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35 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:10pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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When I'm creating something, that's when I'm happiest. Usually this means some form of writing, usually some form of fiction. Or, it could be just holding the boom mic/being an extra/being an inept stunt driver in one of my friend's movies. I love anything relates to storytelling. I also like learning things: languages, martial arts (kung fu), history, taking classes. Books, public radio, movies (very often w/subtitles but not in a pretentious way; I like The Hangover and movies like that too), certain TV shows - see "The Most Private Thing..."

I like puzzles, mysteries (in real life and on the page/screen), spices, unfamiliar places, photography and am reserved at first but outgoing and open once you know me.

I like playing poker with friends almost every week. I like good (and some crappy) beer.

I can carry a tune, but only within the confines of a private karaoke room.

I like going to comedy clubs and live music events.

I like playing pool.

Although I like a woman with nerdy side, being a little on the sensuous, passionate side of the spectrum too keeps me interested.

*Note: I do smile in real life, just not when I'm posing for a picture.
What I’m doing with my life
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Changing it.

About to start a new job and move from Long Island back to NYC soon. NY City is where I feel most at home, although I've lived in DC, Texas, Japan and a few other places.

I know it's a numbers game but at this point I'd rather meet someone cool who I connect with, through OKC, than have a thousand superficial interactions with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Here are two: although I crave total freedom, I need some structure too.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to.

And if after a few messages, if it seems like we'd have things to talk about, you're willing to turn off the technology and meet in the real world, let's do that.