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1Tom
63 / M / straight / Seeing someone
Atascadero, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 9" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- —
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Catholicism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Cancer but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- —
- Income
- —
- Kids
- —
- Pets
- Owns dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am reserved, reclusive, and content.
My Self-Summary
I signed on OKC some years ago mostly because the tests &
profiles were interesting. Never bothered with any pictures or
profiles of my own, & eventually let it go. Got an email from
one of the site creators encouraging me to upload a picture. I did,
then thought "What the hell?", & now here I am trying to fill
in these profiles!
I am somewhat left-brain introverted (according to what I've read on the subject) and value my freedom and privacy. I need occasional solitude so my "batteries" can recharge. Some folks have difficulty understanding this in the highly extroverted world we exist in. I'm not an island though, and do socialize when all my "systems" are a go! My social skills are poor except for rare moments and exceptions (hoo boy) and I just don't feel the need to have some things that others seem to think they must have.
I am somewhat left-brain introverted (according to what I've read on the subject) and value my freedom and privacy. I need occasional solitude so my "batteries" can recharge. Some folks have difficulty understanding this in the highly extroverted world we exist in. I'm not an island though, and do socialize when all my "systems" are a go! My social skills are poor except for rare moments and exceptions (hoo boy) and I just don't feel the need to have some things that others seem to think they must have.
What I’m doing with my life
I was widowered in '03 and retired in '07. I cautiously pursue
happiness and am having a little more fun without having to look
and my watch to see if it's time to go to work. Don't really know
what "happiness" is for me, but am content with the way things are.
I’m really good at
Never found anything I was really good at...
The first things people usually notice about me
Not a gd thing...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
books: history, technical, military, science, adventure, fiction,
factual
movies: the older stuff, otherwise not much any more (a few exceptions)
music: take it or leave it, nowadays mostly leave it...
movies: the older stuff, otherwise not much any more (a few exceptions)
music: take it or leave it, nowadays mostly leave it...
The six things I could never do without
I suppose I could do without much of anything, but my existence is
much more joyful with:
my son & daughter...
my home...
FREEDOM!
my toys...
my critters...
my son & daughter...
my home...
FREEDOM!
my toys...
my critters...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is God going to be really pissed at me when I face His judgement
for being such an idiot, or will He recognize me as just part of
His creation, with all the faults, imperfections and differences
manifested in this existence?
On a typical Friday night I am
1) Having a meal & drinks out by myself or with
acquaintances...
2) Wrapping up the day trying to get things done on the property...
3) Playing games on the computer/internet surfing, like now...
2) Wrapping up the day trying to get things done on the property...
3) Playing games on the computer/internet surfing, like now...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
How little I give a damn about most of the things people seem to
think they HAVE to have...
The freedom I have by not caring what other people think of me...
The freedom I have by not caring what other people think of me...
You should message me if
You're interested/intrigued/curious...
bored?
bored?
