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32 M Elmhurst, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:15am
Asian, Middle Eastern
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Islam, and somewhat serious about it
Working on space camp
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a goofball that knows when to be serious. I'm a gentleman but also don't mind being rowdy when necessary.

I'm looking for a lady that can make me laugh and help me evolve into a better me. Bonus points if you appreciate the simple things and we cam listen to the same music and just cool out.

I believe in opening doors and being a gentleman but also habitually mock all. My favorite things are volunteering; music with soul; enjoying laughs & progress oh and also cookies. Seriously give me a cookie & you ma'am have just made a friend

A few things about me:
I'm decisive; not conforming; ambitious; moral; a grown up with big boy pants.

I'm grown and pretty much only interested in something of substance if you're life is about clubs or/and traveling that's fine but I just don't see us sharing a life together and I wish you well.

Self Evolution:
Spiritually: I've gotten rid of most of my negativity & recently began praying.
Mentally: I've studied a bit of philosophy and also incorporated strategy within my thought process.
Physically: I've lost a bit over 250lbs so far.

My philosophy is simple I strive to do things greatly. I believe in honor and never sacrifice my character. I wish ppl well even when its not in my best interest. I don't waste energy on drama & judging ppl. Smile when you can and when you can't just create one.
What I’m doing with my life
Have my own business and working on expanding it by making it more efficient and effective. Studying for further licencing to proceed with plans.

Volunteering at a food pantry roughly twice a month within the neighborhood.

Recently wrote a self help book that made it to the featured list of the website I posted it on.

Formulating a plan to transform a novel I wrote into a screenplay without interfering with current endeavours.

Getting healthier
I’m really good at
Ppl watching and making up their back stories and laughing, don't judge me they're usually hilariously inappropriate.

Reading ppl and pretty good at it. Except for some reason when a woman likes me I'm completely oblivious, funny stories...

Taking ppls nose if they get annoying

Embarrassing ppl in there phone that put me on speaker

Cooking with some grooves on (it relaxes me)

Seeing things differently than most ppl do.

Valuing substance over style


Sketching (got some stuff hanging on canvases at home)

Writing rhymes

Philosophizing (just got book I wrote on the featured section of the site I posted it on)

Listening to music (I listen to just about it all of it as long as it's in english)

Throwing imaginary things at friends and laughing when they duck

being goofy and having a laugh

turning chaos into opportunity

being a good listener

living honorably

Being supposedly one of the last men (I've been told)

Road rage, its a gift (only time I lose my cool)

Choosing to do what I have to do rather than what I'd want to do, cause I wear big boy pants (had to)!

Awesomest cuddler ever, part Teddy bear
The first things people usually notice about me
I smell awesome

Self style and confidence

Very observant, which is funny because I'm not judgemental I just read ppl.

If someone annoys me i'll take their nose (the reaction is always hilarious)

I'm either quiet & thinking or the loudest person in the room.

I do what I feel like & don't care much for rules
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: (not really a fan of reading)
The Prince: Makavelli
The Art of War: Sun Tzu
Laws of Power: some guy

Starry Night : Van Gogh (actually have a replica hanging in my kitchen)
2 pieces I made hanging at my place

Wreck it Ralph (don't judge me)
Boiler Room
Brown Sugar (yup a chick flick)
Super Bad

Black Michael Jackson
Barry (MFN) White
James Brown
Nate Dogg
80's music (just about anything from miami vice)
The six things I could never do without

Ambition, Drive, Strategy & Progress (counted as one)

The Laugh's and smiles (world can never take that away unless you allow it)

Music / Soul

Good deeds, I love the feeling

Faith that God looks after me & might think i'm hilarious (even though i'm not that religious)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the thought process was of the first person that ate an egg

If I had superpowers how much of my day I would spend just messing with ppl

Why ppl pretend to want something but their actions or lack of definitely reflect the opposite (hint hint hint make a move)

Why ppl enjoy the pity parties.

How would you react if you saw an Apple eat an Orange?

If I'll ever stop deep whispering the word sarcasm after being sarcastic *sarcasm

Would my computer spaz out if I Google the word Google

If I should cut back on coffee because now im just typing just to type
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends or family.

Or if im lucky home having some me time cheffing with a flick or/and cleaning the mess I've just re-made.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a sucker for love (definitely a problem because of my crazy chick magnet).

When I was 5 & the teacher asked what I wanted to be when I grow up. My response was the night rider car.

I've changed alot over the years from my values & priorities

Ask anything, be creative and show me you're more than just another pretty face
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You believe in something, anything.

You are capable of conversation.

You make an effort and not just wait for me to get my imaginary mind reading skills on because hey ain't got time for games, I'm a grown up with big boy pants.

Points if you're a bit of a goofball too and wanna yell at the movies together

You're a little bit weird, normal bores me.

Smile and actually want to smile, i'm not a fan of the *Angry Face.

dooo it, dooooo it (awesome points if you know what flick that's from)