I'm single by choice, and because I'm picky (and because I can be). I've watched a lot of relationships make a lot of people miserable, and I'd rather die single and happy than with the wrong woman. But I'm hopeful that the right woman is out there and just as picky searching for a guy like me.
I feel like I'm more likely to meet a good match in Wegmans or Barnes & Noble than in a bar. I'm attracted to intelligent, independent women who think big and respect themselves/others. I want a girl who wants to be with me, and not one who needs to be with me. I'm not attracted to smokers or women with children (sorry... not that I don't ever want children, but definitely not now). I eat well and take care of my body, and I need a girl who is like-minded. I'm not saying I need a make-up/beauty queen; I tend to go for cute/sweet/pretty rather than hot/arrogant/prissy.