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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 5:26pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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Where to start...I guess at the beginning:

1967 - I am born. Fireworks, angels with trumpets, sort of a big deal. It was in all the papers. Well, just the one local one actually.
1970 - I'm finally able to talk but realize I don't have that much to say.
1973 - Realize girls are different than boys. The biggest difference: cooties.
1976 - A girl breaks my heart for the first time. I vow to never ask a girl to "go with me" again.
1979 - Break my arm in the first baseball game of the year - Saddest.Kid.Ever.
1982 - Tell my friends I have sex for the first time.
1985 - Actually have sex for the first time.
1988 - Turn 21! This year is pretty much a blur.
1991 - Fall in love for the first time. Breaks my heart. Definite pattern starting.
1994 - Start a relationship that last 3 years.
1997 - End a relationship that lasted 3 years - you probably saw that coming.
2000 - Spend a month traveling the world, starting my love of travel.
2003 - Spend a year taking care of my cousins while their parents are in Iraq. Hard year.
2006 - Start playing for USA Baseball - get to play in Cuba.
2009 - Get engaged! I'm sure this will break my pattern of having my heart broken!
2012 - Or not. Yeah, so that didn't work out. And neither did the one after that. So here I am trying this out. It's tough. I want a long term relationship but I'd rather be alone than settle for something that isn't what I want (or what the other person wants). I want to find someone active and in similar size and shape but the key thing I'm looking for is someone I can count on and trust. Like my friend Eric says, "she needs to have your back". And I want a relationship where both people are equally invested and both give as much as they take. I guess, I'm looking for a partner - it shouldn't be this hard!
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm playing baseball, working and spending a lot of time with my friends and their kids. It's great but I'm ready to try dating again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Filling out online dating essays, obviously!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short but I have amazing eyes! I don't have much hair but I have a great smile! I'm amazingly great but still remarkably humble!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like all music except for country and even that I can sit through if I have to. But I particularly like current alternative music (think Airborne Toxic Event, Death Cab, Arcade Fire, Metric, Modest Mouse, Silversun Pickups, etc) and 80's alternative (think the Smiths, Cure, New Order, REM, etc).
I love going to the theatre, especially musicals. I read every day - sometimes serious, sometimes just fun stuff (I've powered through the Game of Throne series the last month - good but long). I'm also reading The Signal and The Noise by the brilliant Nate Silver.
I love sushi but can enjoy most foods. Peanut butter is the food of the gods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let me work on this, I don't want to leave anyone out....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I guess I'm thinking about how I want to live my life. I'm happy with my job and friends but I want to find a partner to travel with and share my life with and...hmmm, I guess it's that simple.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my friends and their kids or just relaxing at home. Sadly, some of those nights I might be working. And now that I'm looking to date again I might have to venture out a little more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a liberal. So there.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. recognize how amazing I am! And especially if you can see that I was joking in the previous sentence! (though I am pretty amazing...)