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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:12am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm single and ready to share time together with a woman yearning for such and to be part of a relationship of just the two of us. We're only getting older, and good men who love their kids, are fit, and are free of addictions are going fast. I'm not waiting. So, see if I'm the man for enjoying the years to come. Let's go! We all learn that if you’d like to see what ingredient makes up the most of a food product, you simply read the ingredients list and look to see which one is listed first. That makes up that product the most. Similarly, the first thing that makes up my mind, body, and personality is romance and passion. Then, why am I suddenly single? You ask. I’ll get to that. But, the way I use romance and passion in ‘everything’ can be shared over a chat session or phone call. I don’t want to just let that out there for anybody and everybody to learn; otherwise, my future mate will not have anything private to share with her girlfriends after our date.
Here are some quick points for those who don’t like to read and ‘read into’ what someone has taken time to write in a paragraph:
I’m tall and fit ... I owe it to myself and my mate to be healthy.
I’ve never ever been a drinker, smoker, used drugs, or any tobacco use of any sort.
I’ve never been in trouble with the law nor have any history of being abusive
I’ll always enjoy the gym and physical fun
I don’t have a little black book or a long dating history at all
I became single in June of 2011.
And finally, I’m proud of having a faithful mindset and would be so with a future woman, so please don’t send messages as I’ve received before just wondering if I’d like a ‘casual encounter’ or ‘is it true what they say about you tall men with big feet?’ That talk cheapens any communication and is the kind of messaging high school kids’ use. Now, it is cute when women say that they could wear their high heels with me and still enjoy their man being taller. That kind of stuff if insightful and fun to talk about. I’m not the usual man, by choice. I don’t see how a man with a lovely woman can just lay on couch and say goodbye to her without looking when she’s leaving. I mean, do something that will make her look forward to coming home like asking her to wait just 2 more seconds for you to hug her goodbye. Let her know that she’s special enough for a quick run to the door. He’d sure run to the TV to see that ballgame reply, right? Maybe take 10 seconds and run your fingers behind her ears into her hair so she’ll lean that pretty face back and allow you to enjoy one more kiss before she’s out of your sight. Who knows, that just might make her finish her shopping and come back home a bit sooner! ;) Sorry, I’m creative and like to communicate, so I need to get to the ‘about me’ information. Here goes.

How about what I’m looking for in a woman. Of course, this is my wish list, but any woman may have that love language that works with mine. Thinking of that, have you read the book, The 5 Love Languages? If so, you’ll like knowing that my love language is “Touch and Words.” And, I seek the same in a woman. I read the book this December in about 3 hours at the local book store. You do the same and learn how you take/receive affection. With me being “Touch and Words” means that I’m all about physical touch and sensuality. My hands will always want to give you touches, holds, and embraces that convey so much no matter how slight the touch is. I’ll use words all the time to remind you about your pretty hair, your eyes that would be wonderful to kiss if you’d just close them for me, and even write you a short note one morning to start building your anticipation of our evening of being together. If you’re a “Touch and Words” love language woman, then you’ll understand why I find it so important to give a little pat on the shoulder or run your fingers along your lover’s shoulders as you simply walk passed them. That can be so soothing to a sensual person like me. I know that sometimes a woman may like a gentle hair combing done with my hands while watching a movie, and then she may like a smack on the rear in the kitchen to remind her that I still find her sexy, too. If a man really cleaves unto his woman, he’ll know to do both.

What part of a woman’s looks turns me on? Hands down, I am made weak-kneed when I see brunette or dark haired woman. Oh, and if she has dark eyes, I’ll be wagging my tail like an excited puppy. Those two features will have me at your mercy faster than anything else. Since I’m 6’4”, I’d like a taller woman, but that’s not a big deal. I do spend alot of time keeping myself in healthy shape. I can’t help but be attracted to a woman who does the same. I don’t expect you to be a fitness instructor, just a woman who cares about her health and ability to enjoy more physical things with her man. I’ll never look like a men’s underwear model, but I’ll be masculine and strong so as to be a worker around the home and something my mate would want to run her hands across as a sense of security and desire. I love hard labor work. Sounds odd, but I’m the guy you’ll see working in the yard using heavy tools and sweating in the sun while loving every second. I think a woman would like to watch out her window and admire her hard working man and find him such a turn on while doing masculine work that she’d just have to ask him to come to the door and give her a kiss. Even the Bible says that it is good to glory in your labor and admire a hard day’s work.

While I’m just entering my 40s, I still am a kid. I’m gonna act a fool at the lake or in the yard. My daughter is going to be 20, and I’ll still drive her crazy with embarrassment. I don’t go to clubs much, since I don’t have a woman, but I like to go and watch couples dance. I’ve only slow danced a couple times since being single, and I loved it. It would be great to learn to do real couples dances. I think genuine partner dancing is an incredibly romantic thing to do with your mate. I’ll save that talk for a phone call, but I’ll say that it makes me feel like I’m a sense of security and even more of a man when a woman hides in my long arms that protect her from worries and lets me take control of things for a while. I can only imagine how great a kiss would be with her right in middle of the dance floor in front of all to admire.

Wonder why I posted the pictures of myself that I did? Well, some are to show that since many years ago, I’ve always been in the same healthy shape and plan to stay that way in years to come. I know that women never get too old to want to see a man’s entire length or height as a full body shot. Since I’m usually the one taking the pictures, there are not many of me as the subject. I do love to dress snazzy when the time calls for it. I’ll never be the guy who goes around shirtless or in a muscle shirt. I’m very confident and don’t need to scream insecurity by going without a shirt in the hopes of earning a ‘woo hoo!’ from a girl or similar. If those guys' egos feed off every passerby that is out there, then what privilege does his woman have by being his woman? Shouldn’t she have some kind of ‘exclusive’ rights to him and even bragging rights to share with her girlfriends? I think that she’d have way more fun describing how her man looks in boxers or shirtless working in the yard and feel special by being his woman. But, if all her friends have seen him just the same, then how can she feel privileged when shy lies by him in bed knowing that he’s flaunted himself as best he could to any gal that would look. Not me. What am I ready for? I’m ready to commit to a mate and not just string you along until something better comes along. If we really enjoy each other and are attracted to each other, I will not suddenly go cold and pull that famous ‘we’re going too fast’ talk. If I’m on a dating site, then that means I’m searching for a mate. If a man is still wishy washy and will put up some guard after a girl starts liking him, then he needs to not be on a dating site like this. I am ready and not scared of a woman whose kiss makes my toes curl and gets me to licking my lips in anticipation of the next wonderful kiss. There’s no high that can match a great kiss.
Other men may have to study how to be romantic and such, but I’m very creative in work and in hobbies, so that creativity goes good with my sensual side. I don’t have to be trained to be that way. I’m just always seeing ways of making something more memorable or thrilling. I love to communicate, and it shows in this very long ‘about me’ info and is also clear in my ‘communicating’ by touch and words.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at Eastman Chemical in Kingsport, enjoying some great coffee, great music and movies, and even greater company. I'm in charge of the positive happy folks I allow around me. I'm also taking old school friends out to dinner so as to re-connect with them. Not forsaking a true joy of mine . . . physical fitness. It's up to me to stay in shape enough to enjoy hobbies, do things around the house without being winded, and still be able to pick my woman up and carry her to the nearest landing spot for some unexpected passion.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I set my mind to. But, specifically, graphic design, photography, video and video editing, audio editing, typing, softball, baseball, volleyball, talking creatively as romantic or as public speaking, I LOVE public speaking, working with computers, exercising, writing, training or teaching, using my HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) traits to sense the moods of those around me to then alter my mood to uplift them,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall, usually smiling, am easily approachable, am a talker who is well read, . . . oh, and I like to give hugs. Sounds unmanly or something, but as I get older and have been around many folks going through their own dilemmas, I foung that a quick 'arm around the shoulder' can totally change their emotional health for the day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a real book, music, and movie lover! I'm 'reading' several books right now. I can't wait to share more on this topic later. Hey, how about message me, and we'll share our reading interests!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cracking up . . . not a laugh, but really getting cracked up and can't breath.
2. Holding hands and tracing her fingers with my own
3. Hearing my daughter say, "Watch me dad" no matter her age.
4. Kissing a woman who 'gets' that kissing is the great horderve of a sexual experience in which an 'appetite for kissing' is a must. It's just like why you put chocolate syrup on ice cream. Meaning, you're putting two things together for pleasure. Kissing and sensualness spawn the moment of being intimate when it 'peaks' and you finally let go and lose control of yourself if for just the slightest moment of time, yet you do handover control to that moment and writhe in the intertwining of affections.
5. Time with great coffee, a book, and be amid others doing the same.
6. Combing a woman's hair with my fingers then kissing her lower back . . . for a long time. Sensualness is rare among most men, but not with me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why is it that being 6'4" is actually a curse: in the shower, the darn shower head hits me in the chest, in the bed, my feet hang off the end of the bed, when kissing, she has to get on the third step to be face to face . . . I'm a 3 stepper! When shopping for denims, they never have my inseam of 36 or 37 inches, crap.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'll park my butt at a cafe and sip on a great tasting flavored coffee or latte as I take in some reading. I cherrish the time of feeding my hungry mind with new things to learn and share in conversation with others. Being a well-read man is overlooked by most men. Generally, if by myself, I'll hang and relax where I can be around others enjoying the same. That's why I like the cafe environment. To sit and read as others chat and enjoy the personal time of who they're with. There's nothing like hearing laughing and positive taking in these days of stress.

Depends on what we both need that night. If we've been out and about quite a bit lately, then I'll tell her, "Why don't we stay in tonight." To tend to our garden of a relationship, we need to have the intimate time together whether romantic or being soothing company for one another. If we need to get out and live it up, then we’ll find a new place for dinner, maybe a movie or live music, then find what will feed our likes. Maybe she’d like to try on a ton of new clothes and let me admire her feel sexy, or maybe she’d want to watch me try on clothes and then sneak into the changing room with me after admiring her man and can’t wait to intertwine our affections for a moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am what's called a "Highly Sensitive Person, or HSP." If you've read the book titled that by Elaine Aron, you'll be excited to learn more about my natural sense of touch and affection. After reading the book titled, The 5 Love Languages, I now know that I'm a touch & words romantic, rare according to the book.
You should message me if
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You're single, a white woman, mature and experienced in past relationships to know to act now and pursue me if you're attracted since we're only getting older and there are plenty of single over forty women out there nipping at your heels for the few healthy and faithful men left, you have no addictions as I am totally free of any addictions myself, you love your family and interact with them often, and finally . . . message me if you feel that a man only is part of a relationship and not a controlling insecure little boy in a man's body. I'll be faithful and uplift you in actions. I'll listen. I'll validate your thoughts and concerns as part of this relationship.