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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:58pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a deep thinker, ambitious and creative. I value experiences over material things and I've collected some amazing ones. I'm usually attracted to the types that want to leave this world a little better than they found it. I think you'll find I'm pretty different from the many "tech bros" lurking around the Bay Area.

True to the profile name, I'm also a traveler. I've lived all over the United States (and several other countries) and have been lucky enough to travel around the world (I have an album with a few travel photos on the OKC website if you're interested). Always like discussing social issues/theory. Love that shit so much I have a Masters in International Studies haha.

"Not all those who wander are lost"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Constantly learning, experiencing and evolving...

At this moment I'm the director of a language school in SF that delivers awesome, immersive language programs. Me encantaria encontrar algunas personas hablar en Español conmigo!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty damn good at trivia and I will beat you at bocce ball.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dunno, I'm sitting over here and you're over there. You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I LOVE music. I play guitar and I'm one of those people who has a soundtrack to their life... I have too many favorites to list here but I mostly like the old stuff: classic rock, jazz, blues, folk, old school reggae. I also love 90's rock, acoustic singer/song writer stuff and some hip hop.

Food, yumm. I worked as a cook in a few nice restaurants during my undergrad years (and for a while after) and I'm definitely not a picky eater. That being said, I believe diet is important and I'm conscious about what I put into my body.

Books: I'm always reading. Big on social theory and I can talk about it for hours (Foucault, Gramsci, Marx, William Robinson, Harvey, Bourdieu are a few faves). On the fiction side I get down with some nerdy sci-fi and fantasy. You know, LOTR, Ender's Game, Dune, A Song of Ice and Fire.

I love movies, mostly historical drama/fiction, sci-fi, action, and documentaries.

Eh, not so big on TV... When I do watch it's usually HBO or sports.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course friends and family are at the top but otherwise:

1. Sufficient sleep. Seriously, I need at least 8 hours or I'm liable to make the Grinch look charming.
2. Good cooking
3. Sex. I actually considered quoting Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing" right here haha.
4. My passport
5. Exercise
6. Social theory/philosophy (nerd alert)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to go hiking, what I'm cooking for dinner, what song I want to learn, why the Red Sox offense is sucking this year, how amazing it is that the Celtics made the playoffs, additions to my at-home gym, what concert I wanna see next, Game of Thrones...

On the more serious side: the inner-logic of (transnational) capitalism; the intersections between gender, race and class and how they shape our world; climate change and its effects. You know, the usual.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on my deck with wine in hand, cooking a great meal or headed out with a few friends...
You should message me if
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You're open-minded, passionate, active, have knowledge of the world outside the United States, appreciate the outdoors, creativity and keeping a positive mindset.