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32 M Elmhurst, NY

My Details

Last Online
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Asian, Middle Eastern
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Islam, and somewhat serious about it
Working on space camp
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Gentleman & a Goofball that handles his business. I'm definitely a bit stubborn but am working on that but the flip side to that is that i'm decisive.

I'm chiefly looking for a lady that actually wants a relationship and to be the "Grown Folk" and not just looking trying to keep up with the "Joneses". If we can have some laughs and just cool out listening to music & converse i'll definitely give you a cookie.

A few of my favorite things:
Mocking (i'm a goofball)
Volunteering at food pantries
Music with soul
Creative outlets

Self Evolution:
Spiritually: I've gotten rid of most of my negativity & recently began sporadically praying.
Mentally: I've studied a bit of philosophy and also incorporated strategy within my thought process.
Physically: I've lost a bit over 250lbs so far.

My philosophy is simple I strive to do things greatly. I believe in honor and never sacrifice my character. I wish ppl well even when its not in my best interest. I don't waste energy on drama & judging ppl. Smile when you can and when you can't just create one.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Have my own business and working on expanding it by making it more efficient. Studying for further licencing to proceed with plans.

Volunteering at a food pantry roughly twice a month within the neighborhood.

Side Projects:
Recently wrote a self help book that made it to the featured list of the website I posted it on.

Formulating a plan to transform a novel I wrote into a screenplay without interfering with current endeavours.

Getting healthier
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ppl watching and making up their back stories and laughing, don't judge me they're usually hilariously inappropriate.

Reading ppl and pretty good at it. Except for some reason when a woman likes me I'm completely oblivious, funny stories...

Taking ppls nose if they get annoying

Embarrassing ppl on there phone that put me on speaker

Cooking with some grooves on (it relaxes me)

Seeing things differently than most ppl do.

Valuing substance over style


Sketching (got some stuff hanging on canvases at home)

Writing rhymes

Philosophizing (just got book I wrote on the featured section of the site I posted it on)

Listening to music (I listen to just about it all of it as long as it's in english)

Throwing imaginary things at friends and laughing when they duck

being goofy and having a laugh

turning chaos into opportunity

being a good listener

living honorably

Being supposedly one of the last men (I've been told)

Road rage, its a gift (only time I lose my cool)

Choosing to do what I have to do rather than what I'd want to do, cause I wear big boy pants (had to)!

Awesomest cuddler ever, part Teddy bear
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smell awesome

Self style and confidence

Very observant, which is funny because I'm not judgmental I just read ppl.

If someone annoys me i'll take their nose (the reaction is always hilarious)

I'm either quiet & thinking or the loudest person in the room.

I do what I feel like & don't care much for peoples rules
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: (not really a fan of reading)
The Prince: Makavelli
The Art of War: Sun Tzu
Laws of Power: some guy

Starry Night : Van Gogh (actually have a replica hanging in my Living Room)
2 pieces I made hanging at my place

Wreck it Ralph (don't judge me)
Boiler Room
Brown Sugar (yup a chick flick)
Super Bad

Black Michael Jackson
Barry (MFN) White
James Brown
Nate Dogg
80's music (just about anything from Miami Vice)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Ambition, Drive, Strategy & Progress (counted as one)

The Laugh's and smiles (world can never take that away unless you allow it)

Music / Soul

Good deeds, feels like nourishment

Faith that God looks after me & might think i'm hilarious (even though i'm not that religious)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the thought process was of the first person that ate an egg

If I had superpowers how much of my day I would spend just messing with ppl

Why ppl pretend to want something but their actions or lack of definitely reflect the opposite (hint hint hint make a move)

Why ppl enjoy the pity parties.

How would you react if you saw an Apple eat an Orange?

If I'll ever stop deep whispering the word sarcasm after being sarcastic *sarcasm

Would my computer spaz out if I Google the word Google

If I should cut back on coffee because now im just typing just to type
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends or family.

Or if im lucky home having some me time cheffing with a flick or/and cleaning the mess I've just re-made.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a sucker for love (definitely a problem because I am a crazy chick magnet according to my friends).

When I was 5 & the teacher asked what I wanted to be when I grow up. My response was A Car.

I've changed alot over the years from my values & priorities

Ask anything, be creative and show me you're more than just another pretty face
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe in something, anything.

You are capable of conversation.

You make an effort and not just wait for me to get my imaginary mind reading skills on because hey ain't got time for games, I'm a grown up with big boy pants.

Points if you're a bit of a goofball too and wanna yell at the movies together

You're a little bit weird, normal bores me.

Smile and actually want to smile, i'm not a fan of the *Angry Face.

dooo it, dooooo it (awesome points if you know what flick that's from)