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1Tom

63 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Atascadero, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
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Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
—
Income
—
Kids
—
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am reserved, reclusive, and content.

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My Self-Summary

I signed on OKC some years ago mostly because the tests & profiles were interesting. Never bothered with any pictures or profiles of my own, & eventually let it go. Got an email from one of the site creators encouraging me to upload a picture. I did, then thought "What the hell?", & now here I am trying to fill in these profiles!

I am somewhat left-brain introverted (according to what I've read on the subject) and value my freedom and privacy. I need occasional solitude so my "batteries" can recharge. Some folks have difficulty understanding this in the highly extroverted world we exist in. I'm not an island though, and do socialize when all my "systems" are a go! My social skills are poor except for rare moments and exceptions (hoo boy) and I just don't feel the need to have some things that others seem to think they must have.

What I’m doing with my life

I was widowered in '03 and retired in '07. I cautiously pursue happiness and am having a little more fun without having to look and my watch to see if it's time to go to work. Don't really know what "happiness" is for me, but am content with the way things are.

I’m really good at

Never found anything I was really good at...

The first things people usually notice about me

Not a gd thing...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: history, technical, military, science, adventure, fiction, factual
movies: the older stuff, otherwise not much any more (a few exceptions)
music: take it or leave it, nowadays mostly leave it...

The six things I could never do without

I suppose I could do without much of anything, but my existence is much more joyful with:
my son & daughter...
my home...
FREEDOM!
my toys...
my critters...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Is God going to be really pissed at me when I face His judgement for being such an idiot, or will He recognize me as just part of His creation, with all the faults, imperfections and differences manifested in this existence?

On a typical Friday night I am

1) Having a meal & drinks out by myself or with acquaintances...
2) Wrapping up the day trying to get things done on the property...
3) Playing games on the computer/internet surfing, like now...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

How little I give a damn about most of the things people seem to think they HAVE to have...
The freedom I have by not caring what other people think of me...

You should message me if

You're interested/intrigued/curious...

bored?

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