First off: I am not down with any kind of racism, mysogny, transphobia, homophobia, slut shaming, sex negative, hookerphobic bull shit!

I'm a whore/sex worker/pornographer/general slut. If you aren't down with that, I'm not down with you.

I have a lot of hooker pride and the sex industry has been and is a big part of who I am and the world I inhabit.

I'm your typical, run of the mill, bay area queer femme(ish) sex worker with a politically militant past, a lot of weird experiences and a little (ok a lot) more sass than the west coast tends to be used to. (I'm from NY)

I moved to the bay 2+ years ago to get my hustle on. I produce porn and do sex work/model. I'm a an aspiring porn mogul. It's a pretty big part of my life.

I also go dancing, kick it with my friends, try to learn how to be a better femme, love people across the country/continent, make movies of girls fucking each other in the woods, go on hikes(for real), teach myself how to sing new pop songs, try to find cute dogs to overwhelm, go on road trips, yell/bitch about patriarchy.

I'm a responsible hedonist and strive to get as much pleasure in this life as possible. Some of the things I get pleasure from are, well told and beautiful storys/ poetry/prose, intense friendships/love affairs, delicious and rich food and drink, physical affection, singing/music, mind blowing kinky sex, being in water, nature, dancing, laying in the sun, but there is much much more.

I like to share my pleasure as much as possible with people I care about/like/think are cute. It's probably why I'm such a sexually focused person.

taking pictures. being direct. running 100's of schemes at once. prioritizing my own pleasure while drawing out yours.

Some version of me being blunt or sassy.

I'm really into feminist sci fi - ie Octavia Butler, Margaret Atwood Marge Piercey... I'm working my way through Atwood at the moment. Anything from a female perspective with a nihilistic perspective on men and the world at large.
I like just about any music with a larger than life personality in it, aka Barbara, Liza, Mariah, Whitney, Tori, Madonna, etc. I have the musical tastes of a gay male stereotype. I'm going to see Wicked in a few months and am stupidly excited.
Mildly obsessed with John Waters, knowing at least a few sentences about him is actually a pre-requisite to messaging me, and I'll eventually figure it out if you just googled him so don't try.

I appreciate a good asthetic in any context.

singing
kinky sex
my friends
dancing
nature
swimming/water

gender oppression, my porn empire, my friends and how to be a good one, how to be a good porn empress, my lovers, where to take my next vacation/travel, polyamory, fashion, how much i hate patriarchy/rape culture, john waters films, my hair, my website, where I want to start my queer hooker commune/retreat.

I used to go out more but am in 'hermiting' phase and am most likely out with a friend one on one, or a date but not at a party/club. Or making sweet love to myself in the variety of ways I do.

I am not universally 'liked.' Not everyone thinks I am 'nice.'

You are some kind of fabulous KINKY queer who is potentially interested in gettin sexy with me. I'm just not interested in hook ups that are totally nicey, nice, soft, lovey kinda thangs(though I love cuddles and sensuality as well!), sorry. I need tension, push and pull, power struggles, submission, force, pain...

I tend to find myself most attracted to queer folks on the masculinish to androgynous(up for interpretation) end of the spectrum. FTM's, faggy/adro/femme cis boys, butches, etc.

However whoever feel free to message me, I have surprised myself more than once.

I am only looking for casual dating or friendship+sex situations. I do enjoy romance and courtship but only if it stays light-hearted. I am open to things becoming more but am not looking or expecting that.

If you are someone I would not be interested in but want to jerk off to some awesome porn of me and other hot ladies, go to naughtynatural.com (sorry i can't help myself, it's free advertisement)

Or if you a fit cis male between 18-30 and want to be on straightboysfucking.com with one of my hot lady friends. Email me at xnikkisilverx@gmail.com

thanks!