ranged from spam (yes I'll admit it) and rice to steak and potatoes. I can appreciate the finer things in life like a nice steak at Morton's or Frank Fats. But there is nothing like a whole in the wall burger joint or Mexican restaurant (which is my very favorite). Or ordering a pizza to just chill at home.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Family
2. My friends
3. My dog Spike
4. My cell phone
5. Movies & either a glass of wine or whiskey are tied and sometimes go hand in hand.
6. My car, it gives me that sense of freedom, I think I would feel trapped without it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to be when I grow up, I am a kid at heart and a bit of a dreamer.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am usually hanging out with friends or family. I am not the kind of girl you will see out at the club but I am not opposed to going to a bar for a drink now and then.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What's private to one person might not be to another so I'm not sure. Ask me and I'm sure I'll tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a fun flirty sense of humor and are open to making new friends. I am a bit ambitious and independent so you have to be able to handle that too.