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35 / M / Bisexual / Single
Hildale, Utah
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My Reasons of Creating Questions and Answering
Aug 10, 2010
The thought of harm coming to me by revealing more of who I am is but a fleeting idea now.I know now that nothing could ever harm me unless I have lied about myself.I have decided to make my own questions that I can understand better.I hope there are others who can use them too.
Here's my view on different types of questions:
Un-related to me;like, "After sex do you clean up right away?" I never had sex.Then there is Confusing;like, "If it were legal to do so, would you ever consider paying for sex?(I write an alternating question that this one brings up).Next is Direct;like, "How often do you brush your teeth?" Finally is Creative Mind;like, "If evil forces made you choose to either watch tv OR read books for the rest of your life, you would:" The thought of having those 2 options is what gets my mind going with thinking(I love thinking)It gets me thinking;thats why it's creative.Also,having the word Evil there is entertaining because I have rejected it in my vocabulary.To me,it seems to be in a timeless place where by it's own virture I cannot change it because it is not as tangible as other questions.
I know,,,you might be asking me in your mind why I go through the trouble of making these categories for myself.The reason is bacause a few years ago,I made a dedicated decision to know only the roots meanings in the English language;I had noticed that I was starting to forget root meanings.I want to preserve in my own mind the originality of meanings of English words and also understand people who use other terms with the same word.Categories will help me with that goal.
From here on out,I'm just letting Questions rip(or Rest in Peace);both sound good to me.I am creating this because there are so many dimensions and ways of looking at questions.So,hopefully this will clarify my mind on all the questions.Also,I want to keep the explanations simple in the questions area.This post will be updated regularly as I progress through answering questions.
Relationship and Friendship
Dec 22, 2009
With friendship,a person can have an only friends relationship with the other sex.How do I know?Because I have done that before.If a person feels like a whole person in his/her being,then there is no problem finding a significant other.
Hearing about a Gay/lesbian,Bi or straight(yes,straight)person can be a devastating thing to many people.It is the essence and power of Love that is often feared;and the greatness of it is so great that it threatens the power of Hate.Love has a disguise underneath it;and Hate has a disguise underneth it.I believe disguises are used to protect the essence of something.It's up to the individual to find out what those disguises are;seek it and it will be found.Of assurity,I can promise that.
I have chosen what I want in a relationship.I am willing to compromise some things because I choose to.True frienship and Love co-exist together.Relationship just happens on any scale.Look them up in the dictionary to find the meanings or follow your own feelings.We have a relationship with everything.Everything you see,everything you touch and everything you think about forms a relationship.What small thing happens across the world can be a big thing here.
Understanding Unique Language Accents
Dec 12, 2009
This thought comes to mind When I send messages to anyone on here.
Do I get through so that the person understands what I'm saying;though he/she might speak English?I'll take this back on to some things from the past.....
My mom had a good friend from Tenessee who was almost like a grandma to me.Her name was Ila Mary Greenwell.
Whenever Ila Mary would speak,I had a very difficult time understanding her.Over a few years she would visit us and I began to understand her accent through that time.Also,her words were arranged in a different order.
I wonder if It's that way with other accents?
I want to find tangeable information on this.Do you have anything on understanding a person in his/her language?All comments are welcome.
Snow,Snow and Snowwww;Yes
Dec 7, 2009
(ok,this title sounded too much like the lady on the Progressive Insurance commercial,,,"yesssssss".So I'm changing snow to snowwww instead)
I like the snow somewhat more whenever it happens.It sparks something magical in me and is beautiful to mine eyes.
I also have a high attention span to snow.It used to be fun to play in the snow but I prefer to stay indoors.Occasionally,I will go outside to feel it on my face.Or if I'm taking a walk while talking with someone.Once in a great while,I will throw snowballs in playing.
The Saxophone With Healing Touch
Nov 19, 2009
It melted my heart,then healed it again.The music from this instrument helped me break through many troubles in my toughts when I was younger.
Un-employment Revealed
Nov 6, 2009
Currently,I am juggling my work;sometimes I have it and sometimes there is none.I was un-decided about writing that word "un-employed" on my profile.I thought it would be best to leave it alone so I would have a better chance to meet people that I could have an intimate relationship with.
That did not work,ha,ha.I looked deep here and found that it also affected people I would get to know as friends.After the first or second conversation,I would meet it face to face.An idea to just forget it in conversation was in mind.But naturally,I did tell anyone I'm unemployed while chatting.
Now here's the interresting part.I was spending a little time each time I chat with someone;and evetually it took its toll on me phisically.I now would rather say it on my profile than hide it.It isn't worth the effort hide it and it's a played on fear I would rather release.
So,to all of you.......I will be direct sooner rather than later when this type of thing happens.