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50 F Sacramento, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 45–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:10am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have an everyday religion that works for me...Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. - Lucille Ball (words I live by).

I work with professionals as a Director Of Operations, independent woman looking to make new friends. I walk with my head high, strong morals (karma), and hardworking. I consider myself a loving person who likes to surround myself with people who are positive, have values, love to laugh and enjoy life. I spend much of my time interacting with my children (two boys) and friends and would enjoy meeting someone to hang out with...the possibilities are endless :-).

I love my daily workout, and out for a run most days. Tried SUP (paddle boarding) this last year, and loved it and looking forward to much more this summer. Music makes me want to dance. Always up for a nice hike in the foothill or finding someplace to put my feet in the sand, bike ride, wine tasting and traveling/sightseeing.

I have traveled various countries around the world & lived in both England & Australia. I've been known to make last minute plans, jump on a plane to seek new adventures. I've been lucky to spend time in luxurious hotels around the world and have camped and climbed to some beautiful beach/mountains with fantastic friends. At the end of the adventures, perhaps we will just hanging out with good movie, and funtastic company and say what next!?!

So am I seeking perfection? I guess I am, however, knowing that perfection is not something obtainable. So I am probably like everyone else out there. Looking for someone who has high integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator. I love being flirty, holding hands, a brush of a touch that makes you forget everything outside of the moment, a sudden hug and that hungry kiss, deep look into someone's eyes, monogamous, and honesty while remaining kindhearted.

I'm happy with my life and enjoy meeting different people of all walks of life. I'm not sure I'm ready to settle down and just would like things to happen naturally. Ideally meet a man who is positive, fit, we will enjoy getting to know each, you enjoys your time while you respects my time and hopefully it turns into a workable solution. You know how to enjoy life, you love to laugh (a must), sarcastic, funny, honest, and above all you know how to be a man, and how treat a lady and looking is for the same respect in return.

Life is a journey, the best part of a journey...the people you meet along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I sing like nobody listening, yes you will find me singing my heart out at the stop light. I work like I don't need the money, blessed I have a terrific job. I love like I've never been hurt, it's the past and always looking forward to the future. I dance like nobody's watching, and if they are, hope they join in. I live each day like it's heaven on earth, life's to short not too Enjoy!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking a fantastic dinner, Cleaning (did I really just say that, but I do have two boys), Conversation, My job, Enjoying life, Entertaining, Caring for my children, reaching my own personal goals... Oh, and a fantastic kiss...this list could go on forever! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and dimples... Funny, I use to get embarrassed comments on the dimples, until I found they are an asset! However, those annoying cowlicks I have finally managed to hide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Avid Reader, love to read (perhaps that why there isn't a television section for me)! everything from mystery, suspense, romance.

Not a picky eater...I enjoy foods such as Sushi, Thai, Indian, Mexican, just to name a few and love to cook.

2 Cellos (seriously, if you haven't heard them you need to look them up), Engimna, Evanescence, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra,U2, Maxi Priest, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Smokey Robinson, Barry White, Depeche Mode, Luther Vandross, Nine Inch Nails, Bob Marley, Sublime, and many more :-).

Bitter Moon, Dead Poets Society, Officer and a Gentleman, Born Free (still makes me cry every time), Pretty Woman, Elf, Dirty Dancing, Eat Pray Love, Temple Grandin, Peter Pan, Top Gun, Summer of 42, Pulp Fiction, The Hangover, Fargo, The Graduate, A Walk to Remember, The Shawshenk Redemption, The Perfect Storm, Wanted, The Sixth Sense...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Children
2. My Health
3. My Friends
4. My Happiness
5. Love
6. Nice Glass of wine
and oh so much more...wink ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and the future of my children... Obviously.

Random stuff:
- What to pack for my next trip, is 8 bath suits too many, and how many high heels can fit in my suitcase?
- Did I close the garage door, after I'm down the street? (almost daily, I turn around).
- How many more free books will my kindle really hold?
- How to make more space on my iPhone for pictures and music?
- How to keep fresh strawberries a bit longer?
- Will he kiss me at the end of the evening?
- Why people like your profile, but don't send a message?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun!! Summer if I'm in town, normally at our clubhouse cooling off with all our neighbors, live music, cheap eats (grilled cheese is $1) and drinks. Funny fact, our clubhouse sells more alcohol then any other establishment in Sacramento. Yikes!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- I find a thunder and lightening storm exhilarating!
- Being left-handed, I play a great third-base catcher...yes, I play baseball.
- I won in a contest in Cabo...something to do with a T-shirt and tequila.
- I love the taste of instant coffee...I know right!
- I save my shower water, to water my plants.
- Rest you'll have to ask...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are looking for a new up somewhere where we can chat and find out if friendship is worth looking at. :-) Look forward to meeting soon.

You're into mindless games...please, move on.

Close to age and into fitness.