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26 Bangor, ME Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 6
Pansexual, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on Space camp
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Urdu (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a person! I don't have my shit together but I'd like to think I'm getting there. I've become pretty rad through this whole life journey though. I'm an open minded, kindness enthusiast who likes to talk about art, philosophy, and nerdy things. I don't claim to know much, but I love learning and sharing. I'm here mostly just to interact with people and perhaps meet new friends if things get that far.

Because I get asked "What do you do for fun?" a lot; a question that has always been right up there with "What do you do for work?" In terms of questions I find a little daunting to answer, I'm going to answer this here to give you a small insight into the sort of person I am:

I do a lot of things, and many of them I do for fun. I enjoy kicking a few back, shooting the shit, and being in the company of people who aren't offended by much. I love to laugh and make others laugh, often at my own expense. I sing, I dance, I paint, I write. I enjoy being in the outdoors, often just sitting and watching the trees dance in the breeze, because it reminds me that there is rhythm and synchronicity even in the unpredictable force that is nature. If I am near water, I am in it...usually trying to catch a glimpse of its aquatic denizens. I photograph everything that stirs anything within me. I love wildly and passionately. I enjoy a good debate, especially on any topic related to social justice. I also love just sitting at home, smoking a bowl, and watching the most unnerving, soul crushing indie film I can find. I have a morbid curiosity for any art that can take the ugliest things and make them captivating. Comedies are also a must for me. I could go on and on but I really feel these things about me are better learned through experience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

Working too hard a job that underpays and underappreciates me
Making my customers laugh
Making weird art at late hours
Oogling your tattoos with envy
Reading books that would make your grandmother really, really uncomfortable
Going steady with Netflix. We have an open relationship though.
Flirting really poorly
Wearing a lot of plaid/flannel
Getting really comfortable and assertive with myself, both person and a sexual being
Texting you or messaging you and not responding for a super long time because I got distracted or fell asleep
Making my cat cuddle me when I feel vulnerable or sad
Trying to understand and appreciate everyone I interact with
Shopping for a new vibrator. Suggestions welcome.
Eating pickles
Drinking milk
Playing a LOT of pin ball. Srsly.
Thinking about making out with you.
Thinking about verbally tearing my boss a new asshole.
Thinking about getting a new job.
Thinking about how this list could theoretially be infinite if I wanted it to be.
Thinking about stopping now.
Hitting the save button and then going to view my profile to proofread this list.
Waiting for you to inbox me so I have less time to write super long lists.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Breaking in my smile lines.
Remembering the little things.
Making faces.
Cooking and eating.
Being barefoot.
Wearing lipstick.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm really short and have boobs.
Other than that, personality wise, they probably notice that I'm pretty warm and kind in nature.

Your first impression of me may greatly be a product of my first impression of you; I tend mirror people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- I COULD write a long list of shit I've read so you could see how cool and hip my taste in literature is, maybe throw in a Vonnegut quote so you know I'm a down ass reading son of a bitch, but instead I'm just gonna tell you the last 3 books I've read:
Mega Weird by Nicholas Megalia
Not That Kind Of Girl by Lena Dunham
The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz

Movies- I'm applying the same concept as I used in books here:


I will also note that Doctor Who and Louie are probably my favorite shows.

Music-I am a super musical person. I sing, I play guitar, I write songs, I make phat beats (;P) so I'll give a slightly longer list here I suppose:
Sage Francis
Black Moth Super Rainbow
Aphex Twin
Aesop Rock
Nightmares On Wax
Boards Of Canada
Notorious B.I.G
Immortal Technique
Copper Wimmin
Bon Iver
Dan Mangan
The National
Hey Rosetta!
Kevin Devine
The Riverdales
Sufjan Stevens
Ludovico Einaudi

I like a lot of shit. Just ask. We can bond over mutually adored sounds.

Food: The last three things I ate were...
1.) Strawberry Rhubarb pie
2.) Baked Beans
3.) Cheese Burger
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming that sustenance is a given...

Artistic inclination
Human contact
Mother nature and all the natural beauty she surrounds me with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
Social justice.
Art: comedy, music, name it, I probably dabble in it or drown in it.
Who I am as a person vs who I want to be.
What I'm cooking for dinner tomorrow.
How strange it is to be anything at all.
Decriminalization and legalization of drugs.
The times I did LSD.
Having a penis.
Defensive home invasion strategies. (Especially against Zombies, Daleks, and Cybermen)
Toltec wisdom.
Adorable critters.
Perspective vs reality and the subjectivity of...well....everything.
Why anyone cares about how much the First Lady spends on her clothes, or who Kim Kardashian is boning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Singing the body electric
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My biggest celebrity crush is probably Louis CK; if you don't like him/his brand of comedy you *probably* won't appreciate my sense of humor.
I'm not wearing underwear today. (7-3-2015)

I have a chronic, painful medical condition. It doesn't affect my life all the time. It comes in flares, and can go in remission. No it isn't an STI, nor is it contageous. I sometime get put on terrible medications for it that make me crazy (steroids are a bitch!) I also smoke/eat marijuana for my pain because it reduces the inflammation levels, increases my appetite, and helps me laugh when I want to cry. If you are anti-marijuana, our road ends here. We can talk more about this when/if I become more comfortable with you.
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