so, i have recently decided less is more. i am a thinker and enjoy intelligent conversation. i hate condescending people and arrogance. i love honesty and great sense of humor, i think it is extremely sexy. my schedule is a nightmare and difficult to work with, however i have responsibilities and priorities that are currently just that. i am honest and blunt; for the most part, in a less than crude manner. i believe compassion and empathy are a vital part of society and become annoyed when i come across apathy. if i think of anything else i will update this again later.

Learning everyday and everywhere! Also working on the world's 2nd largest construction project.

getting to the point. finding solutions. adapting to new and difficult situations. laughing and finding the humor and the positive in situations. reading. Remembering we all see the world through our own windows. Finding delicious indie beers.

i don't know. i know what i hope they notice, but have yet to poll anyone on what they noticed initially.

UPDATE: I was told my eyes and friendly kind smile- also (less flattering) my voice, not annoying just a naturally louder voice

Favorite Music: propaghandi, nofx, bikini kill, tilt, pennywise, seaweed 7, skankin' pickle, rancid,tool, cypress hill, appalachian folk music, screeching weasle, tori amos, face to face, bad religion, primus, johnny cash, tori amos, sublime, circle jerks, and so on.

Favorite TV Shows: game of thrones, parenthood, tosh.o, bob's burgers, the regular show..simpsons, weeds, raising hope, Sons of Anarchy, family guy, that 70's show, true blood, the big c, law and order svu, csi, the riches, testees, always sunny, three sheets

Favorite Movies:big fan, dale and tucker vs evil the killer inside me, all the little animals, the machinist, tank girl, overboard, The Poughkeepsie Tapes, The Tale of Despereaux, red sonja, fight club, kids, old school, good porn, my own private idaho, the rivers edge, house of 1000 corpses, saw, a series of unfortunate events, Constant Gardner, House of Flying Daggers, Kung Fu Hustle ...

Favorite Books:
the dance of anger, the dance of decpetion, meant to be wild, maps of the mind, anarchists cook book, catcher in the rye, the old man and the sea, island of the blue dolphin, most dean r koontz, To My Grandaughter; The Story of You.

Favorite Foods:
sushi, sushi, sushi, vegetables, specifically green peppers, great salads, good steaks, and all the regular faves.

The ability to contribute to society, newspapers (online or actual paper), books, music, jokes and friends.

My next great adventure, our economy, my house and how to make myself more domestic (i am severely domestically challenged), trying to understand why people lie, those who lack empathy, what stops people from growing, how to be a better person, how to add more hours to my day, great quick meals, how to balance quality with convenience, poetry (bukouwski mainly), our evolving world and society, how those who know everything have room to learn anything, the future of countries that have suffered great social losses, why some people are so certain we are not all connected, the string theory, why americans love pharmaceuticals so much, true evil, fear of judgment (and how it holds people back) my job, sex. I think of many other things, but this is ample.

I try and do something new whenever possible, however things I do on the reg; go out for an exceptional meal, spend time visiting with my friends (who I hold near and dear to my heart), going to bed early, sledding (when applicable), hanging with my super dysfunctional family, arriving somewhere that required an airplane, playing piano...I mean who the fuck wants typical? I HATE typical.

I truly want a tattoo on my arm that says "FARKLE FOREVER"

You are a decent conversationalist, have a healthy sexual appetite, but have manners and common sense.