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38 San Diego, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 29, 2014
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Imagination is one of lifes greatest toys, optimism one of it's strongest medicines. I am a yin shell wrapped around a yang center, and ENFP Almost to the letter. People who still have and treasure their sense of wonder interest me most of all. In most situations I fit best in the grey spaces. Conversation, touch, laughter and learning are the foundation of all my interactions. I tend to lean toward feminism, prefer nonmonogamy and feel most at home in "alternitive" environments; even if I don't always play along. In almost all situations, I believe in taking the long way whenever possible. I get lost often and am often amazed by what I find. My most memorable plans usually involve a good measure of improvisation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working to live. Looking for a place to grow a garden. Pushing myself just a little bit harded. Keeping my eyes open for the next adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spending quality time with introverts. Creating adventure. Listening. Getting lost and finding my way without a GPS. Exploring both sides of the fence. Asking leading questions. Putting a positive spin on situations. Playing the Devil's advocate.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How calm I am. That I look surprisingly like someone they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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. Books: The Tao Te Ching, Life of PI, World war Z, Middlesex, The Prophet, The World Without Us, Sex At Dawn, Me Talk Pretty Someday, The Night Circus
Movies: The Princess Bride, Hero, Meet Joe Black, Inception, Death to Smoochie, What Dreams May Come, Spirited Away.
Music: Nina Simone, Chet Baker, John Lee Hooker, Alison Krauss, Amy Winehouse, Thievery Corp, The Black Keys.
I don't really have a favorite food. There are some things I don't like but not many.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Flow. Balance. Kissing just for the pleasure of kissing. Aquaponics and urban gardening. How much better the world might be if win win was valued above win lose. Sailing. All the logistics involved in hiking the PCT. How amazing it is to be living in the future. Living life with open hands.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting lost on a city hike. Playing with friends. Working. Dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an oven, not a microwave.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you looked through my questions and we answered one or more of your favorites the same. If you are poly or have a permission slip and are looking for a playmate. If you love the adventure that comes with getting lost. If you are interested in showing someone else what make your favorite places so great.