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1sdispater

34 / M / Straight / Married

Penn Valley, California

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Ethnicity
Other, Undeclared
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Icelandic (Poorly)

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I am geeky, inteligent, and laid-back.

My Self-Summary

I'm a house mommy, erm daddy, and have been so for the last seven years. I'm a self-styled geek, though I guess I tested out as a "cool nerd", too old to know or care about the difference now...

Update!!! I have re-entered the workplace and well, it's less pay and more work than when I left. I guess it pays the bills, but sheesh!

I love my children and will do most anything for them, though a good break every once in a while may be nice...

I talk with a lot of ...'s in real life and on the computer, guess I want people to make up their own mind and decide what should be included in the sentence.

What I’m doing with my life

Taking care of the kids, setting up summer plans, taking things one day at a time. Wife's deployed so playing single parent again, not so bad when they are older like mine, but still hard some times.

I’m really good at

Bullshitting, let's face it, if I can add to life with a word here or absence of one there, why not.

The first things people usually notice about me

I look like an authority figure, been asked if I’m a cop more times than not (I’m not, my mommy, erm wife, won’t let me).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A)-Anything Asimov, Niven, Wyndham, Koontz, Uris some Heinlein, Clark etc.... Favorites would have to be QB VII by Uris; The Cat Who Walks through Walls by Heinlein; The Foundation series by Asimov, From Earth to Heaven, just too many to count from him, even have old magazine articles just for his stories; Shadowfires and Dragon Tears by Koontz; The Day of the Triffids by Wyndham; The Man/Kzin Wars by Niven, Lucifer’s Hammer, Ringworld, Nemesis, oi, another who has too many to count! As I said, just love to read, done everything from fantasy to sci-fi to historical fiction to, yes, I know it’s sad, but I love reading technical manuals even……..

(B)-Closet Land, Downfall, most anything that makes you think, though good sci-fi and action cheese is a MUST in life.

(C)-Enya, Tori Amos. TSO, more into heavy metal and older rock than not, but love my classical too.

(D)-Sashimi, ummmmm, used to b a chef, so most anything, though steak tare tare is my alltime favorite.

The six things I could never do without

S,C and C (My 3 kids), snuggle time, watching my children sleep at night, what little mind I have left after a day of life with my family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why our society is so technically stagnate, contrary to the great leaps and bounds we have made in life, we waste more money on entertaining ourselves than anything else in the modern world.

On a typical Friday night I am

At home, with the kids.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Haven't been asked specifics yet......

You should message me if

You feel like it.

You’re as bored as I so you’re on a site like this.

For the hell of it.

Because I’m a “wild and zany guy”…

Because you’re old enough to know what I mean by the above quote.

Because you’re too young to have any clue as to what was meant by the above quote……..