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49 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:24am
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Following years in finance, the recession helped me make the long overdue jump from volunteering in soup kitchens to actually running one...the beginning of a productive, rewarding and fun journey!

My vacations call for variety...last year they included an adventure to Peru (Machu Picchu, rafting & hiking, improving my spanish), a relaxing stay on the beach, and a strenuous excursion to California for a salsa boot camp extravaganza. If you like salsa or swing, you’re in good hands.

Dust off your bicycle and let’s get ready for this year’s “5 Boro Bike Tour.” I’m also lucky to have easy access to one of the city’s oldest parks (in Hell’s Kitchen where the Sharks and Jets battled) for shooting baskets.

I like splurging on wine and laundry, though I must be extremely careful with the latter – apparently there was some laundry/dry cleaner’s convention at which they decided: PERFECTLY OK to shrink x-tall clothing in half!
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping it balanced. I’m passionate about what I do, but make time for family and friends. Ready to move on in my personal life too (with you!).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with just about anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile - when people look up, it's often there!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recently books: Serendib, Touching the Void
The New Yorker, NYT, The Onion.

Jazz & blues classics: Ella, Nat King Cole, Sonny Rollins.
Galactic, Rebirth Brass Band, Andrew Bird, etc.

Provocative films - Indies, Foreign, even mainstream.

9th Ave ethnic food variety.

Museums & ballgames
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seeing old friends, making new ones, new adventures, all four seasons, cycling the West Side Highway at sunset, and pancakes (organic blend, if it's your preference) on Sun morn.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I've posted way too many photos...
You should message me if
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Your a prospective best friend, open enough to talk, patient enough to listen. Your excited to meet my friends, and introduce yours. You're ready for something real and lasting.