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1antiman

43 / M / straight / Single

Paradise, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Transportation
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Greek_Ancient, Greek_Ancient, Greek_Ancient, Greek_Ancient

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I am Loyal, Honest, and Fun Loving.

My Self-Summary

I am 5'9" with blue eyes and brown hair. I have no kids but raised two nephews and got them through school and on there own.

I am a long time Bronco fan and have been since '82. This is the only sport I watch and you don't have to worry about the T.V. being monopolized. Well, except for Monday nights when I've gotta watch "24". Oh yea, and I like "Family Guy" too. Come to think of it, I do watch a lot of T.V.!

I was married for 17 years and have been alone now for a year and a half after leaving my ex-wife. She started doing drugs and when I asked her to choose, she did... and now I am here to meet you!

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What I’m doing with my life

Right now I take care of my elderly father. He is very independent but I keep him active going out to the casinos and stores.

I was a truck driver for awhile. It was okay but it was lonely being out there for so long. I have damaged my knees and now I am trying to get disability but would be really happy to find a job I can do.

Just to update I got a job, YEAH and now I am just waiting for my background check (No I am not worried) and then I am back working. It sounds like a cool job and it is working with dissabled people. It looks like a way new direction I will be going in. It is kinda scary but being unemployed is real scary so I will take the lesser of the two evils.

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I’m really good at

I love to cook and enjoy making new foods and trying new dishes. I really like seeing someone enjoy what I cook for them. I also spent a lot of time with my mom in the kitchen and as a kid, I learned a lot about cooking and mixing flavors. My favorite is making soup but I also make a mean roast and do a pretty good BBQ, if I say so myself.

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The first things people usually notice about me

I am very laid back and casual, not a jealous person. I am a bit on the shy side but do enjoy meeting new people. I am a bit on the heavy side but I have lost 10% of my total weight now since I found I am pre-diabetic. The doctors told me I have caught it in time so I wont be having to do the shots and I can get off the pills if my weight keeps dropping.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite movie of all time is The Breakfast Club.
I always thought my favorite music was classic rock but now I really like alternative rock. On a side note, I listen to satellite radio and only to Opie and Anthony.

I love Italian food. Pasta of any kind is good at anytime in my book. Pizza has always been a favorite too.

Unfortunately I have just found out I am diabetic and I watch my diet. On the up side it has helped me lose weight and that's a good thing.

As far as my favorite books, that's a tough one. I like mystery / horror (Stephen King) and fantasy (Tolkien).

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The six things I could never do without

The six things I could never do without...

Family. My father, four sisters and one brother.

My friends. I've kept a few very close ones over the years.

My Cat, Dumpster Diver. I found him as a kitten. He had been hit by a car and I thought he was dead. I nursed him to health, tamed him (he was very wild even as a kitten) and now he is mine.

My Computer. How else do I get to meet people on here?

My Plasma T.V. It is kinda a package deal to go with my Playstation 3. I really am a kid at heart.

And finally the hope that I will find someone to share the rest of my life with. Someone out there is looking for me.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about my life; what I have done and what I would like to do with it. I also think about the choices I have made. I know I am not breaking any new ground here because I think most people do just that. I also have been spending time wondering if I am ever going to find a job? Now I am going to think about what I have written here, if it sounds good or bad, and if people are reading all this stuff anyway. Hmmm, now that's a lot to think about, isn't it?

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On a typical Friday night I am

Lately not much of anything. I would like to find someone to do things with though. I would love to say I have all kinds of things I do but that's just not the case. I enjoy going to the movies and watching the tube at home.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

After my marriage broke up I have been quite alone. I have a lot of love to give but it is so 'weird' being alone. I don't like being this open to rejection and really am more comfortable in a relationship.

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You should message me if

You should message me if you are sincere and as tired of searching for someone as I am. If you are looking for a guy who appreciates you for being you and you understand I have been through the 'marriage thing' and came out bumped and bruised (with my values and integrity intact). I am not looking for a boss or a servant, I am looking for a best friend. Also since you have made it to the bottom of all this why don't you message me? If nothing else I could use the constructive criticism.

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