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1Time-1Life

35 / M / Bisexual / Single

Hildale, Utah

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My Reasons of Creating Questions and Answering

Aug 10, 2010

The thought of harm coming to me by revealing more of who I am is but a fleeting idea now.I know now that nothing could ever harm me unless I have lied about myself.I have decided to make my own questions that I can understand better.I hope there are others who can use them too.

Here's my view on different types of questions:

Un-related to me;like, "After sex do you clean up right away?" I never had sex.Then there is Confusing;like, "If it were legal to do so, would you ever consider paying for sex?(I write an alternating question that this one brings up).Next is Direct;like, "How often do you brush your teeth?" Finally is Creative Mind;like, "If evil forces made you choose to either watch tv OR read books for the rest of your life, you would:" The thought of having those 2 options is what gets my mind going with thinking(I love thinking)It gets me thinking;thats why it's creative.Also,having the word Evil there is entertaining because I have rejected it in my vocabulary.To me,it seems to be in a timeless place where by it's own virture I cannot change it because it is not as tangible as other questions.

I know,,,you might be asking me in your mind why I go through the trouble of making these categories for myself.The reason is bacause a few years ago,I made a dedicated decision to know only the roots meanings in the English language;I had noticed that I was starting to forget root meanings.I want to preserve in my own mind the originality of meanings of English words and also understand people who use other terms with the same word.Categories will help me with that goal.  

 

From here on out,I'm just letting Questions rip(or Rest in Peace);both sound good to me.I am creating this because there are so many dimensions and ways of looking at questions.So,hopefully this will clarify my mind on all the questions.Also,I want to keep the explanations simple in the questions area.This post will be updated regularly as I progress through answering questions.

 

 

The thought of harm coming to me by revealing more of who Iam is but a fleeting idea now.I know now that nothingcould ever harm me unless I have lied about myself.I have decidedto make my own questions that I can understand better.I hope thereare others who can use them too.

Here's my view on different types of questions:

Un-related to me;like, "After sex do you clean up right away?" Inever had sex.Then there is Confusing;like, "If it were legalto do so, would you ever consider paying for sex?(I write analternating question that this one brings up).Nextis Direct;like, "How often do you brush your teeth?" Finallyis Creative Mind;like, "If evil forces made you choose to eitherwatch tv OR read books for the rest of your life, you would:" Thethought of having those 2 options is what getsmy mind going with thinking(I love thinking)It gets methinking;thats why it's creative.Also,having the word Evil there isentertaining because I have rejected it in my vocabulary.Tome,it seems to be in a timeless place where by it's ownvirture I cannot change it because it is not as tangible asother questions.

I know,,,you might be asking me in your mind why I go throughthe trouble of making these categories for myself.The reason isbacause a few years ago,I made a dedicated decision to know onlythe roots meanings in the English language;I had noticed that I wasstarting to forget root meanings.I want to preserve in my own mindthe originality of meanings of English words and alsounderstand people who use other terms with the same word.Categorieswill help me with that goal.  

 

From here on out,I'm just letting Questions rip(orRest in Peace);both sound good to me.I am creating thisbecause there are so many dimensions and ways of looking atquestions.So,hopefully this will clarify my mind on all thequestions.Also,I want to keep the explanations simple in thequestions area.This post will be updated regularly as I progressthrough answering questions.

 

 

My Reasons of Creating Questions and Answering

Relationship and Friendship

Dec 22, 2009

With friendship,a person can have an only friends relationship with the other sex.How do I know?Because I have done that before.If a person feels like a whole person in his/her being,then there is no problem finding a significant other.

Hearing about a Gay/lesbian,Bi or straight(yes,straight)person can be a devastating thing to many people.It is the essence and power of Love that is often feared;and the greatness of it is so great that it threatens the power of Hate.Love has a disguise underneath it;and Hate has a disguise underneth it.I believe disguises are used to protect the essence of something.It's up to the individual to find out what those disguises are;seek it and it will be found.Of assurity,I can promise that.

I have chosen what I want in a relationship.I am willing to compromise some things because I choose to.True frienship and Love co-exist together.Relationship just happens on any scale.Look them up in the dictionary to find the meanings or follow your own feelings.We have a relationship with everything.Everything you see,everything you touch and everything you think about forms a relationship.What small thing happens across the world can be a big thing here. 

With friendship,a person can have an only friends relationshipwith the other sex.How do I know?Because I have done that before.Ifa person feels like a whole person in his/her being,then there isno problem finding a significant other.

Hearing about a Gay/lesbian,Bi or straight(yes,straight)personcan be a devastating thing to many people.It is the essenceand power of Love that is often feared;and the greatness of it isso great that it threatens the power of Hate.Love has a disguiseunderneath it;and Hate has a disguise underneth it.I believedisguises are used to protect the essence of something.It's up tothe individual to find out what those disguises are;seek it and itwill be found.Of assurity,I can promise that.

I have chosen what I want in a relationship.I am willingto compromise some things because I choose to.True frienshipand Love co-exist together.Relationship justhappens on any scale.Look them up in the dictionary to findthe meanings or follow your own feelings.We have a relationshipwith everything.Everything you see,everything you touch andeverything you think about forms a relationship.What small thinghappens across the world can be a big thing here. 

Relationship and Friendship

Understanding Unique Language Accents

Dec 12, 2009

This thought comes to mind When I send messages to anyone on here.

Do I get through so that the person understands what I'm saying;though he/she might speak English?I'll take this back on to some things from the past.....

My mom had a good friend from Tenessee who was almost like a grandma to me.Her name was Ila Mary Greenwell.

Whenever Ila Mary would speak,I had a very difficult time understanding her.Over a few years she would visit us and I began to understand her accent through that time.Also,her words were arranged in a different order.

I wonder if It's that way with other accents?

I want to find tangeable information on this.Do you have anything on understanding a person in his/her language?All comments are welcome. 

This thought comes to mind When I send messages to anyone onhere.

Do I get through so that the person understands what I'msaying;though he/she might speak English?I'll take this back onto some things from the past.....

My mom had a good friend from Tenessee who was almost like agrandma to me.Her name was Ila Mary Greenwell.

Whenever Ila Mary would speak,I had a very difficulttime understanding her.Over a few years she would visit us and Ibegan to understand her accent through that time.Also,her wordswere arranged in a different order.

I wonder if It's that way with other accents?

I want to find tangeable information on this.Do you haveanything on understanding a person in his/her language?All commentsare welcome. 

Understanding Unique Language Accents

Snow,Snow and Snowwww;Yes

Dec 7, 2009

(ok,this title sounded too much like the lady on the Progressive Insurance commercial,,,"yesssssss".So I'm changing snow to snowwww instead)

I like the snow somewhat more whenever it happens.It sparks something magical in me and is beautiful to mine eyes.

I also have a high attention span to snow.It used to be fun to play in the snow but I prefer to stay indoors.Occasionally,I will go outside to feel it on my face.Or if I'm taking a walk while talking with someone.Once in a great while,I will throw snowballs in playing.

(ok,this title sounded too much like the lady onthe Progressive Insurance commercial,,,"yesssssss".So I'mchanging snow to snowwww instead)

I like the snow somewhat more whenever it happens.It sparkssomething magical in me and is beautiful to mine eyes.

I also have a high attention span to snow.It used to be fun toplay in the snow but I prefer to stay indoors.Occasionally,I willgo outside to feel it on my face.Or if I'm taking a walk whiletalking with someone.Once in a great while,I will throwsnowballs in playing.

Snow,Snow and Snowwww;Yes

The Saxophone With Healing Touch

Nov 19, 2009

It melted my heart,then healed it again.The music from this instrument helped me break through many troubles in my toughts when I was younger. 

 

 

 

 

 

It melted my heart,then healed it again.The music from thisinstrument helped me break through many troubles in mytoughts when I was younger. 

 

 

 

 

 

The Saxophone With Healing Touch

Un-employment Revealed

Nov 6, 2009

Currently,I am juggling my work;sometimes I have it and sometimes there is none.I was un-decided about writing that word "un-employed" on my profile.I thought it would be best to leave it alone so I would have a better chance to meet people that I could have an intimate relationship with.

That did not work,ha,ha.I looked deep here and found that it also affected people I would get to know as friends.After the first or second conversation,I would meet it face to face.An idea to just forget it in conversation was in mind.But naturally,I did tell anyone I'm unemployed while chatting.

Now here's the interresting part.I was spending a little time each time I chat with someone;and evetually it took its toll on me phisically.I now would rather say it on my profile than hide it.It isn't worth the effort hide it and it's a played on fear I would rather release.

So,to all of you.......I will be direct sooner rather than later when this type of thing happens.   

Currently,I am juggling my work;sometimes I have it andsometimes there is none.I was un-decided about writing that word"un-employed" on my profile.I thought it would be best to leave italone so I would have a better chance to meet people that I couldhave an intimate relationship with.

That did not work,ha,ha.I looked deep here and found that italso affected people I would get to know as friends.After the firstor second conversation,I would meet it face to face.An idea tojust forget it in conversation was in mind.But naturally,Idid tell anyone I'm unemployed while chatting.

Now here's the interresting part.I was spending a littletime each time I chat with someone;and evetually it took itstoll on me phisically.I now would rather say it on my profile thanhide it.It isn't worth the effort hide it and it's aplayed on fear I would rather release.

So,to all of you.......I will be direct sooner rather than laterwhen this type of thing happens.   

Un-employment Revealed