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30 Allston, MA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 8:29am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am honest, quiet, pensive, thoughtful, curious, and introspective. Sometimes I'm stubborn. I'm working on that.

I like loud music, technology, strong coffee, interesting noises, and black clothing.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a software company that makes products for the TV and film industry. I manage a small group of technicians. What I do is somewhere between sysadmin, teacher, and product specialist. I travel a lot for work. I have a pile of transit passes from various places. I've been all over the US, to Canada, the Netherlands, the UK, Japan, and Mexico. I'm hoping to go to Hong Kong or somewhere in South America this year.

I'm often doing things with a bicycle: breaking it, fixing it, hopefully riding it. I'm occasionally playing guitar, making synthesizer noises, or drumming, though not as often as I would like.

I am learning to take photographs. It is difficult and deliberate, and therefore, I think I like it a lot. I don't think that I've spent enough time on it to be good at it yet, but perhaps I'll get there. 10,000 hours, right?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Crashing my bike. I wish I was not so good at this.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure. I used to have a lot of hair, but not anymore.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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important novels: Neuromancer, Bluebeard, The Heart Is Deceitful above All Things

important movies: I Heart Huckabees, Taxi Driver, Alien, American Beauty

I haven't been watching a lot of TV recently, but I liked Breaking Bad. Mythbusters is one of my favorite shows.

I like a lot of music. Telefon Tel Aviv, Squarepusher, Fiona Apple, Neil Young, and Deftones are a few favorites. I have cultivated an IDM station on Pandora that I'm sure is better than most of the stuff you listen to. Don't think so? Try me. I don't believe in reincarnation, but if I did, I would want to come back as Missy Elliott.

I like all food, especially if it's spicy. There's an Indian restaurant in my neighborhood that supplies me with a lot of takeout. I drink my coffee black and my whiskey neat like nature intended.

I'm usually behind on my podcast subscriptions: Radiolab, This American Life, 99% Invisible, Lexicon Valley, Freakonomics Radio, Benjamen Walker, way too many...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
problems to solve
something to make noise with
time alone to think
music to listen to
something else…
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The drums on Massive Attack records.
John Bonham's kick drum and all of the mandolin parts on Led Zeppelin III.
Why isn't this computer doing what it's supposed to be doing?
How can I afford a bigger apartment so I have more room for synths and guitars?
How do people survive in such impractical shoes?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking control of the drum machine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am shy.
You should message me if
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You read something interesting, intriguing, or infuriating among all those words up there.