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  • Ages 26-56
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5' 11" (1.80m)
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Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Native NYCer living in Park Slope; working as a writer of science and philosophy books. I'm playful and passionate, upbeat, worldly/world-traveled, grounded/well-rounded, openly communicative, book/people/street smart, creative/imaginative, adventurous/spontaneous, athletic, sensual, unconventional, reliable/considerate--a proverbial nice guy with a bit of an edge.

Some of my interests include (in no particular order): Adventure seeking; theory/philosophy (my major); monkey business (my minor); bike riding/rollerblading through parks and streets--day or night; the surreal and absurd (in life and art); music/film (see below); long walks on the...(don't worry; I'm not going there); learning (and teaching) new words, concepts and skills; paradoxes; World/American history; roads less traveled; creative use of any environment (give me a stick, rock and water bottle, and I'll invent a game, make art or repair your engine with it); writing ("The 'God' Part of the Brain: A Scientific Interpretation of Human Spirituality" is one title); taking pictures/making digital art; following pop and indie culture; playing tennis/guitar; architecture/interior design/lighting; sensuality/eroticism; sneaking into places; bioluminescence; etymology; chess/board games; swinging from chandeliers (just checking to see if you're still with me); random treks by bike, foot or car…or hovercraft, if you happen to have one; stoop sales/flea markets/antique shops; documentaries; order; chocolate; chaos; carpentry/repairing stuff (if it's broke, I'll fix it); black licorice, strong coffee, tequila, grass....a healthy lifestyle mixed with junk food indulgences.
What I’m doing with my life
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A little bitta dis...a little bitta dat
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've got an eclectic assemblage of mad skills...Let's just say that when the zombie apocalypse comes, I'm one of those guys you want on your side.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My penetrating eyes, broad shoulders and the piece of broccoli caught between my teeth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Radiohead, The Rolling Stones, R.E.M., Rush, Ricki Lee Jones; Bowie, Beastie Boys; Beatles, Beck; Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, Peter Gabriel; Stravinsky, Stevie Wonder, Soul Coughing, Seal, Sondheim, Smashing Pumpkins, Steely Dan; Elbow, Eels, Ellington, Eurythmics, Eminem, ELO, Elton John, Elvis Costello--over 25,000 songs on my i-tunes

Film: Cuckoo's Nest, Goodfellas, All That Jazz, The Matrix, Amelie, Little Children, The Usual Suspects, Adaptation, Bullets Over Broadway, Rushmore, Sideways, Apocalypse Now, Sunset Boulevard, Ed Wood, Happiness, Godfather I & II, The Incredibles, American Hustle, Shawshank Redemption, Eternal Sunshine, Fight Club, Election, It's a Wonderful Life, A Serious Man, Crimes & Misdemeanors (own about 300 films/tv series/documentaries...I'm a sucker for good writing.)

TV: Six Feet Under, The Wire, Breaking Bad, True Detective, Fargo (the FX show), Masters of Sex (1st season), House of Cards, Sopranos, Lost, 30 Rock, The Office, Portlandia, Futurama...and if you haven't seen it, for God's sake, watch HBO's "Olive Kitteredge."

Books: Dostoyevsky (Notes from the Underground), Lewis Carroll (Alice, of course), Shakespeare (Hamlet), Tom Wolfe (Electric Cool Aid, Bonfire), Isaac Bashevis Singer (The Spinoza of Market Street); Pagels (The Cosmic Code), Bukowski (Ham on Rye); Italo Calvino (Cosmicomics); Palahniuk (Lullaby), Adams (Hitchhiker's Guide), Asimov (The Foundation), Irving Stone (The Agony and the Ecstasy)....And though I love a great novel (or play), truth be told, I read more non-fiction than anything i.e., world history, science, theory/philosophy, art history, biographies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Self-Awareness
2) Laughter
3) Imagination
4) Adventure
5) Love
6) Lust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
man's place in the universe...that, and what you'd look like naked
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home alone in my socks and underwear arranging my Hummel figurine collection.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a Cybernet C46 Series Android--please don't tell my manufacturer that I told you.

My sexual safeword is: antidisestablishmentarianism.

Rather than bend down, I often pick things up off the floor with my toes.
You should message me if
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You're cool and fun.

"The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it - basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.” ~Bukowski